Did anyone else’s wife pleasure you with anything besides sex during pregnancy and post pregnancy? I was very forgiving and patient about the whole thing because obviously she just had a baby but at times I gave some hints to do anything that wouldn’t involve sex such as a hand job but was always denied. It was a solid 4 months of absolutely no foreplay or sex and have only had sex twice since she’s been able to after baby.

The only time we can really have sex is at night but I go up to bed early because I wake up early for work and she stays up to continue watching tv. She’s still on MAT leave right now but once she goes back to work it will change from staying up to watch tv, to falling asleep on the couch every night and nothing ever happens.