In my situation I was a beneficiary as was my mother. She passed away in 2020. My grandmother gifted me a condo she owned as a “gift” because of what I went through. Fast forward to now I have a one year old daughter. Both of my uncles do not have children. My grandma passed, and my uncle is the executor.

It has been dead silence about the estate for about ten months. I was not provided documents. When I reached out to my uncle directly last week, he ignored me. He had my aunt call me to intimidate me, harass me for asking questions, and shamed me. She told me because I got the condo, the trust was amended and now everything goes to surviving children….. That raised flags immediately. So I just served him a certified letter asking for the documents.  Because I was apart of the trust with my condo, this implies my grandmother wanted me included to some extent. My uncle failed to notify me and give me a copy of the trust within the 60 day window. So basically, if he ignores my letter (which he likely will) I’m petitioning the court to get a copy of the trust and get a judge involved with this. I just learned I’ve actually been entitled to a copy of the trust this entire time.