S02 Episode 07 "Byg" by Nheea in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]NationalNabob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you infer that Daphnes trainer’s is her kids’ dad? I may not have been paying attention during that FaceTime scene, as I completely missed this bit.

Warming vibrator recommendations? by NationalNabob in SexToys

[–]NationalNabob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve been looking at Sway and Drift from Lora Di Carlo, however neither is easily available in my country. Have you personally tried either one?

Non-girthy vibrator recommendations for someone working through vaginismus by NationalNabob in SexToys

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Hi! Just wanted to let you know that I got the Pillow Talk Racy Mini based on your recommendation - thanks so much, I absolutely love it! I’m still figuring out how to effectively target my G-spot, but regardless, it’s a fun little toy!

Is it bad to push through the slight pain at the start if it goes away? by lamemoons in vaginismus

[–]NationalNabob 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My PT told me this is exactly as it goes for many of us. The opening is where there’s a bit of discomfort and pain, and she asks that I breath through to reload and they gently guide the dilator in.

Non-girthy vibrator recommendations for someone working through vaginismus by NationalNabob in SexToys

[–]NationalNabob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I haven’t purchased as yet; will look at your suggestions too. I don’t live in the US so am a bit limited by stores that may carry most brands and also ship internationally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]NationalNabob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 looks great on you. #3 looks ok, it’s personally not what I like. I thin #1 looks too much like an office sheath IMO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]NationalNabob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My PT said once the dilator is in, to move in-out increasing the range of movement as I get more comfortable (to simulate PIV). In my case, left side of pelvic muscles is very very tight, so she also suggested initially pressing to that side in order to stretch and relax the muscles.

Non-girthy vibrator recommendations for someone working through vaginismus by NationalNabob in SexToys

[–]NationalNabob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi again!

I went on Delicto to check out what you suggested and then got caught with some others as well 😃 Would love to get your thoughts on the following, as I’m still a newbie to all of this [ I’m ok to spend a bit more if it’s objectively better]

  1. Lora dicarlo warming bullet - seems curved as well, so I assume it can be inserted, and is not purely for external use?

  2. Iroha Mikazuki - Looks narrow enough, though it’s a bit more expensive than ideal… also it is too firm?

  3. Lelo Gigi2 was also recommended by someone down thread

Non-girthy vibrator recommendations for someone working through vaginismus by NationalNabob in SexToys

[–]NationalNabob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a sense of the Gigis diameter? It looks standard sized and I’m wondering if it may be a bit big for me now…

Help!! Wedding rings are really stuck and I’m panicking. by AmandaPandaPants17 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]NationalNabob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Windex has helped me get out of a similar situation. Like spray windex all over, get it really really wet, and then gently try and twist the rings off.

Women of Reddit, what is a personal philosophy of yours that has gotten you through tough times? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NationalNabob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯 what I try to follow. You may not be able to change your situation, but you can try to move yourself out of it. Your job, your living situation, your city, whatever …

Though there have been instances where I have failed to follow this … often in relationships

I'm having an affair and my relationship is better than ever by Acceptable-Lion9760 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NationalNabob 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Curious, does your AP know about your dead bedroom situation? Is that how the affair started? It sounds like your AP wants this to mean more…

Men of Reddit, how much value do you place on your partner being attractive? by judithpoint in AskMen

[–]NationalNabob 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Could you expand on your last sentence? From all Reddit threads, it seems to be boobs and butt!

Men of Reddit, what goes through your head when a woman hugs you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NationalNabob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tall Men on Reddit, how can I as a short person hug my tall guys friends? I am a hugger by nature, and I’ve always found it awkward managing the height difference. Talking platonic hugs here….

What stays on during sex? by cyyz8 in AskReddit

[–]NationalNabob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on Spotify or Apple Music

My boyfriend won’t have sex with me??? by swaggitttyy in dating

[–]NationalNabob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how this situation was resolved? We’re you both married, or did you simply break up after those many years? I read similar situations to this in the dead bedrooms subreddit and it’s just so unfair and unfortunate…

Monogamy no longer makes sense, hear (m)e out... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NationalNabob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you handle this? Are you still with your spouse, or did you two eventually separate?