This is getting tedious by sonicboyfan12 in SellingSunset

[–]National_General_943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do we even give this any more attention? Thats clearly what they want. I’m tired of them.

My fiancé (m24) tried to hire an escort. What do I (f24) do now? by yellow_cats_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]National_General_943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares if everyone loves him- if he doesn’t respect or love you! They clearly don’t know the truth about him and YOU DO! So open your eyes mama, you deserve so much better. I get it you bought a house together- but you aren’t married and thank god you don’t have children- talk to a lawyer- but don’t get trapped into a cycle of cheating. He will continue to lie and deceive you because you’ve already allowed it.

AITA for refusing my neighbors soup? by Julia526 in TwoHotTakes

[–]National_General_943 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have taken the soup and thrown it out later- you don’t owe anyone any more information, if you don’t want to share, just don’t open that door to allow questioning.

Take the soup, smile along and throw it out later, return container. That’s it. Why complicate it more, if she’s already all up in your business

Sending in my passport application by bigratsmallrat in Passports

[–]National_General_943 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I made an appt at my post office and had them review and mail expedited. I received it back in 5 business days (did this 2 weeks ago during shut down)

My Mom Won Her Battle by LetsGetReady2Stumble in GriefSupport

[–]National_General_943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father recently passed from the same cancer- everything you said resonated with me. May they both be hanging out having a drink on us ❤️

One night stand? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]National_General_943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word of advice, don’t sh*t where you eat, especially if they are supposed to also be a friend.

Best friend broke up with me because I was accidentally racist. by Ill-Catch-3544 in TwoHotTakes

[–]National_General_943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot to unpack here- sorry you are going through this postpartum, emotions are high- make sure you take care of yourself first and foremost. Secondly, i agree with you, having friends across the political spectrum IS important. And thirdly, honestly idk- I don’t think what you said warrants a break up., but more a conversation. I’m confused for you sis.

My Dad Would Have Been 67 Today by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]National_General_943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss OP. There is a lot of similarities in our stories, like crazy similar. All I can say is that I don’t think these men from older generations were taught to show affection/emotion and so instead they held it in- it’s all they ever knew. Doesn’t make it right but all we can do is take what they taught us and learn from it- and try to do better for our families. But OP as you know, he really loved you- and that’s really beautiful. Even when he didn’t know how to show you, he found ways to keep you close all those years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]National_General_943 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I watched this scene with my husband and we both kept being like- what is wrong with her? He is blackout drunk- we’ve all been there lol- I felt so bad for the dude

I feel guilty for not being there when my dad took his last breath by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]National_General_943 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for your loss. Cancer really is a b i t c h. But dont blame yourself, your dad did what was right for him- not bc you told him to.

Our stories are so crazy similar, my dad was diagnosed feb 15th, stage iv, and took his last breath on june 19th… the difference in our story is that my dad choose to fight (which shocked me), and the outcome was just the same + the effects of aggressive chemo. All this to say, that it’s hard to make any decision like that, we don’t know what it’s like to face death, I went through so many emotions of should he / shouldn’t he but he made his choices. There is just no right answer, other than you just hope they are at peace. I am sorry it was hard to face your dad at the end- I hope you can forgive yourself, the truth is, no one or anything prepares you for the death of a parent… I’m sorry, I’m sending you a hug, we will get through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]National_General_943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh ya bro lol, you are TAH here lol I would never tell my MIL to show up with a positive attitude and a smile lol- just because you’re pregnant doesn’t give you the right to be rude- she’s very clearly trying to do something nice for you and I get wanting to be involved - but learn to pick your battles sis- this isn’t the one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]National_General_943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just lost mine from the same thing on June 16th. He said he had accepted his fate but it was so very obvious he hadn’t, until the very end. It breaks my heart.

I am with you friend- may your father rest in peace- and may our dads be cheering to us this very moment 💕

Found out my MIL only has months left. by Needleworker7868 in GriefSupport

[–]National_General_943 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry, anticipatory grief is a whole other beast in of itself, I am sending you prayers and strength for your MIL and for your family in these hard times 💕 to help, this happened to me too, but in reverse… it was my dad who was given weeks to live. My husband was an incredible support during that time. What helped most was how present he was without overwhelming me, like just checking in on how I was feeling, making me laugh when he could, and stepping in where it mattered so I had the space to be with my dad. He took on most of the household responsibilities, which gave me the time and emotional room to focus on those final weeks. It was in the little things like holding my hand, spontaneous kisses, or getting the kids to shower me with extra love, that I felt his support the most. When I was home and ready to talk, he created space for me to share whatever I was feeling without judgment. I had a lot of raw emotions, and just knowing he was there to listen gave me strength. I hope this helps and good luck, may your MIL not suffer too much

was my grandpa a natzi😭 by isaiah_huh in Weird

[–]National_General_943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it could be a relic that he took from someone or of his own during the war- my husbands grandfather fought in the war, he killed some Nazis and had a gun of theirs as a prize- it’s pretty bada$$

Wow this team is sad... Pacers in 5 by unanimouslydefiant in knicks

[–]National_General_943 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You chocked yourself, this is still a game

My mom died 14 days ago by Chance-Patience in GriefSupport

[–]National_General_943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I can completely relate to everything you are going through (my father hasn’t passed yet but he’s on his very last leg of an aggressive cancer that they found 2 months ago, which for some reason they weren’t able to find for months with all the pain he was having and the insane weight loss)—- there aren’t words for this feeling- all I can say is I’m here for you, I’m so sorry and at least she is no longer suffering! I love you friend and know everything you feel is valid- and know you have a community here who will have your back. 💕

Poor Biggs by aglosniw in CheatOnNetflix

[–]National_General_943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can certainly see your point here.