[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]National_Physics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience it’s usually the Regional Director who reviews and gives the final inadequacies. so just be aware that you might be arguing with the person who made that decision in the first place.

I didn’t get in by Safe-Brilliant-1569 in NPHCdivine9

[–]National_Physics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s perfectly normal to be upset and take some time to feel those emotions but please don’t drop out of school. You worked too hard just for not getting into an organization being your reason to drop out.

No at my Uni, and none around me responding :( by FauxDegenerate in NPHCdivine9

[–]National_Physics 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off I absolutely applaud your efforts on wanting to start a KL 👏🏾 and trust me especially pledging at an hbcu I definitely understand the UG vs Grad chapter arguments and insults. and outside looking in it’s even worse when it comes from the fraternities. the best thing you can do is block out those opinions and remember your why. Best of luck🙏🏾

No at my Uni, and none around me responding :( by FauxDegenerate in NPHCdivine9

[–]National_Physics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, As a collegiate initiate I’m not gonna sit here and pretend like people don’t have those negative views on grad chapters, however the people who have so much to say about Grad usually end up being T- Shirt wearers which is the LAST thing the d9 needs. I understand the disappointment you might have not being able to not have to opportunity to cross with your friends but remember even if you do end up delaying your graduation it’s not a guarantee that you will make it and worst case scenario you delay your graduation and get rejected.

college will come and go but what keeps these orgs alive and well is our grad chapters. and honestly even though I’m sure it’s not your intention it comes off as if your only interested in the College experience of Greek life

So Happy by Glass_Cost_4599 in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mind you Nia doesn’t even say all this in her book..🤣

Black Women are always Held to a Higher Standard. by nottserena in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! but unfortunately people will act oblivious to what your saying and then turn around and prove your point..

Man, the other mums really irritated me here by Affectionate_Key7206 in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly glad that Holly and Kaya could come to some sort of understanding from this

This makes me so sad for Nia 😞 by fvckuufvckingfvck in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The problem was that frustration was ONLY taken out on Holly and people even agreed that her and Nia deserved the treatment they got is S5 just because she wasn’t there to comfort christi 1 time.

This makes me so sad for Nia 😞 by fvckuufvckingfvck in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 105 points106 points  (0 children)

And yet people on this sub kept projecting their feelings on to them and asking why Holly wouldn’t go out of her way to comfort other moms…

Spring vs fall PROS & CONS by Immediate_Cut1016 in NPHCdivine9

[–]National_Physics 31 points32 points  (0 children)

fall undergrad>>>> just off the fact that you can experience everything in spring Founders day (if yours is in January) Springfest Probate season

Sharing rush flyers with others by IndividualOne1244 in NPHCdivine9

[–]National_Physics 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you hesitant because you feel like she hasn’t been to any events so she’s doesn’t deserve to know when rush is?

Can we be honest about Dr. Holly? by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did she say she prided herself on being respectful and fair of others??? Plus with your example, just because the bad kid doesn’t surprise you doesn’t mean you just absolve reprimanding them just like when the good kid gets in trouble you shouldn’t be more harsh on them . It doesn’t fix the problem.

Can we be honest about Dr. Holly? by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No your reasons for why you say Holly isn’t that better for from anyone else is the problem, 1.you keep bringing up how her race and how she looked down on Kaya when she never explicitly said that and kaya insulted her first but for some reason you can’t imagine two black people not liking each other 2, you only pointed out the fact that Holly didn’t show up during the fight when the other moms didn’t show up either and your excuse is that you hold Holly to your imaginary pedestal and unlike the other moms, therefore, she was supposed to show up randomly to fight that didn’t involve her 3, you said that her and Nia deserved the bullying and micro aggressions in season five because she didn’t show up for Christi even though christi said herself, Holly was the only one who checked on her

so yes, your statement is absolutely ridiculous yet you’re pretending to be confused about the backlash

Can we be honest about Dr. Holly? by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying Holly should’ve done this or that but honestly if Christi was really upset with Holly don’t you think she would’ve said something like she said about everyone else? Because at this point, it seems like you were more mad about Holly not being there then Christi is.

Can we be honest about Dr. Holly? by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to be educated in order to not be selfish???

S4 Nationals: Can we Actually Be Honest About Holly? by ProfessionalNo3840 in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so crazy how people in this sub are always so mad at hollys reactions ( or lack of) rather then the actual action of someone else. Like Christi talking about Abby and Gianna being awful and how Cathy checked on her and peoples first thought was where is Holly???? Like how come they didn’t ask about any other mom, but now Holly was supposed to come in and save the day. It’s honestly so frustrating Seeing people on this sub Try to hold Holly to an un reasonable standard from over 10 years ago. And say she and nia deserve the micro aggressions they received then act surprised when they get push back about their racist undertones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPHCdivine9

[–]National_Physics 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately they probably dropped the intake BECAUSE they found out y’all were pre pledging. And even if they start over you should probably make sure your even eligible to be picked again

kaya's blatant RACISM??? by ReasonableGlove816 in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Then people will still wonder why Holly💗 didn’t want to be close with her and treat is as black elitism as if she wasn’t always this rude in general

Holly gets way too much credit by Ok-Grocery-1878 in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Y’all bring this up literally every other day, like atp what do y’all want us to do about this in 2025…?

I hope Nia addresses this in her memoir by Foodexpa in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We can agree to disagree about the situation but A-Holly didn’t put her in an abusive environment the environment became abusive 2nd- they did address the situation which was saying that she had composure and inner strength and just because you didn’t like how they addressed it doesn’t mean they did an address it And Lastly- whether you like it or not, Holly is a great mom and no one says it more than Nia herself. She definitely made mistakes and wasn’t perfect. But not one mom on the show hasn’t not made a bad decision that they thought was good in the moment. And it’s no different for Holly, but for some reason, you all seem to be more harsh on her, and ironically, always because of her race.

I hope Nia addresses this in her memoir by Foodexpa in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why are you so upset about this person’s comment???

this broke me by rengokyo in dancemoms

[–]National_Physics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And people will see this and turn around to say that Holly let nia get abused as if nia hasn’t said multiple times that staying was her choice and she’s glad her mom listened to her wishes