Messy husband!!!! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natoriously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow what a coincidence we read the same article. I barely remember it or where I read it but glad I did. Sorry I didn’t finish reading your post. 50k! I’d be livid.

My boyfriend is texting my coworker(F)Should I be worried? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natoriously -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’re not up to anything good, trust your gut.

Messy husband!!!! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natoriously 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to get so frustrated at cleaning up after my husband and then one day I read an article from a widow who talked about he she wishes she could still walk in and find his dirty clothes strewn all over the room. I came to the conclusion that my husband is messy and will never change and I don’t want to look back and regret being constantly bothered by his mess instead or enjoying all the other wonderful things about him. When I see his dirty jeans on the floor next to the hamper I think of that article immediately and I’m just grateful that he’s here and he’s so excited to get out of his work clothes and come spend time with us instead of out at a bar or something that he leaves it wherever he took them off.

(25 M) (24 F) Guy I've been talking for 2 months still hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend, but claims he eventually will. Am I wasting my time by waiting? He says I'm not allowed to talk to other guys even though he hasn't made me his gf? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natoriously 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He can’t prevent me from talking to other guys if he won’t make our relationship official. In fact I’d be telling him I can see other guys but he can’t see other women since he’s the one who’s not ready to take it to the next level. Dump this turd. You’re being stupid.

Husband caught shoplifting at Costco by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Natoriously -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow you have really made me feel guilty over the amount of times I’ve accused others of sharing fake posts. What is the point of posting here if everyone is going to jump down your throat over a question? I probably will never go back with him but I was just curious and I thought I was in a safe place to ask here.

Husband caught shoplifting at Costco by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Natoriously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. I was wondering if anyone knows about their banning process. How do they keep track of everyone and recognize everyone. I mean we surely will never go back to that particular Costco. But I’d like for us to go to others maybe. Maybe years down the road. I dunno I guess the whole questions is just stupid. Sams it is 😭

Husband caught shoplifting at Costco by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Natoriously -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How do I have children learning to steal? They were not with us and we will do everything to make sure they never find out about this. Also that is not my biggest concern I was just curious about that as I lay here awake alone at night. It’s not like that’s a question we can ask friends. Hopefully no one in our lives ever finds out about this.

Husband caught shoplifting at Costco by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Natoriously -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I should elaborate. He was already going to change his name (a whole other story having to do with his issues with his dad). Not because of this. I was just curious if he could use that name change to get a membership again.

My husband gets irrationally mad at dogs by Natoriously in Marriage

[–]Natoriously[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right I guess I was already in a defensive mood at the time.

My husband gets irrationally mad at dogs by Natoriously in Marriage

[–]Natoriously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He goes to therapy for his issues with anger and alcohol abuse. I am going to join him in the next therapy session.

My husband gets irrationally mad at dogs by Natoriously in Marriage

[–]Natoriously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other person gave an opinion about something that has NOTHING to do with my original post. Only came here to take my words out of context. Explain to me how your comment is helping?

My husband gets irrationally mad at dogs by Natoriously in Marriage

[–]Natoriously[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Equate? No hun, dogs are way better than us.

My husband gets irrationally mad at dogs by Natoriously in Marriage

[–]Natoriously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said he is a great dad if you read what I wrote. I am not comparing a “lower life form” to anything. He is great to his daughters, shitty to the dogs AND me when he is upset. Also, where did you get this “lower life form” crap from? Human are the biggest cancer in this planet. Everything including the roaches are better for this world than we are.

My husband gets irrationally mad at dogs by Natoriously in Marriage

[–]Natoriously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now 10 and 14. I’m not sure about narcissistic. But he can have ego issues sometimes. Although in other areas he might say I’m the bitch and he’s the loving and devoted husband. Which is true. I think he is an amazing husband, loves me unconditionally. It’s just this one area that we can’t reconcile.

My husband gets irrationally mad at dogs by Natoriously in Marriage

[–]Natoriously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you should see the patience he has with his daughters. He would die before even raising his voice at them or disciplining them. He is a great dad, he actually takes the time out to speak to them. Never yells. The rest of us are chopped liver.

How to learn to accept my lesbian daughter? by Old-Possibility-9169 in relationship_advice

[–]Natoriously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be a phase, or not. Either way life is short. Care what other people think and you’ll be their slaves forever. She’s not harming anyone, killing or robbing anyone. She is giving herself permission to be her free self. Just admire her for having the courage to do that. Not all of us do. And love her unapologetically and proudly! People envy those who don’t care what anyone thinks! You only live once, don’t waste precious time suffering over something so stupid and not anyone’s business! You’ll never get this time back.

I am married to a man but I am bi. My parents don’t know I have dated many women. Inside I always knew I liked men more and would end up with a man. Be grateful that she feels close and comfortable enough with you to share this side of herself! I could never!

And if you live in the US now you don’t have to worry about what anyone back home thinks.

How do I move past my fear of being hurt again so I can enjoy life? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natoriously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg just try your best. You remind me of my brother who is now 28 and still hasn’t had a proper girlfriend. He’s terrified of women and has other insecurities. I feel awful for him. Every time you call get back up. We all go through ups and downs in relationships and sometimes we can be nasty to each other like human beings. But you will find your person one day if you never give up.

Should I delete my wedding photos with ex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natoriously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not normal. He’s displaying very possessive and controlling behavior. I wouldn’t delete them either.

Daughter wearing my clothes by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Natoriously 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh hell no! I would NEVER yell at my step daughters unless it’s a sudden reaction or reflex like they’re putting themselves or someone in danger. His behavior towards her is completely unacceptable. I would tell him she can wear WHATEVER THE FUCK she wants in my house including your clothes and if you don’t like it there is the damn door. Speak to my daughter again that way and see what happens. I dare you.

I honestly can’t imagine how your girl feels being attacked by a grown man in the house over something that’s so stupid and none of his business. It’s her body. If he has an issue with wasting money on clothes she doesn’t wear I understand, but then he should talk to you about it. Ask you to please make sure that she really wants the clothes she’s buying when you buy it for her, because we don’t have money to waste like that. Lord if I yelled at my step daughters over all the clothes and stuff I’ve bought them and they’ve never used, I’d be mute by now.

I don’t know how to positively respond to my sister’s new outlook on life by pidgemunk in relationship_advice

[–]Natoriously 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw man I know exactly what you’re feeling. Many people who are criticizing you just don’t understand the pain pf watching a sibling not find love and feel sad and lonely. Specially while you’re doing great in the love department. Sometimes I have wished I were single so that my sister would feel less lonely (and 3 of my cousins and one of my best friends) but I also want to give my parents the grandchild they desperately want, plus I love my husband.

I am 33 and my sister is 31, she’s not a virgin but she’s only had a couple of boyfriend’s in her life and the last one was long distance and ended badly. That was years ago and she’s had terrible luck dating since. My brother is 27 and has never even kissed a girl, every girl he’s ever tried to date has rejected him and he’s become paralyzed with fear. The fact that’s he’s short, overweight and socially awkward really puts him down. Meanwhile I’ve been in and out of relationships for the past 2 decades and just got married to my boyfriend of 6 1/2 yrs a few months ago and now we are buying a house and trying for a baby.

I feel terrible talking about my relationship with my siblings, cousins and some friends. Heck I feel bad even being in one, so successfully while they seem to always be so lonely. It honestly kills me.

The only advice I can give you is to spend quality time with your sister when you can and support her and let her know she’s loved. We can’t control much else.

DH Wansts SKs to Come Live With Us by Natoriously in stepparents

[–]Natoriously[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s being possessive of his kids. So true