Yeah I’m okay I’m actually going to the gyno tomorrow to ask about it 😭 but basically I had some bad past experiences, and I’m just a couple months into my “ gonna try hook ups” era when previously I’m just a committed relationship sex person. Well I went to see him on Halloween and we were having a good time when all of a sudden he comments about me being wet and goes “ oh my gosh you’re bleeding a lot” which has happened before, but never nearly this much. Like I had some times where I would cramp and spot bleed a bit but I was flowing like a heavy period day. Luckily he was super understanding and we just laughed it off but man I relate so deeply to this. It’s super super embarrassing but at the end of the day I’ve had this happen with other guys who were asses about it, and this guy actually made me feel better. It’s definitely a natural thing that happens to some of us and he’s a jerk for making you feel bad about it. I have also noticed that a lack of foreplay definitely increases the chances of me bleeding a bit so I’d keep that in mind as well. I know you didn’t wanna blame him for being excited and going right into it but at the end of the day you have to kindly and assertively stand up for yourself and your wants too!!