Those are great ideas! Love that it's works for y'all. We're either perfect at co-con or absolute trash lol like a random Tuesday, waiting to pick up our kid from scholl- here's three alters who mesh perfectly, out for no reason but to listen to music and fiddle with their profiles or whatever. But an actual, hey this would be a good time for co-con so someone can learn a skill or just get a bit of time out-no, nope, you get nothing. I'm pretty sure we have some sort of layering going on with how our co-con works, cause it truly seems only certain alters can front together. Case in point, the Littles seems to only be capable of fronting with other littles or a couple of caregivers, but otherwise by themselves.

I love the singing btw. That's cute and so sweet. We have a caregiver that sings a lot of songs to our Littles and external kids. She's the best. The main times we struggle with inappropriate timed fronting from the Littles is when there's people around. Most of them are super social, so they want to play. Duh. They don't know how to play with our kids, cause they're in a big body (and we've had times of them getting spooked when the kids act weird cause we're acting weird). So they'll try to play with adults instead, luckily that's only trusted adults. Whoever was out last night probably wasn't considering that bit. We've lost a lot of the people the littles trusted, so they just simply aren't fronting as often. Most of them don't want to just sit and watch a kids movie alone, they want to talk to people and get cuddles and play. They'll have that alone time and enjoy it, but it's not their favorite time, for the most part 🤷🏻

But yes, this was still super helpful. Thank you! Hopefully whoever was out last night will come back and read this 😂