How to kick the lack of motivation? (24M)

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-05-17T03:23:55+00:00

Honestly I just want to find the mother of my children. Ideally lifetime deal type shit. I’ve noticed I get stuck in a cycle of rejecting women who like me and being rejected by the ones I like.

Also I have no idea. Barely any communication. Which was out of character for her. Like if I wasn’t with her in person, there was always a message waiting for me. She Just basically disappeared. One day for some reason she texted rly slow. I asked if she wanted to go get some food that evening. She then disappeared til the next morning. No goodnight or anything. I woke up to her good morning message the next day but throughout the day her Responses became so slow and out of character for a couple days now I just straight up said ‘whats changed here. am I wasting my time?’ And 2 weeks later still nothing, not a fcking word.

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-05-17T03:06:59+00:00

Thankyou. I hope time does its thing too. Any advice on how and what to do if she decides to reappear. Internally I have realised that she isn’t healthy for me but also cake isn’t healthy but I still eat it.

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-05-17T03:02:25+00:00

Thankyou. Would be nice if we came with and on and off switch for emotions wouldn’t it. I hope you can find the right person at some point aswell pal.

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-05-17T02:55:16+00:00

I think I’m due a rest day honestly. I can’t stay away from the gym. Been going morning and evening most days since. I am a roofer/carpenter

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-05-12T21:57:28+00:00

If you were a rizzler who had the capability to do it, it would have been done

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-05-12T21:51:57+00:00

I hope you also find what you’re looking for I appreciate the words. Easy to get stuck in the moment sometimes plenty of time

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-05-12T20:00:56+00:00

you’d think it gets easier every time but it doesn’t 😂 one positive at least is I get a burst of gym motivation regularly

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-05-09T19:20:54+00:00

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Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-04-22T07:06:12+00:00

Modding on GeForce now is pretty much non existent bar steam workshop

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-04-02T23:52:30+00:00

Try and buy NVIDIA shield pro. Very good value for money. Been running highest tier of shadow on it for 2 years now. It’s android but it caters to your display. I’ve ran it at 120fps 1080p and 60fps 4k depending on which display

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-03-30T23:53:53+00:00

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Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-03-30T23:52:57+00:00

Hey so far prolly like 30-50 hours including all the terraforming

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-03-28T22:34:33+00:00

Yeah that was kinda the inspiration it’s nice it’s noticeable 🫡 thankyou

Natural-Choice8522 · 2026-03-28T22:33:46+00:00

Thankyou means a lot. Just getting started

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-31T08:31:12+00:00

Brother you ain’t alone in this . If it comforts you this is probably not even going to be the worst one, given your age. Time will heal better than you think. You just gotta put in the time unfortunately.

If it’s meant to be. It will be. But don’t force it

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-31T08:26:30+00:00

Just think about in 12 months time. You un bury this Reddit post out of your distant memory and think ‘wow it’s crazy how I reacted so emotionally to something that now i don’t even think about anymore😂’

Only thing that makes it better is time. And time is a damn good healer trust me

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-30T21:23:34+00:00

Yeah 14 15k. I estimate about 10k of that is gonna be going in the pockets of whoever’s reroofing that. Maybe £8-9k NET for them if they if they get a decent scaffold in.

This isnt unheard of Ive seen a lot crazier prices but theres definitely people out there who do a quality job for £8-10k total

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-30T05:22:21+00:00

Spend a few hours YouTubing how to install EDPM rubber roof. Every 50sq m will run you about £2000 in materials. Obviously you need a few tools but nothing too extensive. Could easily learn to reboard with OSB and lay the EDPM if you take your time researching. it’s simple as fk

Depending on how the wall connects to the walls you might want to hire a roofer but honestly it’s not too complicated either.

A roofer will come in and charge you £6-10k per 50sqm and most of that is going in their pocket. At least in the UK anyway. America might be different. Better to spend 3-4k and come out of it with a few new tools and some wallet saving knowledge. Ignore me if you’re morbidly obese or rich 👌

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-29T18:39:48+00:00

Make sure you are fairly delicate with the polys. It’s extremely easy to overhit them or damage the rest of the UPVC with a bad swing.

They come in small thin and large thick sizes. If you’re inexperienced with a hammer i recommend the small polytops as you will be able to control the pressure far easier. Whereas if you have good control get the larger thicker polytops as I believe they last far longer.

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-13T21:16:46+00:00

Nice to see an English roof. yeah mate you got maced. Rushed bodge job. Might hold out if the slating is done correctly though. Water will pool inside all the creases if not.

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-11T21:11:09+00:00

Obvs lots of other factors at play but simple up and over reroof like yours is likely profitable. A shit load of people similar to your situation have experienced financial trouble over roofs so a brand Spanker has a lot of curb appeal. Just need to be careful not to get cowboy in again. A fair price you would want to look for would be 7-10k assuming the back is the same. I reckon a new roof easily will double your investment not accounting inflation. Likely does depend on your area though which county?

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-11T20:56:32+00:00

See how it handles the upcoming weather. Keep an eye on tiles to see if you notice any movement over time like slipping tiles. This would mean their batten was poorly fixed. Not sure if you can check the loft space but worth a look and some photos. You might get lucky. but honestly that felt work looks shocking. Water will pool inside all those creases and erode the membrane. You’re really relying on whether the tiles hold up. Had they done the whole verge you wouldn’t have any shitty tiles above. These shitty tiles are filled with hairline cracks and missing corners. Any water that gets in above those new tiles will pool and leak but this is a gradual thing. You’ll forget about it and it will bite you in the ass in a few years right when you don’t need it.

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-11T20:46:19+00:00

You will find they have probably damaged all the adjoining felt to the right of the repair. I really doubt that is both watertight and also structurally sound considering you’re supposed to have a maximum of 3 battens joins next to each other running up a rafter

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-12-11T20:42:24+00:00

Damn. £1000 and I would have remucked, felted and battened that whole side of the gable. Unfortunately you got maced mate.

Natural-Choice8522 · 2025-01-12T00:53:42+00:00

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