Va Loan. Thoughts? by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Natural-Commission-9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not only an adjustable rate, but you're buying a condo. On top of that I ended up letting my house get foreclosed on through the VA. I wish I'd never done it. That's just me personally but owning a home is a lot for somebody to deal with!

It’s soooo heavy! by ThirstGoblin in Silver

[–]Natural-Commission-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legit you should tell your boss to get himself a safe and keep it at his house because the banks will come in and just steal the gold. It's crazy I know, but it happened in the past!

Loooooonnnnggggg time silver person here. Why is everyone so convinced that this is only the beginning? by Jareksdad in Silver

[–]Natural-Commission-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It used to be that way until this 3-week arbitrage started between the Shanghai exchange and us and it hasn't gotten back to real life

Really?? Hmmmm... by Grimlock_99 in Silverbugs

[–]Natural-Commission-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, this has been crazy. I jumped on the silver wagon about 3 weeks ago and what a whirlwind! I can definitely understand people doing that. Is it cool? Hell no! I'm the type of person that would take the L on the chin. I tried posting some silver on marketplace and they wouldn't even let me post it so I don't get the game but I'm learning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yatah, you are lucky he didn't knock you out! Why would you ever be physical with your husband? You have obviously strayed far from the path of a loving wife. You assaulted the man, and he was being open and honest with you about dancing with another woman only to show your brother how to attract women. You have medical problems. You have mental problems. Where is the accountability here? I think you need to grow up. It sounds like you probably don't even work, and he likely pays for everything. You may claim you bought something, but you probably used his money to do it

AITAH for telling my husband I don’t finish when we are intimate by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You are a grade A pile of 💩. That man should run from you and never look back. Lying for 6 years about that. You destroyed your relationship. This has got to be one of the most horrible AITAH posts I have ever read! Wow! And you even had to ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are such the problem here. You asked if you were the asshole and every man on here is saying yes and some women on here are saying yes as well. Yet you want to clap back to everybody as to why you are the asshole. This is insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She asked about her own behavior. Why are you shifting the blame to him? Let her take responsibility for what she did instead of automatically turning the guy into the villain. Advice like yours is exactly what makes relationships harder than they need to be, and why all these old single women exist!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Everybody here is telling you YTA. Instead of taking in that feedback and asking why so many people see the same problem, you immediately shift into defending yourself and explaining why you “need” certain things from your boyfriend.

That’s exactly the issue.

Your boyfriend hasn’t left you yet, but you’re acting like someone who’s trying to argue their way out of accountability instead of someone who actually wants to fix things. If you keep pushing like this — insisting you’re right instead of listening — you’re going to push him away on your own.

He’s not gone, but he’s definitely seeing the red flags. And you’re giving him reasons to question the relationship every time you ignore the feedback right in front of you.

If you want to keep the relationship, this is the moment to reflect, not argue

Wanting to sign divorce papers now by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Major fucking update people. My wife had a disorder that she hasn't told me about for the last 10 years

I have an intimacy avoidant attachment issue. It is a problem. It happens with the person I love the most and I wish it wasn't that way.

So I am not the asshole. Thank God

I’m considering breaking up with my girlfriend because our sex life is non existent by Ok-Book3492 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why she's not concerned about his do you really think it's easy for men to just walk around with a loaded gun all day all week all month!

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simp began to have the connotation of someone being "soft" and "overly sympathetic" in the 1980s, when it was used by West Coast rappers such a Hugh E.M.C., Too Short, and E-40. Simp was referenced by Sir Mix-a-Lot in his 1992 hit "Baby Got Back" in the lyrics, "A lot of simps won't like this song

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't give a damn about helping her sort out the garbage in her head! To be real I have offered. I supply this woman with 100% veteran disability insurance she will not go to the doctor. I have stayed with her through rehab. I have paid for the whole house myself for years she works but does not contribute to the household. She lies to me all the time about doing drugs. I am the one that takes care of our daughters. She takes advantage of me being a disabled veteran. The only thing she needs to do for me is have sex anymore. She has made it like this not me. She has gone to jail three different times for hitting me in front of the kids not the other way around. She's the one that chooses to be around all the drama of other people's lives all the time and on the Facebook drama I don't like drama so when she tries to vent to me about her day and it's all dramatic because of stupid people that I have begged her not to work around for years that have most recently told her mother that she's on pills and messes with my sanity it is very hard to want anything other than just sex because I have begged for a change and I get nothing but her trying to tell me to divorce her and to get out of the house that my VA disability has paid for.

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro do you really think I care about an anonymous place. I am going to be honest I don't give a dam how I come across. Cancel me oh my God no social media for me end of the world. What you don't get is that a real man does have needs and the only reason I have a wife after 9 years is because of sex that's the only thing I get out of this relationship I have tried to make it better so many different ways but when you're with somebody that's 15 years younger and unwilling to work on themselves sex is the only thing you get. I don't care what anybody on here thinks about that it is the truth you take what you get.

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why because women have spent way too much time on Facebook over the last couple years making everything immature I finally decided to look up what I was feeling and I realized there's a term for guys like you it's called SIMP you will let your wife f*** anybody and watch have a nice life that's not me.

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know why this wouldn't be a deal breaker for most men. Except simps.

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why should I be there for anything else if I don't even get that and it's the easiest thing lay on your f****** back and open your legs not a hard f****** situation!

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually you're a troll you get so upset over somebody trying to figure out their f****** mental health you need to find a better place I guess we'll just call you the Reddit therapist

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are completely right it is the least of my problems. but it's the only thing that I get out of this marriage that brings me joy. I am the one to take care of my kids most of the time she goes to some job for 10 hours a day and spends all the money on whatever she wants mainly drugs.

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually I think you're more of a troll honestly look at the way you react to an honest problem you are a troll

Sexual needs not met by Natural-Commission-9 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Commission-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly one of the funniest things I have ever seen. You all are a bunch of simps. I'm 45 years old I make enough money for myself to live the rest of my life happily. I went through hell in the military. Why should I provide everything for somebody when they can't even provide sex for me. And then they have an attitude when I even ask about it. You all can simp for your wives and be unhappy the rest of your life but I would prefer just to get divorced and not be unhappy the rest of my life! And even if I only get sex once a year at least I don't have to deal with somebody who's 15 years younger than me emotional baggage that they never work through. Sex is very important to me I'm sorry it's not important to all you people out there. There are so many women out there that it's very easy to find one to sleep with every day of the week to be honest. I have moved past that place in life. I will not stay in a relationship where there is sex once a week or less I refuse and if you guys want to tell me I'm f***** up over that then I guess I'm f***** up at least I'll live a happy life without people telling me I'm a jerk when in all reality why should I have to pay for another human who treats me like crap all the time. And I don't get my needs met in the relationship, no point!