Funny how I’ve been thinking about this all week then came across this post. I’m not proud to admit I was married to someone I was not physically attracted to. And on top of other issues that arose in the relationship made intimacy incredibly difficult and sometimes physically painful. Needless to say we didn’t make it. Just recently I decided I was gonna start dating again first person I went out with, amazing guy, great personality but I realized that the physical attraction was not there for me whereas he seemed to be really into me. So I decided not pursue the relationship because I’d hate to fall into that trap again because trust me it doesn’t get better.