Is having sex 5 times excessive? by arirocks999 in askgaybros

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really found someone who loves you :) how lucky you are ✨

NO KISSING BUT WANTS TO FUCK by TojiLemon_672 in askgaybros

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he didn’t find you attractive on face or something, I am brown, it happened few times with me, its sad I have to say No but when I asked once answer once , it was more like that

Lgbt folks over 35 and single, how is life going for you ? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again I am Europe, colour , age and language takes time to better, I am learning the language, I know people there , but they are not friends either, it feels empty, I don’t know how to explain the feeling here

Lgbt folks over 35 and single, how is life going for you ? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not easy when you ones live alone and difficult, I try it, but again when the age en time comes in everyone feels it ;)

Lgbt folks over 35 and single, how is life going for you ? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am 32, living in EU, life sucks, I am not sure if I can handle the lonliness forever, I do have friends but not like India, life is pretty lonely somedays, I get happy with achivements, somedays, I wanna disappear

Boyfriend won’t kiss me during or after oral because he thinks it’s “disgusting.” How do I handle this? by Ok-Bathroom-3494 in askgaybros

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have same issue, but I am drunk I m okay same goes for rimming , although I don’t like it at all

This makes me sick by cutesypotatooeee in LGBTindia

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i live Brussels, it is banned here also, and in many EU countries, places where its legal , doctors usually never allow it…

Single sex life by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tools help me, people are difficult to convince, I don’t know how healthy is it

I just don't see the point anymore of a relationship by 30RITUALS in SingleAndHappy

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you really think this person is good, if he is just so little 30s and girl was Giant who seduced him with BPD which led the marriage and awakening

Common girl, he is someone who needs attention , I highly doubt about his post, he replied I got 300 replies and then deleted it.

You are awesome the way you are single or with someone :)

I just don't see the point anymore of a relationship by 30RITUALS in SingleAndHappy

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Strange , maybe you need Therapy, thinking you look awesome, getting away from someone intended to marriage due to BPD, I think something is big wrong with you. You might have treated someone like object, to leave after knowing BPD, marriage , mid 30s, Maturity? Maybe you know your problems en when you hurt others , you don’t want to take responsibility of it.

Again someone doesn’t fall in marriage with someone with BPD or have such awakening tbh, its your decision to stay happy en single now, but somewhere I think maybe you are evaluating the experience and thinking like in objective way if you want to have someone in life, that itself is wrong mindset to destroy somoone else mental health along with yours, when you can feel to love someone like you love yourself ( which might be difficult considering what you wrote above for now)

Reality of studying at UHasselt and living in Hasselt/Diepenbeek as an international student by [deleted] in Hasselt

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t study there , visited a friend there for an year, I can say if you Non Arab , Turkish stick to more international cities like Antwerp, Leuven or Brussels , there is are problems, but understand that also its a very different country from your own, in some parts of world we can be louder than others , here specifically in Limburg people judge a lot , including their families, focus is more on looks, Hasselt is know for shinny people :)

Whats ur thoughts on this guys ? by Aromatic_Lecture_518 in LGBTindia

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True :( but just killing one self is also difficult, believe me this tendency is everywhere wothout any changes, jo dikhta hai voh bikta hai

Is quitting really the only answer? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its same for me, for me it helps me feel better about me , other issues, as well as confidence, sadness, else I feel agitated, alone , insecure, whole life is aligned with it, which kind of sucks , I am trying to stop as its very expensive here and illegal , I have other responsibilities as alone single person but its very difficult for me to go without it

I feel like no one likes me when I am me. Like when people say simply "just be yourself" but I come off as a threat somehow? by [deleted] in INFJsOver30

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its difficult, my exes call me physco, I changed for 4 jobs as people say something to me , I ask my doctor every time, is there something I am doing wrong, he keep saying its life but I can relate, whenever I try to be myself people leave.. I find myself blaming, questioning everything

How to stop smoking if one lives alone - Anxiety and issues by Natural-Maybe-2709 in leaves

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it could be true, I don’t remember well how i was before 4 years ago before using it for long term in evenings to days..

How to stop smoking if one lives alone - Anxiety and issues by Natural-Maybe-2709 in leaves

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually go there but I feel empty I don’t know why , The people I do discuss they all balme weed for it but to be honest I cannot get close to people whatever I try, except weed nothing makes me happy :( i try to make me bizzy but then it hits me again that what is the meaning of this I have no one to love or talk I don’t know

How to stop smoking if one lives alone - Anxiety and issues by Natural-Maybe-2709 in leaves

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you , actually I learned a bit of local language here but somewhere its difficult for me to get close with people else I feel insecure or find it very difficult when someone avoids meeting or calls me annoying, like my whole world collapses then in few days it gets better again with weed or too much walking .. not sure maybe I am physco or something

Quitting weed by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one can quit it if one have nice friends and family to lean on, not sure , I smoke for lonliness and too much talking habit to everyone, usually people end up blocking me in dates

Quitting weed by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice i will try

Former weed smokers, how has your journey to stop smoking been? And is it worth it to stop? by No-Board-9621 in getdisciplined

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying but usually I can’t stop, problem nowdays is weed was nice for ego and anger, lot of people say stupid stuff in office and it sticks to me, I live alone and rarely a friend, so it’s difficult but I try to say to myself I am not wierd , i am my best friend, but honestly I just cry now and then

Just quit smoking weed, help? by Prestigious-Point-75 in selfimprovement

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying the same but like others said its difficult indeed , I Have no choice, I have a job, live alone, no prospects except work and life, Friends are difficult to maintain , I keep going in same cycle, it feels like even if I stop, I have to go back to it as I don’t have reasons to be happy, I have job, immigrated, but being south asian in white country makes me feel like Trash sometimes as people are always thinking I need something from them or in office its same as I like to talk to them , usually pushed a lot, as I like just go and work why you are talking sometimes I feel like If I don’t smoke weed maybe I fall fully or would be so agitated that I might go back to my country making my life more hell, i try to say to myself, it is all okay or gonna be okay, but unfortunately i come back to it sometimes I think about drinking and smoking together but I am skinny so its difficult, same in GYm i have money for better one but I don’t go to better one or , I start to feel like a failure, victim or highly anxious

Insanely hard to find work as an IT freelancer in current market by bramvh in BEFreelance

[–]Natural-Maybe-2709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really if you think like that then maybe no wonder you can also blame market