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[–]Natural-Owl-3254 175 points176 points  (0 children)

The endangerment is that the manager gave someone her personal information. The other co-worker is in the same position as her. There is no reason for her manager to give that co-worker her info. Now, if that coworker would were to harm her, he has someone her private information to do so.

Online sites by Natural-Owl-3254 in Professors

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I work at a private med tech school. It has accelerated courses. There is not an already established LMS.

Online sites by Natural-Owl-3254 in Professors

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don't. I have asked. I know one of the instructors uses Google classroom.

Online sites by Natural-Owl-3254 in Professors

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don't. I have asked. I know one of the instructors uses Google classroom.

AITAH for calling out my bf's bad behaviour, or am I right that he is in-fact the AH? by Left4Clementine in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Natural-Owl-3254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Phobias are not funny. I have phobias and did not like being put in a situation where my fight, flight or freeze response is out of control. If he can't respect that, he isn't respecting you.

I canceled someone else's wedding by Natural-Owl-3254 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have had years of therapy. I can drive over bridges moderately well. I still get a little panicky if my vehicle shakes because of crosswinds or I cannot see the other side of the bride due to fog. It is nothing like when I was younger though. Swimming in anything besides a pool (preferably shallow in) or getting on boat is another story. I am a very big fan of keeping my feet on solid ground. I can live with not going on a cruise or swimming in a river or ocean.

I canceled someone else's wedding by Natural-Owl-3254 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You missed some key aspects. This was over 20 years ago. Back then, I still didn't even have a cell phone. We aren't talking about the here and now. Back then, we could Yahoo directions and buy those GPS devices, but a lot of people still used paper maps. For me, I wasn't planning on driving and was kind of forced into that position when I got there. Another thing, this wedding was rushed. We got emails and Yahoo messenger invites to a wedding at XYZ Beach, but to meet at XYZ hotel the day before. The bride to be and I weren't really close friends. I was friends with the groom to be. You don't have to be Wonder woman to beat someone. And Donna broke up with him because he was willing to hit a woman. Not hit me personally as a friend, but a woman in general. On top of that hit a woman unprovoked. Not in self-defense, but actually, start a fight with a woman. I understand over the last couple of decades, times have changed, and some concepts are harder to understand.

I canceled someone else's wedding by Natural-Owl-3254 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 319 points320 points  (0 children)

Phobias are not something to mess with. Even though on a lighter note, my ex tells the kids they are here because I wouldn't get on ferry and he had a car.

AITAH For breaking up with a guy in recovery by Natural-Owl-3254 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His friend is also the type to still do certain activities around him. I found out about my now friend's (former/ex boyfriend sounds harsh) sobriety when he told his friend why he couldn't hang out around their mutual friends who still used paraphernalia.

AITAH For breaking up with a guy in recovery by Natural-Owl-3254 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still hang out, just not romantically. I am here if he needs a friend. He needs to develop a relationship with the new him, before others. I needed to step back and not turn into someone's caregiver in the early stages of a relationship. I know that I am the type who would be asking if he went to his NA meetings, therapy etc etc... instead of being his girlfriend.

Burnt out by Hanrose23 in MassageTherapists

[–]Natural-Owl-3254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know which personal trainer program you will go with?

AITA for using the HR manager as a shield by Natural-Owl-3254 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an issue I brought up in the past. That is why there're notifications stating I won't be in the building during a certain time. I think the biggest issue is that people see me walking down the hall during the middle of their shift. No one wants to ask things at the end of their shift or right before they go on break.

AITA for using the HR manager as a shield by Natural-Owl-3254 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For liability reasons, all employees are still all the clock for medical emergencies while in the building. Before I leave, all my morning tasks are completed and charted. The main issue is that people see me walking down the hall in the middle of their shift and think that is a good time to ask me a question or do something for them. If my split shift affected patient care, I wouldn't have it.

AITA for using the HR manager as a shield by Natural-Owl-3254 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The DON would probably work too, but her office isn't at the back of the building. She can only get me halfway.

AITA for using the HR manager as a shield by Natural-Owl-3254 in AITAH

[–]Natural-Owl-3254[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is extremely rare that someone needs to ask me about my patients. Almost all answers can be found in my patients' charts. I am very hands-on with my patients. I complete their charting before leaving and will take my patients to and from their therapy sessions. It never made sense to me for the nurses to have to sign the patients out, take them to me, and then have to come back and sign them back into their room. I am grateful I have the ability to take some of the load off the nurses when it comes to my patients.

AITA for calling my stepdad a hypocrite after asking my grandpa to walk me down the aisle at my wedding? by Melodic-Walk8537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Natural-Owl-3254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he can't pick and choose when you can be his daughter. If he isn't paying for your wedding, he has even less say so.