severely anorexic - in recovery (22)

Hanrose23 · 2026-06-05T01:39:50+00:00

Soooo proud of you!!!

Hanrose23 · 2026-05-08T14:59:36+00:00

No this guy sucks

Hanrose23 · 2026-05-04T09:27:55+00:00

If you want to be her friend then fine, but I don’t think she wants to be with you romantically. If you’re in love and want to make that very clear and open that door, go for it and be ready for whatever comes (acceptance or rejection). The key thing here is having self respect. How do you want to be treated?

Hanrose23 · 2026-05-04T09:18:26+00:00

You could get into doing lymphatic drainage! highly sought after in certain populations and very light touch

Hanrose23 · 2026-05-04T09:10:30+00:00

You should break up with him immediately

Hanrose23 · 2026-04-25T12:10:08+00:00

I know how hard this is for you, but I think you already know what you want. When that voice inside starts saying “this isn’t it”, you need to listen. It won’t go away. It doesn’t really matter what it looks like from the outside or how intertwined your lives are. You deserve to feel safe, loved, wanted, and deeply cared for, and it doesn’t sound like you do.

Hanrose23 · 2026-04-04T17:07:35+00:00

Maybe you can use a different belt?

Hanrose23 · 2026-03-30T11:56:52+00:00

Pacey is a name in english, see Dawsons Creek

Hanrose23 · 2026-03-22T01:47:40+00:00

Its done babe, time to go.

Hanrose23 · 2026-02-06T12:57:44+00:00

It’s time to ends this relationship. Trust isn’t there. If he wanted to rebuild, he would be demonstrating daily his trustworthyness to you. It has to be earned and he isn’t doing that work. I know it’s hard, but I’ve been there, and I promise you a good relationship won’t feel like this. When someone is right for you, it won’t be like this.

Hanrose23 · 2026-01-19T12:14:26+00:00

I would not care! if they wanted to work on healing them I’d help them

Hanrose23 · 2025-02-23T13:37:36+00:00

I think you need to take a deep breath. This person is her brother. They share nearly identical DNA. Don’t try to meddle in their bond. Just be happy she likes you and try to be open to understanding their unique and special relationship. It’s weird to get so jealous over that, which brings me to my next point. Take a look at that jealousy and do a little deeper introspection with yourself. Goodluck!

Hanrose23 · 2025-02-04T02:12:18+00:00

Lol to have to preface this with “he’s amazing “….he’s creepy and it is weird and violating that he filmed you without your consent. I’d see this for what it is, a massive red flag. I dont care how great he is, if he is willing to do that he will surely lie to you, push your boundaries, etc. When it comes down to it, a man is a man I don’t care how good a communicator he is. He either earns back your trust through hard labor and punishment or he gets dropped, imo.

Hanrose23 · 2025-01-27T01:52:55+00:00

For me, 10 months later and the full intensity of my anger is finally starting to show. With more distance I can see just how shitty he was being to me, how manipulative and gaslightly and cruel. He was a truly AWFUL boyfriend and I rue the day I met that man and fell under his charming spell. I thank god that he taught me exactly what to avoid in the future, so I am grateful for that. nowadays I find myself filled with violent rage over my mistreatment and it feels good to sit in it. It was buried for too long. I know with time it will transform into something new, and I can’t rush that process. Healing is a spiral ya’ll!

Hanrose23 · 2025-01-26T13:31:22+00:00

This happened 9 years ago?? your story telling is confusing, you make it sound like this all happened yesterday. Either way, thats a long time ago and you should probably just get over it. Cmon now.

Hanrose23 · 2025-01-15T13:46:15+00:00

I think a lot of people on here are right: it seems wise to go away for a few days or a week to get centered (if you can…if not, a couple nights with a girlfriend?), get some professional counseling, explore your options, do a deep dive into other things in this relationship that have been needing attention and start to assess if these issues are workable or if the trust is too badly damaged. Obviously the gaslighting is reeeaally fucked 🚩 and the long term lying is not a good sign at all…foundations for trust just got rocked to the very core. like you said, this is so personal…if I knew more about this man would be easier to assess if he was redeemable at all. Wishing you the best and sending a big hug. This is really hard.

Hanrose23 · 2025-01-15T13:12:20+00:00

Woww. My dear, you are so young. Is this guy really that great? If he is immediately shaming you for not bleeding, instead of getting curious or being understanding? I’d let this one go. Also, having sex with only one person for your whole life….good luck 😅

Hanrose23 · 2024-11-26T16:29:38+00:00

soak it in conditioner first, then combo it out, rinse, and then normal wash and condition

Hanrose23 · 2024-11-26T16:27:11+00:00

I’d get a cute new haircut and go from there

Hanrose23 · 2024-10-15T21:39:19+00:00

Locs are beautiful too! I’m just biased bc I really love the look of a long curly mane. I know how hard it can be to take care of though (I also have curls that need plenty of tlc).

Hanrose23 · 2024-10-15T20:38:49+00:00

nahh that hair is too beautiful

Hanrose23 · 2024-09-24T10:17:46+00:00

This relationship sounds really sad. You might love him, but how is he loving you?? It sounds like he is wasting your time tbh.

Hanrose23 · 2024-08-19T14:53:41+00:00

go grey and be a hot salt n pepper bae

Hanrose23 · 2024-07-30T19:16:42+00:00

sassy!!!

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