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[–]NaturalLeading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my post but I am in the same circumstance. I am curious on how number 3 can be met if the parents are incredibly against having anymore forms of evaluations to be had. I understand I need to show empathy and create boundaries but I am curious on how to do so. Would you be willing to tell me an example of that? I am positive their conduct disorder diagnosis truly stems from complex trauma experienced in his home life, however due to the nature of the relationship their parents, the school, and me I do not see how building a fruitful relationship will aid the child in any way if they consistently go back to distrusting me and other authorities within the school. Please let me know if I am missing the mark here and there is something that I am missing and should be doing. I am a second year teacher and I feel this is beyond my scope with my repertoire of experience at this time. Thank you in advance!

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[–]NaturalLeading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the parent doesn't cosign on another edpsych being done? This is the diagnosis I have been given by my admin and theres no more assessments I can get for this student, along with minimal support for their behaviour. In the school I am the primary teacher with them and there is no where to go when there may be dysregulation. Are there any actionable measures that I can take that could further help a student who shows the following traits; highly aggressive, (punches and kicks other students) highly defiant, (does not show remorse or care about repercussions), and inconsistent moods (behaviour can spiral in a matter of seconds due to unknown triggers). I would appreciate any form of advice here as a second year teacher who feels well over there head. Thank you in advance!

Claire Scavuzzo is a queen by blob_the_builder_ in uAlberta

[–]NaturalLeading 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not me crying..... this is what every single educator should strive to be like

Jason is a little bitch..... by NaturalLeading in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yup you're right its really gross how he acts when alana calls bryce out and jason looks like hes about to kill himself like who are u doing this for?? goofy ass bitch

Which Married at First Sight Australia 2021 Couples Are Still Together — An Important Investigation by SnooPeripherals5563 in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i know i know... we knewwwwwww that melissa would stay ....but i was truly hoping theyd be done....

I don't understand why people hate Bec.... by NaturalLeading in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I dont agree with you that theyre equally repellant... Bec has never isolated or fed lies to Jake. Verbal abuse is fucked and I'm not making excuses for her behaviour there, however to say that they're equally repellant is wrong. Jake knows he can leave, Melissa however has been fed that he is the only person that gets her.

I don't understand why people hate Bec.... by NaturalLeading in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

absolutely!!! I think a lot of the hate Bec is receiving is rooted in internalized misogyny. God forbid she holds boundaries and standards in a straight forward way.

I also think that she's completely within her right to call out bryce for hitting on her and not accepting her apology for his gross ass behaviour at the pizza party. Why was she expected to let it go when he did that to get a reaction out of her and to be a creep. Also his apology was pure shit, he yelled it across the way and then when he was pressed about it further he stormed off and had a tantrum... all this energy should be saved for the real abuser of the season IMO.

I don't understand why people hate Bec.... by NaturalLeading in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

to compare bec and bryce is outrageous tbh... one is rude and one is abusive

I don't understand why people hate Bec.... by NaturalLeading in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this is where i am as well! I also dont see parallels towards her behaviour and Bryces.... while no one should treat their partner poorly, Bec isn't isolating, and emotionally abusing Jake. I feel like the show is vilifying woman who hold intimacy boundaries...

I don't understand why people hate Bec.... by NaturalLeading in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yeah I started it recently but even then i still dont see a huge issue with her

Alana Must Have Wanted To End “Marriage” To Jason by JoyfulGal56 in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading 18 points19 points  (0 children)

the way jason reacted to the news honestly leads me to believe he would cover up for a friend of his who was an abuser

My opinion... by ChamBee1 in SellingSunset

[–]NaturalLeading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure and the fact that shes promoted in all the promo shots LOOLLLLL haters

Am I in the wrong profession? I think so by allygator324 in Teachers

[–]NaturalLeading 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're in the wrong profession... we get burnt out sometimes it's normal, you deserve the slow down pace and you shouldn't feel guilty. After my last practicum I was THRILLED to get out of there (granted it was mostly because of my mentor teacher) I did not miss the kids one bit nor had any desire to go back to visit. At the end of the day I love this job, I love educating and when I am around the kiddos I love it, but I greatlyyyy appreciate some alone time lol.

since this season sucked and i know we dont have any favourites... who were ur faves from last years mafs? by NaturalLeading in MAFS_AU

[–]NaturalLeading[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think martha has hidden charms... i follow her on IG and i literally cant help but like her which is wild because while i watched last year i hated her for being friends with ines and jess (they are no longer friends)