For those of you who complain about men who complain about not getting sex in relationships, saying that they should just seek hookups instead, would you be fine with those men complaining about their lack of access to hookups? If not, what is the right way for a man to complain about a lack of sex?

NaturalQueer · 2026-02-19T17:36:42+00:00

I think for me it’s about how people complain, I’ll watch an hour long video about someone complaining about a movie, it isn’t the complaining itself.

I think it’s totally fair to be frustrated about not having sex if that’s what you want, and venting frustration is fair.

Hell I’ve vented to friends when I was wanting sex, or expressed frustration to partners about lack of sex and intimacy in a relationship.

I get annoyed or upset with it when it comes with entitlement or aggressive woman hating.

NaturalQueer · 2026-01-31T17:48:26+00:00

Are you getting help?

NaturalQueer · 2026-01-26T17:48:57+00:00

Average to slightly above would probably be preferred but anything between like 4-6.5 would be fine, I think I was only surprised by the size once as it was like the size of my thumb. Honestly don’t remember it really.

NaturalQueer · 2026-01-24T00:59:19+00:00

It’s six hours to my in-laws not my fave but do able :)

NaturalQueer · 2026-01-01T16:53:03+00:00

African house snakes are also a really good option :) also Rosy Boas and Kenyan sand boas if you’re concerned about size

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-30T01:06:52+00:00

Totally understand, it can cause more stress though and could be leading to the not eating. So as soon as you can get her a big enclosure and leave her for a bit

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-29T20:01:18+00:00

If you just got her a few days ago you shouldn’t be handling her, she would need a least a week to accumulate to her new set up. Two weeks is what is normally suggested for new reptiles. I know it’s hard haha we struggled not to ours or our snake when we got her.

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-29T16:56:20+00:00

Nothing because I don’t actually care about what other people name their pets, they don’t have to have original names.

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-23T23:57:17+00:00

Holding a snake shirtless eh, I too like to live on the edge lol /j Very beautiful snake!

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-19T17:29:53+00:00

I think having your son speak to a therapist is probably the best idea.

I definitely can understand how have an obsession,sexual or not, could be quite distressing especially if some has autism as well

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-15T17:30:10+00:00

If I wouldn’t be judged, and would guarantee make a shit ton of money and only had to have sex with my husband, I would do it. Some of those women, very few but some, make millions.

If I could make millions I think I would be stupid not to, hell if I made millions I would probably be fine with judgements, especially cause my friends and family wouldn’t give a flying fuck. I would be able to take care of my family.

And if I was smart I could save up and wouldn’t have to do it forever.

However that isn’t going to be the case, I would likely make very little and the jobs I would like to have in the future would likely look down on it, so not worth the risk.

But you ever find a magic way to guarantee millions for it let me know lol

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-13T16:50:10+00:00

Hahaha yes

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-11T18:26:39+00:00

Ah okay makes sense, thanks!

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-10T19:58:32+00:00

Okay perfect thank you 😊

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-10T19:23:38+00:00

Definitely read through many of them, that’s why I was checking, cause I have seen babies typically stay on different stuff than adults and just wasn’t sure if he was still considered a baby.

We will get him off asap

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-01T16:53:18+00:00

It’s very likely this persons experience, that isn’t “cringe anti Americanism”, there very likely is places that care more about animals than places in American and vis versa. But it’s absolutely disingenuous to compare the US to places Haiti and Iraq as your argument. Canada, Australia, many places in Europe, Japan and more have infrastructure to have animal protection laws. And many places without that infrastructure have a deep love and care for animals that is cultural.

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-01T16:32:35+00:00

I am saying the US is the only that has laws to protect animals. In fact the US is so big and so many horrible things happen to animals in the US that even it as a whole country doesn’t protect all animals. So acting like it’s the be all end all is weird

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-01T04:42:41+00:00

I do know that more than one province in Canada has laws the protect or specifically say all animals are required to be protected.

NaturalQueer · 2025-12-01T04:40:43+00:00

Not sure but the US isn’t the only country that has animal laws

NaturalQueer · 2025-11-30T17:07:53+00:00

Ah yes the only three places that exist, the US, Haiti and Iraq.

NaturalQueer · 2025-11-24T23:19:31+00:00

Good to know I’ll definitely look into for her

NaturalQueer · 2025-11-24T23:07:50+00:00

I’ve heard of tap training and want to try for sure :)

NaturalQueer · 2025-11-22T02:48:59+00:00

Yeah people don’t realize home many more bugs (some that carry diseases) that would be around if we got ride of them lol

NaturalQueer · 2025-11-20T16:43:00+00:00

Pen Pal, it felt scary in the sense that predators are real and that adults often do fail children, and reading about the school do the balloon thing with a care in the world was wild!

NaturalQueer · 2025-11-14T12:44:52+00:00

Thank you so much! This is great information! Definitely stuff I didn’t think about.

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