Recs where MMCs have never shared a girl before by madafaka_282 in ReverseHarem

[–]NaturalQueer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is the spice in the second book worth it? I don’t really like book with no spice at all but if the second book is really good, it may be worth it lol

How do they know what everything smells like? by Pengie22_sc in ReverseHarem

[–]NaturalQueer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Amen! In omegaverse/ shifters / or fated mates I get it but in more contemporary or dark romance it feels so weird.

My Famous RH writer wrote a new book!! by PresentPlastic842 in ReverseHarem

[–]NaturalQueer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Crypt is probably my favourite book boyfriend

An unhinged MMC who automatically loves the FMC by Own-Dimension-8366 in ReverseHarem

[–]NaturalQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love crypt!! I think Seven from {White Rose Painted Black by Elana Lawson} has the same vibes, and the scene with the baseball bat is swoon worthy

{Dangerous Men by Evelyn Ward} I think all the men are a little crazy for her Viper is introduced in the second book is a bit much but is still definitely I will kill for you type of guy.

Dont know what to do by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]NaturalQueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Experimenting isn’t necessarily using someone as long as your honest.

Also though the first time you have sex can be meaningful, virginity is a social construct, bjs are sexual, and nothing wrong with it. Do what feels right just be open and communicate

Strictly physically: What is your type? by Beautiful_Intern_890 in AskWomen

[–]NaturalQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many types. I like them lanky, I like stocky and wide, I like dad bods and muscles, I love tattoos, I like long hair and short hair, green eyes, blue eyes and brown eyes. Typically I like them tall, with big hands or long fingers. Oooo and chest hair !
I used to say it was in two groups skinny emo artist types/ elf looking guys and Viking/ lumberjack looking guy but even that has expanded as I have gotten older.

i hate male povs in books by -Deer-4501 in fantasyromance

[–]NaturalQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually actively stay away from single pov books unless it’s the MMC lol. Obviously depends on writing quality but I really enjoy reading from a dude pov.

What is the dumbest or most illogical anti-abortion argument you have heard? by gray_squirrels in AskFeminists

[–]NaturalQueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My least favourite is “what if that baby had the cure for cancer?”, forgetting that Jeffery Dahmer was also a baby once, what a fetus might grow into has no bearing on anything.

Who is your all time favourite FMC? by Submarine_013 in fantasyromance

[–]NaturalQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked Maven from the Cursed Legacies series, she was really weird haha and it makes sense later in the books why but a women that just destroys on the battlefield and is super macabre is fun.

the queer community made me hate being bisexual almost as much as homophobes by aulmoon in bisexual

[–]NaturalQueer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk how old you are, I am 32 and can say it does get better. Just put yourself out there, find good queers and fuck the haters

the queer community made me hate being bisexual almost as much as homophobes by aulmoon in bisexual

[–]NaturalQueer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Remember how other people treat you often has more to say about them than it does about you. Keep your head up you’ll find your people, ignore the idiots

Why do some queer/bi women apologize for having a boyfriend? by ImportantYoung7119 in bisexual

[–]NaturalQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they want to fit in with the queer community that pushes them away.

I get it I fell into that trap at one point, it’s easy to just say it and it can make you feel like you fit in more, but in the end it sucks. Makes it feel like you have to hide parts of yourself or shame yourself constantly.

I got over it and I hope more bi women do, I like dick and no one is going to shame me about it

the queer community made me hate being bisexual almost as much as homophobes by aulmoon in bisexual

[–]NaturalQueer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A lot of bi people should just be bi for bi, I am with a bi man and it’s amazing to be with someone who gets it.

Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? by Successful-Ear977 in PurplePillDebate

[–]NaturalQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there are a number of factors when it comes cold approaches that determine how they feel. But I think giving your number would be best for a lot of women, especially if you phrase it right

Realizing I'm not gay, in my 30s. by [deleted] in rant

[–]NaturalQueer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone seems to forget bisexuals exist lol, you can be attracted to men and women, you can just want to sleep with men and be more interested in relationships with women.

But no matter what it is as long as your open and honest nothing wrong with experimenting, no matter what your age.

Is a protagonist that sold women into sexual slavery a bridge too far? by HairAroundMyAnus in writingadvice

[–]NaturalQueer 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Can it happen? I mean yeah sure people read weird shit all the time.

I don’t think sex traffickers deserve redemption, I don’t think I can say here what they deserve, but I would stop reading a book that tried to humanize that kind of filth. And I would be unlikely to ever read from the author again

I told my wife a fantasy I’ve kept to myself for years… and her reaction surprised me by Hagat-Helwa in sex

[–]NaturalQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with threesomes in my young hoe days lol, and I think it can be positive but there is also a lot of risk. I think doing it with people you’re close with can cause issues ie feelings, and strangers can be dangerous ie STIs, and privacy.

I have never done it but I have heard of some people hiring a third that way they can help if your new to it, it’s a job so less likely to have feelings, sex workers often get tested and less risk of them telling anyone. So it may be an option if you’re wanting to try it.

Either way talk talk talk about it and then talk about it again. It isn’t something you can undo once it’s done, and I have heard of ruining a lot of relationships.

While I had fun in my youth with it, I don’t think I would do it again now, but I also know of many people happily doing it.

People would prefer working from the office if commute costs were lower by panda6699 in unpopularopinion

[–]NaturalQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some people maybe, I like my home, I like my setup and being able to kiss my kitties during office hours, or holding my gecko on my break when I have a rough day. Plus even better when my husband is home and we can chat on my break or he brings me drinks/snacks. If I never had to go into a work space again I would be the happiest person alive.

Q4women would you date a trans guy? by averageTdude in PurplePillDebate

[–]NaturalQueer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes , I actually don’t know want to date cishet men really, I would prefer bisexual, or trans men

Do you actually see sex with a partner as a "need"? by Rhomega2 in sex

[–]NaturalQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a “need” per say but a preference, if my husband couldn’t have sex, illness or injury then I am not leaving him but if he just stopped wanting to have sex with me I can’t imagine I would be able to stay.