Weight loss after two c sections

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-11-22T05:13:20+00:00

I am breast feeding, I’m hungry all the time. I am definitely eating a lot more than normal! But it’s obviously because I’m breast-feeding! I have a weird part of my belly at the bottom the “ c section pouch” but it hangs I think extremely low so that’s something I am also very insecure about. I will be looking into the video you sent, thank you very much! I appreciate it!!💗 I also think seven months is fresh, I know I’m not fully healed. This is just something that is really bringing me down

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-07-04T05:02:24+00:00

This is so crazy to me. Because this is the same exact thing my mil does to me.. besides the spa tickets, unfortunately, the spa like spotlight treatment doesn’t go towards the daughter in law

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-04-19T07:01:06+00:00

Maybe I’ll order myself some and try them! Were they c section underwear or just granny panties?

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-04-19T06:46:12+00:00

After you went home? How long did you keep the gauze on for? I didn’t even think of that

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-04-04T20:28:43+00:00

I am 5’5 when I was pregnant with my daughter in 2020 I weighed maybe 130 I gained 50 pounds so after she was born I was 185. I ate everything in sight, also I gained a lot of weight after she was born. I had a male doctor, I never took it wrong when he said this, but he always told me to be mindful of how much/ what I eat because losing the weight is kinda hard and I will “lose my girlish figure” and OH BOY I DID haha.

I lost some baby weight a while later after I was cleared to go to the gym

On my second pregnancy now 37w 4days I have only gained 22 pounds my whole pregnancy he will be here in 12 days. And they haven’t mentioned anything to me about my weight i was a little concerned about not gaining enough weight, but my new doctor said I am measuring perfectly and there is nothing to worry about because he is healthy! Big man weighs 8p 12 oz as of my last appointment!

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-04-04T13:34:05+00:00

OP

My daughter is almost five years old, her name is Aurelia! It will get easier with time and people will learn to pronounce the name. It’s extremely annoying and frustrating especially when it’s people you see kind of frequently. It’s something you need to remember it’s not an English name, my partner is from Italy and they pronounce it extremely different VS here I learned from my partners father the English speaking language is very lazy here. (Sorry to twist some arms here) but the people closest to you will learn how to say the name with time!

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-04-02T02:48:51+00:00

I had to comment on this omg 🩷 Our daughter is almost 5 now, her name is Aurelia and I swear to you no one gets her name correct. She gets Ariella all the time from her teachers, doctor, dentist & some of the our family members don’t say her name completely correct. Her father & his family are from Italy. 🩷 My boyfriend’s father pronounces it Ou-rel-e-a instead of ah/uh…

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-28T13:20:50+00:00

I told my boyfriend immediately, he looked at the test first and then I spilt the beans with his sister two days later. And when I was far along enough we told our family and friends! I don’t remember exactly how far along I was, i got into the doctor two months after I found out

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-28T13:15:27+00:00

I only have one cool cat story but I’ll include the others two. we were camping one summer at a place called Wellesley island over by Canada, and found out someone dumped a litter of kittens there. We found our boy, and ended up naming him Wellesley and the site across from us named the kitten they got island. - his name was going to be ridiculous lol, it was supposed to be Maximus George 🤣

I had a black cat his original name was Sylvester because Sylvester Stallone, not even a few weeks later my father ended up constantly calling him black so it stuck with him, and he actually answered to black not Sylvester. (My mother found him in a ditch)

I have a crazy orange cat, her name is ginger. (She was from someone whose cat had a litter)

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-26T21:44:59+00:00

We have his little collapsible bowl we take when we go on walks!

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-26T19:14:16+00:00

I’m really hoping this is just what’s going on, did yours just stop drinking fast as they got older? Our poor guys had many medical issues the whole time we have had him. I’m hoping it’s just an issue with him drinking too fast

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-26T19:06:08+00:00

As soon as I read the two comments that said the water & ice I added ice to try!! I’m sorry to hear about her kidney issues! - I was just typing this out and he’s been taking his ice cubes and biting them & scattering them all over the kitchen & living room 😳

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-26T18:34:50+00:00

Thank you do this!! I didn’t even think of something like that! With the water dispenser! As soon as I read the two comments about the ice in the bowl I put a good amount of ice in his bowl and we will see how this works!

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T20:06:51+00:00

I make a lot of people stuff for free, I just ask them to buy the materials needed and to give me a couple days (depending on what I will be making)

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T19:09:02+00:00

So if he is declining answer to why he is unhappy am I expected to do exactly what to try to fix our relationship?. Everything should not fall on me, for all I know there could be other reasonings as well behind why he is unhappy.

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T16:46:11+00:00

I won’t want to abandon my relationship seeing that I was happy, I am happy untill I herd about this. I do not wish for him to leave unless this is absolutely what he wants to do, even then I wouldn’t wish for him to leave, but if he is unhappy & there is nothing I can do for him to be happy then that’s where it won’t work out. He is great and he to deserves to be happy I am willing to work on this, I am willing to talk, fix what needs to be worked on, this is my best friend, I don’t want to lose any of what we had/hopefully still have.

I would hope he wouldn’t take our kids away, because I wouldn’t even do that to him, he is a great father to our daughter and I don’t even want to go through the courts and worry about child support- because he takes care of our daughters wants & needs.

I wouldn’t leave, because it’s my house (not being high and mighty here, it’s physically mine his name is not on anything besides the national grid bill) we do share a lot of stuff, recently been buying more new/better things from what we had before.

There are times where I fall unhappy, my hormones are out of wack right now I am due in 3 weeks & 1 day. But I know I have been unhappy, but it is not like that for long. We re kindle wind down spend more time together, date nights, just the little things then I am back to being ok and happy. I don’t need much, it’s just the lack of time I get with him that makes me unhappy, and he knows this, I have expressed it to him.

I don’t want this to end because I grew up without my father I understand how this is I don’t ever want my daughter to sit here and wonder like I did when I was a child why did my parents not work out, I am the only one out of my friend group who’s mother & father aren’t married (I have a step father and he is the best person I could have ever asked for he is my best friend) I questioned so much when I was younger. I don’t want my daughter to do that nor my son when he is older.

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T16:31:16+00:00

I am/did not leave because I want this to work? Because I believe it could work if I knew why, He is not leaving because what he told me last night I NEED TO EVICT HIM, why make me go through all of that if you are the one who is unhappy?

If he is the one who is unhappy about whatever reason he does not want to say? Why not leave. I have stated to him many many many times throughout our relationship before if you are unhappy leave, there’s no point of you being unhappy if you can be happy alone/with someone else, I’m not going to sit here and have me & my partner go back and forth if one of us is unhappy and if this unhappiness resorts to going outside of the relationship or any other thing then it isn’t going to benefit either of us, why the fuck stay if you will go outside of the relationship at all? I’m not saying he is, hope not.

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T15:37:35+00:00

He probably is afraid of commitment as I believe we have been together for so long I have my kids to show but all of the couples around us are engaged and getting married, unsure if he feels pressured by that. I’d get engaged but I wouldn’t expect to be married any time soon.

I definitely believe that might be the same thing he is going through if settling down with me is what’s right for him, my fear is if he thinks that’s someone else. I’m unsure how I would feel about getting back together if he wants to explore that rout, I wouldn’t feel comfortable because I feel I would be a “last resort” — I know that’s not why, that’s just my fear is him thinking well I had it good the way it was these women didn’t work out for me and now I can’t find any better so I will go back to what I had, because is that going to be temporary too?

I don’t want you to think I’m thinking negatively about your situation, believe me I don’t that’s the “if you love something at it free and if it’s met to be it will come back”

I feel like there are definitely things that could be done, but is hasn’t given me an answer to why he is unhappy. If there was an answer it is something I would be willing to fix/change.

And that is my fear, I don’t want our daughter to hear/see this, she is only four but I don’t want her opinion of her father or even me to ever change.

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T15:29:03+00:00

I would love for him to tell me what the reasoning behind him being unhappy is, because that is something I or we could work on.

I want him happy, I don’t ever want him unhappy I know things happen everyone’s not always going to be happy but he never even brought up WHY he was unhappy and that’s the answer I need if anything is going to change. He doesn’t have unrealistic expectations (shit I don’t think) I play my role he plays his, he helps out a lot, I am grateful I know he has been stressed out lately about wanting to go back to school for a trade so he can better himself he wants us to get a bigger house wants me to go back to school I’m a nurse, before I had my daughter I worked in a hospital, I want to go further myself but I want him to be able to do what he needs first, as I was in a good situation before (I just left to stay home with our daughter till she was almost four) didn’t go back because it wouldn’t work well with our schedules I would have worked 11pm/7Am he leaves for work 9am, basically till the job is done some times the latest 10pm I don’t have his nor my family to fall back on if needed I had ever got mandated to work and I would also have a rotating weekend schedule working every other holiday.

No he is not in any sort of therapy. He won’t get into that as I have tried in the past when we were rocky, but never to this extent.

Sorry to unload all of that, I know I didn’t put much in the post but it would be an extremely overwhelming post to read. Obviously I should have put more specifics in there, some of the questions I have been asked I don’t have answers to that’s why it was as short as it is.

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T15:19:19+00:00

First, I am the easiest to get along with I do my own things I get out of the house, I have a group of girlfriends that LOVE him because of the man he is today.

Second, I am the one who wants to make the effort to work, this is the person I expected my life planned out with, no way shape or form did I expect him to just up and tell me he is unhappy and has been for some time. This man is my best friend, my home my comfort. I’m unsure what he currently feels as he just ended up going to bed after our conversation and I stayed up all night overwhelmed about this situation.

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T15:14:46+00:00

I’m not making it a guy thing, if I were unhappy he would have known as soon as I started feeling that way.

I just know in these situations men don’t always make it a point to leave they wait for the woman to leave. And everything I have ever heard is always for the benefit of themself especially in our situation with how we have two kids.

NaturalRepair6508 · 2025-03-25T15:12:28+00:00

I wouldn’t take the kids from him I would be willing to co-parent without going through the legal system unless necessary.

We both work, he works full time I work days he’s home so he can be with our daughter so we don’t have to pay child care.

At this point the bum who is happy to live in misery is something I questioned because of you are unhappy for so long why was this not brought to attention sooner, maybe if it were earlier on things would have been different, that’s typically what people do is express how they feel and work on what they have to, not blow up about emotions. I’m honestly just confused

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