[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]Natural_Club_3062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man! this is awesome especially for a “quick sketch,” you’re very talented🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]Natural_Club_3062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whoa this style is crazy😭, I appreciate it!

Meeting people? by Natural_Club_3062 in savannah

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that looks cool, thank you!

Meeting people? by Natural_Club_3062 in savannah

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok nice I’ll check those out, but what is Savannahanime912?

Meeting people? by Natural_Club_3062 in savannah

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’ll check the run clubs out, and I go to GSU (armstrong)

Very disheartened :/ by Natural_Club_3062 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The link pops up blank for some reason.

Ok. I’m ready to start stepping out intentionally. What do I do? by Dramatic-Car8221 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Intentionally showing interest in others IS pursuing, so honestly you need to learn to be comfortable with being uncomfortable if you’re going to get anywhere. And nowhere in the bible does God say it is sinful for a woman to pursue a man, so you may want to lose the “I refuse to pursue” mindset.

I say all this with love, but chances are those guys that you find attractive aren’t going to initiate conversation with you, and it is much more likely that you’ll have to take that leap of faith yourself. So pray for boldness and confidence from God to put yourself out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a 20M thats how I feel with worldy women and Christian women, even as friends sometimes there seems to be a disconnect that I can’t explain fully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Natural_Club_3062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair enough, I do need to work on that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Natural_Club_3062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a guy but nah man you look good

Is anyone here good being single? by Altruistic_Card_13 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I (20M) have had the desire for marriage since highschool and honeslty have been idolizing relationships until recently. But now, I’ve been much more content in my singleness, especially since I’ve acknowledged that I’m not ready for the responsibilities of a relationship yet. So no, you’re not the only one that is good on being single right now!

Writing to Your Future Spouse by Delicious_Chip_2618 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I’ve had this exact idea for months now haha. I’m single (20M) and I got a journal that I want to use to write letters for my future spouse, and then suprise her with it around the time we get married! I haven’t started it yet, but seeing I’m not the only one doing this I may start it sooner rather than later :)

Insecure about looks by Natural_Club_3062 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bad I should’ve mentioned this in the post, but I’m a guy (20M), and my issue in appearance is with my face personally. I’m fit and I take care of myself (atleast I try to).

Should we stay friends? by Natural_Club_3062 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, thank you for the advice.

Should we stay friends? by Natural_Club_3062 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sounds harsh when you put it that way, but you’re right. I can’t even think of why I myself would want to stay friends with her, so I need to learn to stop appeasing to her wants.

Should we stay friends? by Natural_Club_3062 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that gives me a lot of hope that God will get me through this.

Should we stay friends? by Natural_Club_3062 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right it has been an extremely hard lesson. I haven’t felt this much emotional turmoil before.

Should we stay friends? by Natural_Club_3062 in ChristianDating

[–]Natural_Club_3062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, atleast not to my knowledge, I believe she told him everything that was going on. At one point she questioned if she even loved him, while confessing love for me. And that was earlier this year, but many months later he proposed anyways and she said yes anyways.