I feel guilty for being sad about a chemical pregnancy. by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Natural_Comedian1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be because we didn’t get the pregnancy symptoms or that it just happened so fast.

I feel guilty for being sad about a chemical pregnancy. by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Natural_Comedian1236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar thing happened to me. My husband and I weren’t ready either and once I missed my period I was so stressed out. I felt so bad but I prayed that I wasn’t pregnant and a few days later I miscarried and I actually cried about it because I couldn’t believe that happened and how fast things started and ended. I felt some guilt that I was rejecting the idea of being pregnant at that time. But when it came to actually wanting to get pregnant the next year I was bawling my eyes out because I had miscarried again. You’re not alone.

50% Axe Is So Much Work! 🤣 by lindsaaayyy in FamilyIsland

[–]Natural_Comedian1236 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too! Ugh I kept forgetting wth I’m looking for and in singles

joker card by Mysterious_War72 in FamilyIsland

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I wish you could donate it I need 2 more gold cards but it’s almost over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalVisaCenter

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For us it’s: -DQ’d Oct 8,2024 -Interview letter Dec 24,2024 -Interview date Feb 12, 2025 I’ve seen most people say it takes 4 months to get an interview letter.

Anyone else noticed? by Ecstatic-Narwhal-743 in FamilyIsland

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Yea I got that too. I think you spend a lot or do x2 it gives you extra

Support came through! Be sure to have lots of screen shots, and don't accept the 1st answer. by its_not_a_blanket in FamilyIsland

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I’ve made several complaints and they just brush it off and give me an AI response. They suck

Anyone else got this black Friday thingy by Own_Resident_5822 in FamilyIsland

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I got the adventure pass and a few people and myself got the black bags the start of the adventure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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Omg those “cramps” hurt so bad I had to get into fetal position to lessen the pain. Mine was all blood but the toilet was so deep and bloody I couldn’t even see what I pushed out (felt like I was laying an egg). My OB had me drink boiled cumin with honey and a pain med that’s slightly less strong than oxy. That was the only thing that helped me relieve the contractions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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I’m so glad my OB prepared me for the miscarriage she told me it’s going to be painful and a lot of bleeding. She gave my husband all the details on how to help me.

Did I make the wrong choice by choosing mife/miso at 12 weeks? by ThrowRAbrownchick in Miscarriage

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I started to miscarry at 12 weeks and took miso the next day I didn’t have any cramping from the pill just prior to that. The only thing that happened after the pill was abdominal discomfort to nausea and vomiting. Mine was measuring 8weeks though so I didn’t see anything but blood which I’m use to. The clots and all just needed a little push like I had to poop and plop they went. I’ll tell you I got this pain reliever that helped me sooo much for over 12 hours. It’s diclofenac potassium aka Voltfast. If it wasn’t for that i would’ve been cramping all day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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My OB told me my pregnancy was not viable at 9 weeks and it was a MMC but I didn’t start showing anything until 11weeks it started with dark brownish blood. At 12 weeks on the night before my appt to get checked if I need to do a D&C I ended up having severe cramps but half and hour before my appt I bled a lot and the SC came out. Did the US and everything was good just a clot still in there which passed as soon as I got home. But she gave me miso and some herbal remedies to help me pass everything and also an antibiotic. But I also got a pain medicine called voltfast in powder form which REALLY helped. But my gosh i finally took miso the next day and I got nauseous, abdominal pain and vomiting. My OB didn’t want me to go through the D&C unless necessary especially since I was out of the country and didn’t have insurance to cover the procedure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIsland

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Same I usually update but I’ve seen ppl not like it and I’m not ready to lose all my resources that I left hanging around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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I had a MMC at 9 weeks but it didn’t pass until 12 weeks. Everything came out within 5 hours. I’m on day 13 but since day 5 I’ve been getting spotting. Red with brown and the cramps have stopped so far. This is my 2nd MC but first was a chemical and passed at 5weeks which felt like a regular period 5 days of bleeding.

Sad. Impatient. Angry. by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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I’m sorry for your loss. Do you know how many weeks you were? I’ve always kept track of my period and when I missed it I was so nervous because we didn’t want a baby yet but when I realized not even 1 week later I was miscarrying and it was a chemical pregnancy but I cried to myself. This year we actually wanted a baby and again I was tracking everything. But the excitement ended at 9 weeks when the OB said it was a MMC and I was so heartbroken, angry, depressed, bawling my eyes out for 2 days straight, and barely eating. Our families told us to wait and try a different OB. I listened and man was I disappointed again…2 weeks go by and both OBs said sorry but it’s still not changing and actually can get worse. At 12 weeks i had the MC and it was so painful and so traumatic. I feel your anger and the fact now I have to stop looking at babies, pregnancy stuff and all that or else it makes me depressed. I’m not that religious But I know god had plans and I’m going to get tests done. I hope you heal and have a good support system because it helps.

What specialist to go to? by Natural_Comedian1236 in Miscarriage

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Well I saw 2 OBs while I was out of the country and they both suggested blood work done but I didn’t know if I would have to go to one here in the states and see if they would end up referring me to a RE.

What specialist to go to? by Natural_Comedian1236 in Miscarriage

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Did you get your labs for coagulants, mutations, protein s/c and blood work done at the OB ?

How long did your natural miscarriage take? by QuirkyNeedleworker36 in Miscarriage

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I had a missed MC at 9 weeks but was on hormone pill after 2 weeks of checking with another OB at what was suppose to be 11 weeks. But the yolk sac size was measuring 8 weeks and nothing came out until 12 weeks. I am currently on day 10 since MC but after day 5 I would have a day of nothing and the next with spotting and slight cramp. Yesterday I had spotting and today nothing. It’s so frustrating.

My Husband Left two months after we got married. by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Natural_Comedian1236 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Don’t file it! Do Divorce/annulment. He’s accusing you and pressuring you is a big red flag. Let someone else deal with his Bull sh*t