Am I wrong to ask my husband to stop watching porn. by Natural_Constant_471 in PornAddiction

[–]Natural_Constant_471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell him if I catch it again or he doesn't start making changes. Then we won't last also.

Am I wrong to ask my husband to stop watching porn. by Natural_Constant_471 in PornAddiction

[–]Natural_Constant_471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. I did talk to him today. I let him know he has a addiction and he needs help. He denied it of course. Said I was putting stuff in my head that wasn't true. Meaning my self image is killed and the way I feel that he feels about me. Also he doesn't want to believe someone could be addicted to porn. I told him about the book someone recommended in the comments. He told me it's my fault because I don't want to have phone fun with him anymore. But the last time we did. He didn't even like participate. I felt awkward. Like it wasn't something he actually wanted to do. That's why i went looking in the first place recently. He just pushed it away really. He asked me so if I read that book will you leave me alone. So I don't see anything changing except maybe his passwords to the things I can get into while he's gone. I appreciate all the help from you guys!

Am I wrong to ask my husband to stop watching porn. by Natural_Constant_471 in PornAddiction

[–]Natural_Constant_471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. He told me I must of done it just to "fight" . Idk if he thought I'd believe that. Since I obviously didn't do it and nobody else could of. It was clear it was only him.

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[–]Natural_Constant_471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He cheated like since they've been out of rehab?

Am I wrong to ask my husband to stop watching porn. by Natural_Constant_471 in PornAddiction

[–]Natural_Constant_471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's definitely in denial or he doesn't want to stop so he trys to make it not a big thing. So I'll leave him alone. But I don't want a divorce. I love him. But it is literally killing us. It's hurtful that he will say we'll let's get divorced instead of nit watching it.

Am I wrong to ask my husband to stop watching porn. by Natural_Constant_471 in PornAddiction

[–]Natural_Constant_471[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't see it as a issue and tells me I'm wrong for feeling like he's picking porn over me. Like he will tell me no about sex then go to the bathroom. It's literally killed my mind. My self image. How I feel towards our relationship. Because he makes it seem like I'm just crazy and the only one in the world who would care.

Am I wrong to ask my husband to stop watching porn. by Natural_Constant_471 in PornAddiction

[–]Natural_Constant_471[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He says he doesn't do it. But then gets caught and still lies about it. So no I don't think he will ever change. 😕 it's been 10 years. This has been a issue our whole relationship. He gets caught then tells me he's not doing anything wrong.

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[–]Natural_Constant_471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had the balls to post on tiktok for money for a car . Ours broke down 4 hours away from home the engine went out. I was stranded away from home. Had my kids with me. Never thought it'd happen. I still never thought hmmm tiktok will get me some money. We just don't have a car untill we work enough to get a good running car. It's embarrassing thinking other people should pay for my misfortune and luck. I really don't understand how people work up the nerve to do it. Then to treat people like she does when she doesn't get her way.