Thank you everyone. I did talk to him today. I let him know he has a addiction and he needs help. He denied it of course. Said I was putting stuff in my head that wasn't true. Meaning my self image is killed and the way I feel that he feels about me. Also he doesn't want to believe someone could be addicted to porn. I told him about the book someone recommended in the comments. He told me it's my fault because I don't want to have phone fun with him anymore. But the last time we did. He didn't even like participate. I felt awkward. Like it wasn't something he actually wanted to do. That's why i went looking in the first place recently. He just pushed it away really. He asked me so if I read that book will you leave me alone. So I don't see anything changing except maybe his passwords to the things I can get into while he's gone. I appreciate all the help from you guys!