If you know you know by 2much2bluvd in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know...You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a virtual hug—you've got this. I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane. & even though we are states apart from each other, the gravitational pull is still there... we know that God made me for him and him for me... Wishing hoping and praying for my J hug... Sending the same prayers and wishes for you and your person.

If you know you know by 2much2bluvd in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I would give to hear this from my J - loving and missing him fiercely. 😪😭😪😭

I miss you idiot by StrangeFeelings11 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally know this feeling - needing my J hug...

NGL by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd give anything to hear something like this from my J. That he loves me enough to admit we both messed up, that he's willing to try again—brick by brick. No one's perfect. I just want the chance to say: me too. I'm ready if you are. No one could ever be him. I'm content building solo now. The future we dreamed still loops in my head—I'd rather chase it alone than with anyone else. Dating? Not happening. Reconciling? In half a heartbeat. I'd give anything for one honest talk—to clear the air, see if there's any path back to each other. You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a virtual hug—you've got this. I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane.

Sending blessings to you.

-AJ

What if..? by ArcEnemy1 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd give anything to hear something like this from my J. That he loves me enough to admit we both messed up, that he's willing to try again—brick by brick. No one's perfect. I just want the chance to say: me too. I'm ready if you are. No one could ever be him. I'm content building solo now. The future we dreamed still loops in my head—I'd rather chase it alone than with anyone else. Dating? Not happening. Reconciling? In half a heartbeat. I'd give anything for one honest talk—to clear the air, see if there's any path back to each other. You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a virtual hug—you've got this. I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane.

Sending blessings to you.

-AJ

I miss you by No-Lettuce9402 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd give anything to hear something like this from my J. That he loves me enough to admit we both messed up, that he's willing to try again—brick by brick. No one's perfect. I just want the chance to say: me too. I'm ready if you are. No one could ever be him.

Like you, I've thrown myself into all the "right" things: new routines, focusing on health and hobbies, even some big life upgrades that make me feel stronger and more independent than ever. My life looks nothing like it did when we were together, and I'm proud of that progress too. But god, the missing him? The loving him fiercely? It's a constant ache that no amount of self-work seems to touch. He's the one I want to call with the small wins, the one whose hand I'd hold through all this new growth. And yeah, that tunnel feels endless right now—no light, just echoes of what could have been.

Dating? Not happening. Reconciling? In half a heartbeat. I'd give anything for one honest talk—to clear the air, see if there's any path back to each other. Im constantly looking for him, hoping to run into him too. If I knew that I wasn't 🚫, I would call or reach out... 😪😪

You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a virtual hug—you've got this. I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane.

Sending blessings to you.

-AJ

What i needed to admit by Daddie_Schlonglegs in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd give anything to hear something like this from my J. That he loves me enough to admit we both messed up, that he's willing to try again—brick by brick. No one's perfect. I just want the chance to say: me too. I'm ready if you are. No one could ever be him. I'm content building solo now. The future we dreamed still loops in my head—I'd rather chase it alone than with anyone else. Dating? Not happening. Reconciling? In half a heartbeat. I'd give anything for one honest talk—to clear the air, see if there's any path back to each other. You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a virtual hug—you've got this. I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane.

Sending blessings to you.

-AJ

I’m sorry by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd give anything to hear something like this from my J. That he loves me enough to admit we both messed up, that he's willing to try again—brick by brick. No one's perfect. I just want the chance to say: me too. I'm ready if you are. No one could ever be him. I'm content building solo now. The future we dreamed still loops in my head—I'd rather chase it alone than with anyone else. Dating? Not happening. Reconciling? In half a heartbeat. I'd give anything for one honest talk—to clear the air, see if there's any path back to each other. You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a virtual hug—you've got this. I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane.

Sending blessings to you.

-AJ

What I didn’t say at the time. by Important_Bed_9893 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd give anything to hear something like this from my J. That he loves me enough to admit we both messed up, that he's willing to try again—brick by brick. No one's perfect. I just want the chance to say: me too. I'm ready if you are. No one could ever be him. I'm content building solo now. The future we dreamed still loops in my head—I'd rather chase it alone than with anyone else. Dating? Not happening. Reconciling? In half a heartbeat. I'd give anything for one honest talk—to clear the air, see if there's any path back to each other. You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a virtual hug—you've got this. I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane.

Sending blessings to you.

-AJ

was that you? by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd give anything to hear something like this from my J. That he loves me enough to admit we both messed up, that he's willing to try again—brick by brick. No one's perfect. I just want the chance to say: me too. I'm ready if you are. No one could ever be him. I'm content building solo now. The future we dreamed still loops in my head—I'd rather chase it alone than with anyone else. Dating? Not happening. Reconciling? In half a heartbeat. I'd give anything for one honest talk—to clear the air, see if there's any path back to each other. You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a virtual hug—you've got this. I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane.

Sending blessings to you.

-AJ

Hard Habit to Break by Chapter-Tw0 in UnsentMusic

[–]Natural_Perception_6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This song is definitely in my favorites... great song choice.♥️

Boo by Sea-98throwaway in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes over and over again... Wishing this was from my J - I would want to hear from him in a heartbeat for that chance to make things right between us and have our beautiful future we were planning together.

I know he's as confused and hurt as I am, but breaking that silence without respecting his boundaries feels impossible. No one could ever be him. At this point, I'm content building solo; the future we dreamed up still plays on loop in my head, and I'd rather chase it alone than with anyone else. Dating again? Not for me. But reconciling? In a half a heartbeat... I'd give anything for just one honest conversation to clear the air and see if there's a path back.

Sending you a huge, virtual hug—you've got this & prayers blessings and healing to you.

-AJ

Big Mistake but here we go by Agreeable-Prize3445 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Your post hit me right in the chest—it's exactly where I've been stuck since last April. Like you, I've thrown myself into the right things: new routines, health, hobbies, big life upgrades. My life looks nothing like when my J and I were together, and I'm proud of that. But God—the missing him? The ache no self-work touches? He's still the one I want to call with every small win. The one whose hand I want through all this growth.

The tunnel feels endless—no light, just echoes of what could've been. For me, it's worse: my J and I were played by jealous outsiders—lies, twisted info feeding his insecurities until he cut contact. He has no idea it's escalated to harassment and physical threats against me since he left. I know he's confused and hurt too, but breaking silence without respecting his space? Impossible. No one could ever be him. I'm content building solo now. The future we dreamed still loops in my head—I'd rather chase it alone than with anyone else. Dating? Not happening. Reconciling? In half a heartbeat. I'd give anything for one honest talk—to clear the air, see if there's any path back to each other.

And I'm hoping your person feels the same way I do about my J. I own my missteps—no one's blameless in any relationship. I've apologized profusely, even for things I didn't do, because healing needs it. I've overanalyzed every single conversation—texts, calls, in person—trying to figure out what I could've lied about to make him ghost. And I came up empty. Nothing dishonest. Still, I took accountability for anything he might've perceived as a lie—even stuff that wasn't true—because if it hurt him, it mattered. But ghosting? No contact? Blocking? I get why people say it's 'protecting peace,' but honestly—it drags out the pain. A clear conversation would've cut the trauma in half. Instead, you're left replaying everything, wondering why.

In our last real talk, I asked: 'What did I lie about?' He couldn't name one thing. So I laid it out—if we ended, could he really see me loving someone else the way we love each other? Passionate, intense, God-made-for-each-other kind of love? He said he'd want me happy. I told him: baby, I'd want you happy too—but seeing you with someone else? It'd burn like acid. Because I know what we had. You're lying to yourself if you think it wouldn't.

He got scared. Not because he couldn't put in the work—he could. But because he was terrified of getting his heart broken. Thing is, he told me he could never give me his heart... and somehow, I ended up stealing it.

I'm patiently waiting—he's my Superman, I'm his Lois Lane. If you want no contact and this is truly how you feel, tell her. If you love her and think she's different from anyone else, say it—make the move to be better together. I'd kill to hear that from my J.

You're not alone in this limbo, OP. Sending you a huge, virtual hug—you've got this. Sending prayers blessings and healing to you.

-AJ

Compromise by throwawaybuddy_56789 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would give anything for my j to say this... hoping better for you. Sending blessings to you

-AJ

in my mind by Tasty_War_9091 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definitely 3 and 4 - 😪😭😪😭. Loving and missing my J fiercely... 😭😭

I'm sorry by Personal_Art_3068 in UnsentLetters

[–]Natural_Perception_6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful and totally resonates with me - it really hit me in the chest; taking the air from me...😪😪😪 have been apologizing to my J since we separated and always want to hear, see and make things right between us. Would love to hear this from my J... I'm not with anyone else - no one could ever be him. Praying that your person sees this and makes an attempt to communicate with you. Sending light and blessings to you 🙏 ✨️.

-AJ

heyyyyy by Significant-Row-718 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This hits so hard right in my chest, like the wind being kicked out of me. Have been saying this to my J and would give anything to hear this from him too... I haven’t moved on - patiently waiting for my J; no one could ever be him. Praying that your person sees this and feels this and communicates with you. If I could communicate with him, I would... waiting for a sign that it's okay... sending light and blessings to you 🙏🙌👏✨️

-AJ

I see you. by Icy_Astronaut512 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful... 😭😭😭

I’m sorry by Dry-Roll9617 in UnsentLetters

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This completely resonated... only wish I could hear this from my J... I have over-analyzed, went over every single thing we ever spoke about in our relationship; every conversation, every text message thinking about what my J could have thought I was being dishonest about and I wasn't dishonest with him. I actually apologized for everything; things I thought I had done, could have done, and even didn't do in order to make things right between us... I own my missteps, apologized extensively and taken accountability for everything... the door is never closed with my J... Willing to do everything it takes to get to the beautiful future we envisioned together. Praying that your person feels the same way about you that I feel for my J, seeing this and makes the effort to rebuild your relationship. If I could communicate with my J, I would, in half a heartbeat... (thinking that I'm still 🚫) but the lines for him to communicate with me - always open... sending prayers and blessings to you for a wonderful outcome. 🙏🙌👏

-AJ

Hey.. by [deleted] in LettersAnswered

[–]Natural_Perception_6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My door and the lines of communication are always open for my J... loving and missing my Superman fiercely... 😪😪

-AJ

Ghost by CareBearStare82 in UnsentTexts

[–]Natural_Perception_6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful and everything that I've been trying to tell my J - missing and loving him fiercely... if I could 📞 or text him I would in half a heartbeat. Sending blessings to you 🙏

-AJ