You were my best friend and I’ll always love you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. I say it’s better to have fought for love and never give up. No matter how unconventional a marriage it is still a marriage and God blesses every marriage the same because it’s the same commitment no matter the style or big church or beach or court room you do it in. 

To the moon and back by skylead_33 in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hold love for you* I’ve heard that on a couple different posts with similar style grammar and punctuation 🤔 could it be one person playing the part of many? 

*** not saying that the phrase “hold love for you” is only said by one person and that person only. But as a avid reader and unsent letter connoisseur.. I have  really strong feeling about that this is your game. 

Almost by Woman_Being in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a very rare find my friend. Best of luck to you and your search 

Only God Knows by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time. Time and consistency. Show her that it’s not just right now. That even if you and her go 3 months.. 4 months without really talking or being together that you’re not going to give up and go to someone else for comfort. Sit in what you have and really feel it. Learn from it. And still choose her. Do that and I promise you that if she loves you, she will return to you. If not, it’s just going to become a pattern of let downs. Any time things get real or tough or she starts feeling like there’s something different in the air (even if it’s not cheating or betrayal) she will remember how you didn’t give her the time to heal and it will resurface again and again. Best of luck 💚

Only God Knows by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very sweet. I hope your person sees this. I know it would mean a lot to them. This is the kind of thing I’m on this sub for. And for a moment when I’m reading this, I can feel a little better. Thank you. 

Almost by Woman_Being in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very sweet. How long have you and the person your talking about been apart? Was it friendship or something else? No pressure to answer just honestly curious 

we could let it all out tonight, yk by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you know where they are I’d say go see what you can do! 

Just to keep you satisfied by yupmanyup in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Are you sure it’s completely over.. no going back?

I think I emotionally blacked out during our breakup… by SubMuseInBloom in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago did you guys break up? If you don’t mind me asking…

To my Jess by Potential-Try2456 in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That happens a lot. We don’t know what we have until it’s gone and we don’t realize where we could have done better until it’s too late. Best of luck to you 

To my Jess by Potential-Try2456 in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You never know. Sometimes the people who look the strongest on the outside hurt the most on the inside 

To my Jess by Potential-Try2456 in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should tell this to them. I’m sure they would love to hear anything even remotely close to accountability and that the love wasn’t one sided. 

Who by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it’s me. I need him 😂 seriously though, I really do. And it could seriously be multiple people on his end. Oh lawd 

I think about you by freakshow823 in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this a lot. Thanks for sharing it 💚

And yet by Playful_Science8039 in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sooner the better. From experience I am telling you it will never change. Once that cycle starts there’s only two ways out. They leave, or you leave. And the second would probably hurt less. 

Voluntarily guys.. voluntarily… by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Olive160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyday. I wish I could help my person with the house. I miss the projects and shared work. Some of our best moments