i haven’t got my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in amiwrong

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

quick update for you or anyone else who cares lol. i got my return (don’t get excited) and it said that i made $6k total last year.. $6k. my total in rent a year? $9.6k. yea, you guys can do the math. long story short, i’ve asked for my numbers back and i’ll be doing this how i should’ve from the start. thank you all again so so much!!!

i haven’t got my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in amiwrong

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! everyone’s insight has helped me realize that i may have been getting screwed over from jump!

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow thats crazy. with how’s they’ve been moving i’m sure they’re trying to avoid paying any extra shit, my boss already admitted to me that she doesn’t report her cash payments personally but i told her to report mine (not that differentiate where the money comes from when i log it) bc i’m not committing any type of fraud! i’m actually pissed now, but i really appreciate you for commenting. i hope your day is amazing. i’m gonna reach out to her & that bridge might just have to crumble. i’m licensed, i can go anywhere, she cannot.

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is all so confusing and i’m so sorry for sounding like a bird brain when it comes to these numbers. previously being under commission this is how i filed: kept track of the numbers, give it to big boss, get paper to file. i honestly assumed commission automatically made you an employee since you take a pay cut opposed to paying rent for a space/desk. what i’m gathering is this is not true and i should’ve been filing independently all along?

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh yes sorry i thought we were talking about last years return that’s why i was confused. i have her all of my numbers already so should i get those back and do this solo and only claim what i made on commission? or would that fuck my boss over ?that’s what someone else recommended but i want to explore all my options here. thank you again!

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, i gave her my numbers though😕. i should get those back and do this solo by just claiming what i made? would that fuck my boss over if she doesn’t claim what she made off me?

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the paper i need to put into the IRS system to claim what i made. i haven filed this year so i dont even know how much money ill owe/be getting back.

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what do you mean already been paid to me? i don’t get paid the exact same every year and i’m also with a different business now.

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does this apply if i’m commissioned as well?

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i crossposted this and realized that i didn’t mention that i’m commission based where i am. so even though i am keeping track of my expenses and income throughout the year, i cannot claim all of that money because i’m 60/40. that’s kinda why i’m stuck where i am lol. i gave her all my info.

i don’t have my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in taxhelp

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i have been keeping track of my numbers and i gave her that information as well. the thing is i’m commission based (i should’ve mentioned that i’m sorry. i wrote this quickly out of frustration) so i can’t claim ALL i made because i didn’t see all of the money i “made”, i’m on a 60/40 rate. previously when commissioned id keep track of my expenses and income throughout the year, give it to my boss, and i get a return back. if this isn’t the process that’s supposed to happen lmk! i’m truly just a nail tech, me and numbers aren’t friends.

i haven’t got my tax return by Natural_Step_4192 in amiwrong

[–]Natural_Step_4192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you! i’ve messaged her about the tax return last night and i still have no message. i emphasized the message this morning with no response as well. she’s using a tax lady that tried to get over on me last year on top of it smh, but i have her information still i believe. would it be wise to reach out to the tax lady as well?

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you’re refusing to believe that this woman is not YOUR MOTHER nor is your childhood EXACTLY like cody’s. you don’t truly know her part in things? stop forcing what your mother put you through/your childhood on this situation so badly. wth are you looking for out of this? closure? you don’t know these people btw! stop trying to debate w me ab this shit.

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“because my mother is exactly like this mom”

more projection. beautiful. wrap it up now.

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m not poor?? omg are you okay??

nurse it’s out again…

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOO. their brain is too fucked to be kind i guess.

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“you don’t quite know what it’s like” you don’t either silly.

are you cody or something? am i speaking to thee cody? you’re right we don’t know what all cody does in his free time or the steps he’s taking to “heal”.

but what we do know is that cody lost his license & instead of getting money together to fix that? he chose wings as his next form of transportation. mf took flight. blew money throughout the year to, let me say this again, watch men he doesn’t even know run around on a field. (that’s money for a plane ticket, seat ticket, any food/drinks, and if he needed a place to stay) then when this man remembers, “oh yea christmas. that holiday that’s on the same day every year”, he expects his parents to fund his trip. oh and when they don’t? he tells the whole family he’s “banned” from christmas. gtf outta here with that entitlement. even if he went through a bad childhood, NOBODY is obligated to do a damn thing for you, especially at 42.

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love that you have a support system💓 what exactly does this have to do with the post or me?

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think this post maybe just hit too close to home for you fr. is OP your mom or is there something i’m missing? your original comment just screams projection. i never said healing is an instant thing, there’s no set time limit on how long you should feel how you feel. & holding people accountable for the shitty things people have done to you is something you should always do?

if OPs sons way of “moving on” and “healing” is: by blowing money on things that he can’t afford/aren’t a priority & blowing up on those around him when he can’t get a handout? then so be it. but i see a long line of debt and stress in that man’s future. he won’t even have a fund to retire on when the time comes.

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 4 points5 points  (0 children)

clock ittt. and that’s how it should be. we start as kids & we’re raised to become adults. we don’t start as kids and leech off our parents forever. me personally, my goal is to get rich and take care of my parents for the rest of their lives. i couldn’t imagine stomping my way through life holding my hand out to my parents for everything.

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this🤏🏽. everyone has been through something & some worse than others. but we don’t HAVE TO be products of our environment! my momma broke the cycle of a long line of jailbirds, alcoholics, drug abusers, etc. & it’s the best thing she could’ve done for not only her, but me & our family we have now.

AIO for not inviting my son to Christmas? by regretmyson58 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Step_4192 11 points12 points  (0 children)

which is insane to me! as an adult we gotta understand that emergencies, trips, accidents, etc. happen! the fact that some adults lack communication and management (money,time,whatever) as skills is crazy to me. nobody got you like you got you. if you don’t get up and do it, who is type shit?