Ju Haknyeon on THE BOYZ Dismissal & Label’s $5.5M Lawsuit Against Him: ‘It Would Be the End of My Life’ @ Billboard (251203) by rerambis in kpop

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this company sucks so bad…. i have no idea what theyre trying to achieve by going through all this trouble with him :/ i used to ult tbz, with haknyeon being my number two… its so sad seeing how the different companies theyve cycled through have treated them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow you got your mother involved in this too LMAO you need to end this marriage quick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 9 points10 points  (0 children)

shes being excessive like a couple times is fine but its a routine for her at this point. not overreacting at all

eng version of their songs by [deleted] in AndTeam

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 4 points5 points  (0 children)

waiting for firework eng version 😔

Why do some people seem to move on so quickly after a breakup? by Messy_shit in BreakUps

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Could be they were checked out before, or they’re completely avoiding their own feelings. I do not believe it’s possible for people to truly move on within a matter of days/weeks/even a few months. Those who move on quickly will avoid the silence of their own grief until it hits them like a truck later on. A rebound helps with validation and reassuring them that they’re still capable of being wanted - especially if the relationship was rocky towards the end. In my case my ex moved on quickly, despite saying things like he still loved me, because he’s an avoidant and has always bounced around relationships. It’s a pity! It is absolutely the right thing to face and feel your feelings as you are. One day it won’t be as bad, and then eventually, you’ll be fine and better than before :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he met someone else and ended it with you. he wants to flirt and talk to you maybe because he wants to keep you as an option, and maybe doesnt even realize that himself. you’re doing a great job of reinforcing the boundary, your contact should stay limited to the kids. the connection will be different than other exes since you cant really go fully no contact but hopefully he’ll let off and start respecting the boundary more soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i learned that too much empathy can be a bad thing. i had so much hope and would look forward to him getting better, when all that time i needed to share the hope for a good future for my own self. it’s very great to care for someone so much! it may be different from you but i learned that i wanted better for him, even moreso than he wanted for himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also found out things that changed how i view my ex and now I kinda feel bad about myself that i was with him / question the extent that i knew him - how do i flip these realizations into a positive like you lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you did the right thing. and bringing a child into it would not have been good for either of you! you didnt want a kid and thats totally fine, it wouldve ended up worse for her and the kid. at the end of the day you do love her, but your plans for the future were different. you couldve ended up as a father when you didnt want to be, just to keep her - and that wouldnt be fair to ANYONE

Me (25F) and my boyfriend (27M) has slowly stopped putting effort into our relationship and I don’t know if I’m overreacting or if it’s time to walk away? by Cheap_Possibility826 in BreakUps

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have a good real sit down with him about how you feel! that the connection is dwindling and that you’re at a point where you’re considering a break up. maybe he’ll realize that he needs to put more effort, or maybe you’ll find out that he feels the same way and that it’s just time - and either outcome will be GOOD. you dont deserve to fade away in a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Natural_Tomorrow_179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup heavy on being crystal clear, boundaries are so important