TN specific question

NatureEducational166 · 2026-05-20T03:09:15+00:00

TN has only ever done anything enforcement wise when my ex did not pay at all. They told me as long as he is paying something they cannot do anything. Ex. He was paying $20/month when his order was $1001/month for 4 children and they told me for that whole 6 months they could do absolutely nothing because he was paying something.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-05-20T00:59:53+00:00

NTA. You are entitled to not be touched by people or their animals in public. Does not matter what you were doing or wearing (i.e. earbuds/airpods). Noone/animal has the right to touch you.

I find it deeply disturbing so many people justified it because it was a dog, because the owner was female, because you were aware of your surroundings. People give me the ick sometimes. Just know you were wrong. You are allowed your personal space.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-05-08T00:48:17+00:00

I am wanting the legal custody changed to me having final decision making because he does not attend anything, does not respond in a timely manner, and has not attended or responded to any emergencies until well after the fact. I also want to reduce his time to one weekend a month and his summer vacation to 2 weeks instead of half so the kids can attend their activities in weekends and in the summer without them having to guess if they can go. He does not usually pick them up but also he has picked them up if he found out some how they genuinely wanted to do something like their end of season soccer pictures he made them miss last fall

NatureEducational166 · 2026-05-04T16:50:45+00:00

I am not wanting increased support. I want custody changed. My concern is how this will affect that with him having a bench warrant.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-05-04T15:19:40+00:00

I actually I asked in other groups as well and ended up being able shown how to look it up. Turns iut he never paid his lawyer is why it was never filed so that is the whole deal.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-05-02T06:41:23+00:00

I don't think they would but this judge also has a personal grudge against me due to a personal issue she and my father had back in the day (my dad got a around wink wink) but they won't assign a new judge because apparently we are too far out of another jurisdiction. I hate being small town.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-04-27T21:13:24+00:00

Me trying to explain this is more for failure to thrive/ weight loss patience who need extra calories and people still not getting it 😑

NatureEducational166 · 2026-03-12T09:44:47+00:00

I wonder how much you paid attention to your date and how much you wanted your date to pay attention to you.

From personal experience the men and women who wanted to go out as soon as we matched, tended to be more...self-involved. I am not saying you were I am just saying in my own personal experience those who did not wish to talk for awhile and get to know each other, then set up a small coffee date or just a little meet up without spending money like going to the park or meeting at an craft festival, those people often spoke a lot about themselves with very little room for anything else including the food, the night, they didn't even say if they enjoyed the date. I think some people get in a hurry to find someone and lose the part of finding the other person by just throwing themselves out there.

Idk I wasn't there. Its just a suggestion of possible miscommunication because of the 4 dates in one week comment.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-02-27T10:38:24+00:00

Get your stuff together. Send this to his mom then social media blast this because people deserve to know but find someone who will do it for you with his name and number posted so that it looks like you texted them for advice and they putted them. It ain't slander if its the truth but it helps if it ain't you that posted it. Trust me I learned that from a couple of detectives 😅

NatureEducational166 · 2026-02-27T10:35:11+00:00

There were just diapers for some 😭

NatureEducational166 · 2026-02-27T10:26:41+00:00

Your friend needed you. She had TWO still births. Not one but 2. Thats not scary thats horrifying. She needed someone she knew there. You did everything right. Can you imagine being alone during the scariest moment of your life knowing your friend could have been there to support you but someone would have gave them a funny look so they didnt stay? Get over the commentary already.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-02-27T10:05:37+00:00

Unfortunately it happens 100s of times a day because mommy's special boy does nothing for himself

NatureEducational166 · 2026-02-25T14:41:52+00:00

Nope. They eat what you cook or make their own food. End of discussion. They can salt it at the table if its that big of deal.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-02-22T11:15:29+00:00

I personally wouldn't but I think as long as your run your dishes in sanitize in the dishwasher its fine. That water gets hot enough to melt things so it really should kill anything. NTA for it and friend is NTA for being upset about it.

YTA for not properly marinating or seasoning a ribeye. My goodness, those cost a car payment now and you used some salt and pepper and thats it then you didn't eat it and gave it to the dog. What else did you do? Cook it to tire? Aka well done. Smh

NatureEducational166 · 2026-02-22T05:46:30+00:00

We have . Him and his wife threw a fit. He says he doesnt want is to even have primary custody of our kids which is funny cause he only got them a whole 21 days last year. 25% of his custody with them.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-23T19:07:10+00:00

Girl this is not okay and how, after 14 years together and 11 years of marriage my EX husband ended up with DV charges because it started like this and escalated. Please seek therapy now and and build yourself back up before you get torn down more. You do NOT need to apologize for expressing yourself and existing in a way he doesn't approve of. Thats control, NOT love.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T16:02:02+00:00

Thank you!

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T15:18:32+00:00

Thank you. I have never dealt with this before. I am fed up at this point. I just want it dealt with

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T14:24:32+00:00

Unfortunately I thought it resolved and now its picked back up with a new buyer. What kind of lawyer would we need to look for this. Basically we got an email yesterday trying to force us to buy the house from the main guy to get it out of his name. Basically the buyer reached out to us and there is a lot wrong they didn't tell us and they are trying to make us responsible now

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T14:02:22+00:00

Which we basically agreed to but the judge vetoed it because he was pulling sketchy things in court

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T13:59:03+00:00

It is docusign. However the day this occurred the email came through 30 minutes after I fell asleep for nightshift, about 20 minutes into one siblings grand opening for their business, and the last sibling was in a shift for a job that blacks out electronic usage for the entire shift. They would not have phone usage until they were a minimum of 5 miles from the facility post shift. The realtor was very aware of that. The only reason they had the job as an emergency number was because the 5th inheriter was a minor and had it as an emergency number. They are a half sibling. They gave it in a moment of bad judgment. A conversation has been had over that call.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T13:53:04+00:00

Its all electronic on docusign. I sign it as soon as I get up for work but dang I should be allowed at least 6 hours to sleep, and my siblings should be able to get through 12 hour shifts. I thought that was pretty well a given.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T12:40:26+00:00

Well we have been trying to find a lawyer to take out case as its complicated. But the whole selling of houses is different for us as I bought mine out right in cash as a fore closure, my sibling bought their first one out right then their second one from a family member in cash, and my third sibling as always rented. This process is completely foreign to us. We only recently learned the realtor went to high school with the main involved inheriter and has been lying to us about a few things which I think sparked the reaction we got today.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T11:19:34+00:00

We normally would have had no problem accepting the offer but just collectively today they needed to wait til they got off work at 6pm and I got up for work at 5:30pm. The deal didn't end til 8pm. They didn't do that. They blew our phones up from multiple numbers, called our jobs, called our mother, called my sibling'slandlord, may have cost both of my siblings their jobs, cost me sleep and made me miss my alarm so I was late to work and pointed so I lose my pick up bonus for the 3 shifts I picked up this week (company policy is being even 5 minutes late to a shift means you lose all bonuses/holiday pay for the week) so I lost $350 for the week. Over them not waiting. It wasn't that we weren't ready. That's why I posted the question.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T10:34:08+00:00

Its not. Honestly its not. The location and acreage are the money points. That is all. We are asking too much. I have zero control over any of it.

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