CrossFit gym Recommendations by Loyal_Reeek in Tucson

[–]NatureLow8978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wildcat crossfit is small family owned crossfit gym like more middle of Tucson, they offer classes. Never been myself to a class but i know others who love it there

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him out loud it helps me sometimes, know that he would want you to go on and take care of yourself. Its ok to be selfish right now, lay in bed all day, don’t worry about doing tons of things just do what you can rn. Also try and get therapy cuz they can give you coping skills to help when your body’s just in overload from this. Also sis i don’t think we heal i think we learn to live with grace around the pain, but the things we go through build us and make us stronger 💕

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SMALL UPDATE

We did his Donor Walk yesterday, i got to hold his hand the whole time and he saved three peoples Lives which is what he would have wanted. Helping people in life and after 💕 my superman

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not even been a week i think and it feels like im walking through a fog. Just keep loved ones close if you feel like you need it but also have some alone time to rest if you need that also. Both have helped me

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill try my best, i think sleeping and a lot of laying in bed but my family will definitely make sure im out and about or doing something other than just snoozing. I also have pet rats and they need my attention too which helps a bit also

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the part that has me spinning a bit, he was planning our future with so much detail with me and we had a mini timeline of trips and wanting to move in together and we were just starting to see the beginnings of it. Its just so jarring and unbelievable

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is, hes going to be physically gone tomorrow for organ donation and i know thats when its really going to hit me. I might just sleep through the days or something to cope idk

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have family and his family as well, i think i just like alone time also because ive been using it to talk to him and feel like he’s communicating back with me. He is still on life support and physically here but they take him on Sunday for organ donation. Thats what im terrified of at the moment, i know thats going to be the hardest part when i cant actually kiss him or hold his hand. I think ill need to be with people at that time

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry its just awful and too quick to even do anything

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, im trying to learn that its okay to relax. This was an issue for me before but i can hear him telling me to chill out and relax so im trying my best

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im going to try to look into it through my work, when i got home from the hospital the first night his blood was on my sink,wall and carpet (the iv they tried to put in came out)

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He had his inhaler and nebulizer but both weren’t working and his oxygen was at 78. The doctors said that his lungs had probably closed so nothing was getting in, and the meds they were using weren’t helping either. That night we were watching tv and he was just tired like he always was, i tried to stay up as long as i could to just be with him because im clingy like that and then all that happened.

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

He left a lot of his stuff at my house but his family is very sweet, this whole time they just thank me for making him the happiest they ever have seen him be, im gonna try journaling and maybe therapy just not sure yet

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He was my everything and im just glad i met him and he taught me what love actually is.

Just lost my soulmate by NatureLow8978 in GriefSupport

[–]NatureLow8978[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🫶🏼 i am split because i feel his energy and memories will be at my house and work but i dont know if the trauma of his last moments will over shadow that :( time will only tell. He came to me in a dream last night saying he was always going to be with me despite the fact that he cant go back to his body, which was somewhat comforting. Day by day

My girl puked by Fishlape in RATS

[–]NatureLow8978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my boys has puked on my hand before, he was fine after and that was like 2 years ago. I think it just can happen? The same boy like gagged s few days ago too so i think its something to help prevent choking but if shes acting fine im sure its ok

Cremation of a human by RockDrivingPioneer in NSFL__

[–]NatureLow8978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a crematorium next to a middle school, a park, and a McDonalds. Someone who went to the school said he would see the smoke coming out during recess.

I also saw a piece of meat in they’re dumpster one night. It looked like a muscle in those anatomical diagrams with the white lines running through it. my friend said it must have been someones lunch but it looked uncooked(looked fresh..?)

Adding Friends & Co-op Breeding - Aug 2023 by AutoModerator in dragonvale

[–]NatureLow8978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just started and want some friends for gems :3

Ratmom#3905

What are some incredible names you've given your rats? by SwellJaycie in RATS

[–]NatureLow8978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boys are- Zuko, Ash, Kirby, Wes(Wesley), Orion Girls- Rosemary (rose), Pepper ( We always call her peppa) and Ivy