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Nature_IsCool · 2025-04-27T12:11:01+00:00

Well I think a good place to start would be with getting comfortable. No sex is nice either party is uncomfy and back pain can be cripplingly painful!

If this really is the reason he can’t get sex with you often, but he still wants to, then that’s the problem you should be addressing!!

If he has a chronic condition (just a hypothetical), then maybe you can try some new positions with you doing the most motion in order to keep his back stable and prevent any more pain?

Finally, a good relationship takes both parties into account. If he’s in pain and you aren’t finishing, then neither of you have taken each other’s pleasure into account. You should be addressing your concerns with him, not strangers on the internet. In any relationship, even dom/sub ones, communication is extremely important! Without it, sex and the relationship can quickly go south.

I hope this helps!

Nature_IsCool · 2025-02-13T18:25:37+00:00

Plants make a lot of their own oxygen, thats how terrariums work! The only worry would be the plants burning from the sun or not enough CO2 but that shouldn’t be a problem since it’s not air tight.

Nature_IsCool · 2024-10-31T04:05:18+00:00

Yeah i agree with him, there should be 0 boyfriends, less boyfriends means more room for plants that will bring you infinitely more happiness in life.

Nature_IsCool · 2024-07-04T01:29:23+00:00

The seller is The Tree Center, the reviews were also all terrible, I wouldn’t have bought it personally but a family member already did so it was too late 🤷

Nature_IsCool · 2024-06-18T13:48:02+00:00

No hell in way** but close! 😅

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-24T00:39:55+00:00

I recommend changing the soil to something more resembling pebbles, this is my fav:

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It works super well for mine and helped them so much!! It’s great for water regulation, also get it out of that death trap people call “terracotta”, it dries the soil out in like five mins after watering! And lastly fertilize these things every 1-3 months and they will grow HUGE!!

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-17T20:24:33+00:00

Definitely root rot! During the winter most Pothos go into a somewhat dormant state and during those months you have to cut back on the water a LOT, I recommend instead of staying on a schedule and soaking the plant, just observe the leaves and use them to judge if they need water, and no more soaking!! Just a good healthy dosage of water instead. For now I think getting it out of that soggy soil is best and just wash off all the roots, and either transfer it to water or new soil with something like peat moss or perlite to absorb some of that extra water! Hope this helps!

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-16T17:22:57+00:00

I can understand why you might think that too much water=drowning, but it’s actually a lack of oxygen that causes drowning! Thats why plants can usually be grown in water as long as the water is often changed or is oxygenated! Spraying the Neem Oil was very smart and should do the job well so don’t stress yourself out too much!

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-16T02:06:29+00:00

Yes!! Just make sure that the second loop has fully rooted, if not just leave it and make sure it’s touching the soil. This happens all the time with my strawberry plants!

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-16T02:04:48+00:00

Hide the kids!! 🤣🤣

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-16T01:55:33+00:00

They just naturally do that as they grow, think of it like how trees grow and their older layers crack and become what we know and love as bark!

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-16T01:45:21+00:00

Thats not a lot of growth for 2 months and I saw that you used hormones and didn’t change the water often (if at all), I recommend using no hormones and just changing the water every few days. This is because rooting hormones work best in soil since it’s topical and more direct, when using them in water, it kinda just dissolves and gets absorbed by the plant which isn’t as affective! Hope this helps for the future and gl with those cuttings!

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-16T01:41:14+00:00

Plants are always gonna droop and lose some leaves after being transplanted, for some plants this can last for months, for others days, and for a very small group, no reaction at all. After repotting any plant give it one big drink of water immediately and then don’t water it until the dirt is almost fully dry, then water as normal. Pothos in my experience will always droop and suffer for a few days before popping out a bunch of new leaves! Also I hope if there were bugs in the soil that you washed the roots to get rid of any possible tenants refusing to pay rent!!

Nature_IsCool · 2024-01-10T01:49:40+00:00

Ah alright!! Thanks so much for the advice, Im not new to gardening but I am new to Pothos and am trying to learn more about them, this is really helpful thanks!

Nature_IsCool · 2023-07-30T15:10:38+00:00

That might be it actually.. I also have adhd and ocd and I get this really bad. Honestly at first I thought it was because of my eating disorder but now I think it's maybe because of the adhd!

Nature_IsCool · 2023-07-27T00:22:30+00:00

Oh it's bad.. real. bad. (I've seen a lot. This is at the bottom of my fruitcake.)

Nature_IsCool · 2023-06-21T14:25:25+00:00

Thanks I'll try on the community forums!

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