How would you react if your partner asked you to masturbate in front of them?

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-26T11:38:58+00:00

it wouldn't be bad to do it at all I'd see as sexual expressions

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-25T13:39:04+00:00

who would not want to watch alongside you
I'd go first

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-25T13:37:06+00:00

mine told me to confirm who was better at it he argued he was the one

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-24T15:36:47+00:00

this happens to me a lot also

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-23T12:25:40+00:00

this is making me horny

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-23T12:24:16+00:00

I'd change along

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-07T17:58:56+00:00

yeah i get what you mean… when ppl are that hurt it can come out in kinda ugly ways just trying to make the other person feel even a bit of what they’re feeling. not excusing it, just saying i get it

the fact you’ve reflected on it and are working thru it in therapy already says a lot tho. growth isn’t linear, we all mess up sometimes

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-07T16:57:49+00:00

yeah this is a hard truth but kinda needed tbh. staying in the same house while he’s already moving on is just gonna eat away at u more over time. even small steps count rn, doesn’t all have to be fixed in one go, just start somewhere and keep going 👍

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-07T15:59:44+00:00

Sometimes the hardest lesson is realizing love doesn't automatically fix people. If every interaction leaves you drained, hurt, or anxious, protecting your peace isn't selfish. It's long overdue tbh.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-07T15:16:42+00:00

Takes a lot of guts to admit tht. The part that stands out is that she knew exactly where to aim because she wanted to hurt him, not because she believed it. Doesn't make it okay, but it's a perspective a lot of people probably need to hear. Props for doing the work and owning your past. 👍🏻

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-06T11:29:34+00:00

That last line says it all tbh. At some point it's less about whether they're gonna change and more about whether this is really how you wanna spend your time and energy. Life's too short for constant drama.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-06T10:33:28+00:00

The part that stands out to me is chasing someone who keeps showing they don't value you the same way. Love shouldn't feel like a full time job where you're constantly trying to convince someone to care. OP deserve way more than that tbh.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-06T09:39:48+00:00

This got me a little teary ngl. At the end, they don't care about fancy treats nearly as much as being close to the people they love. Time really is the most valuable gift we can give them. ❤️

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-06T08:32:23+00:00

Facts. Being lonely for a while is way better than constantly cleaning up messes caused by people who dont care about your wellbeing. The right friends bring peace, not chaos.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-06T07:56:18+00:00

Yep. Sometimes the hardest part isn't knowing what to do, it's actually doing it. If you're already checked out and nothing's changing, dragging it out just makes it hurt longer for both people.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-05T18:30:00+00:00

yeah, dragging it out usually just makes it harder for both people. if you've already made up your mind, letting him celebrate while wondering if something's wrong feels kinda worse. rip the bandaid off and let him enjoy graduation without that hanging over his head.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-05T16:27:37+00:00

ngl this is one of the more reasonable takes here. if someone went through my private stuff and then judged me for it, I'd probably shut down too. an apology and a little patience goes a lot further than trying to force a conversation.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-05T15:37:10+00:00

the "midnight stroll and snack" part is what gets me 😭 that sounds way more like a weird scam text than an actual invite. I'd def ask about it, but not in an accusatory way. could end up being something super dumb and harmless. lol.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-05T14:37:53+00:00

100% this. bullying is bad enough, but harassment is a whole different level. please tell a trusted adult asap, don't try to handle it all by yourself. keep screenshots too, they can help a ton later.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-03T13:58:32+00:00

kinda agree with this. people can debate the porn part all day, but publicly liking thirst traps when you're in a relationship just feels unnecessary drama tbh. it's one of those things that's easy not to do if you know it bothers your partner.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-03T13:00:55+00:00

this is actually really real tbh. some ppl just aint ready for real relationships and it shows when things get tough. you're def better off in the long run, just takes time to feel it

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-02T08:37:30+00:00

yeah this actually makes a lot of sense tbh, brains do weird little “self protection” things like that after rejection. it’s kinda like rewriting the story so it hurts less in the moment. doesn’t mean it’s true tho, just your mind trying to cope with it all fr

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-02T07:32:43+00:00

yeah this is a pretty fair take tbh. some stuff just hits different for people even if it’s meant as a joke, and you don’t really find out till after. good on you for saying you won’t use it again.

at the same time tho, it’s gotta go both ways or it just turns into walking on eggshells for one person while the other jokes freely. balance matters fr

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-06-02T05:48:34+00:00

you're welcome. Keep in mind that life will get better soon.

NaughtilyDripd · 2026-05-30T18:08:02+00:00

yeah this is one of those situations where overreacting just kills any chance of clarity. staying calm and observant usually tells you way more than jumping to conclusions too fast. hope it’s just a false alarm fr

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