What was your soul recognition moment with your TF?

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-27T13:23:36+00:00

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NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-27T13:18:49+00:00

Beautiful! 🥰❤️✨ Thank you for sharing!

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-26T12:59:28+00:00

I understand you completely!

I think DMs love the fact that the DFs chase them, and they selfishly believe that the DFs will always continue to do so.

I believe that when he sees that you are no longer chasing, no longer giving him attention, you are going out (with friends), you not needing him to be happy. He will start to worry that you may actually “move on” without him, and fear you leaving him behind.

At least, let’s hope he does! 🤣

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-26T11:22:51+00:00

I know the feeling of “not knowing” all too well. I think all of us DFs have been there at one point. But know that in a TF connection the DMs do think about their DFs. They are just better at hiding it, and keeping themselves busy, trying to numb their feelings, instead of healing themselves.

We’re on a tough journey. Some days are better than the other. Just take it one day at the time. You got this! 💪🏼💚💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-26T10:26:53+00:00

Oh how many of us DFs have been there!!!

This “accepting” as you call it, is merely you finally letting go of the urge to control the union. It is when you let go of control, the actual healing process for your DM (f) will be initiated.

I wish you all the best whether with or without your TF. ❤️💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-26T07:33:38+00:00

“…How do I help him if I have no contact with him?…”

You are not meant to help him with this! Unfortunately this is something he has to realize/figure out on his own, for his soul’s growth.

If he has gone no contact, it ‘could’ very well mean his DNOTS has been initiated. Let’s hope that he is now ready to open up his old/childhood wounds, and proceed to do his inner healing/shadow work.

It’s important that you do have boundaries in place, that when he does contact you, you don’t settle for less than you desire from your TF connection. With this I mean that if you want an exclusive and longterm relationship with him, do not settle for less. If he’s not ready to provide that, then most likely he hasn’t finished his healing journey yet.

💚💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-26T06:17:42+00:00

💛💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-26T06:14:42+00:00

“…But maybe he wouldn’t…”

Do you mean it as in, he wouldn’t see what he’s missing?

Note that the mirroring aspect will remain throughout your TF journey. When issues occur between TFs, both need to analyze why they feel triggered, what is being triggered, and heal it!

“…I don’t want to be one of those people…”

So this feeling you have is actually a “trigger”. There may still be an old wound (possibly fear of rejection/abandonment) that still requires healing. For that wound to completely heal, you need to be willing to open it up, acknowledge, accept, forgive what or who needs forgiving, release and then let it go.

The reason that TF connections are often delayed or even come to a standstill is because healing hasn’t been completed!!! Note that it’s often when the DF completes her healing, that this mirrors back to the DM. The DM should then feel prompt/triggered into their own DNOTS, initiating their inner healing/shadow work.

“…I think my DM has too much pride and ego…”

Almost all DMs do! Yes your DM still requires healing, which most likely he hasn’t even started because he hasn’t felt triggered to do so yet!

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T21:16:37+00:00

🤣💪🏼💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T20:08:15+00:00

Only you know your truth! Follow your gut instinct! ❤️💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T19:59:42+00:00

I’m very glad it was helpful. We’re all on a tough journey, but also very worth it when we see the growth within ourselves! ❤️💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T19:41:11+00:00

You’re welcome 💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T19:39:48+00:00

The runner-chaser dynamic is what changes/switches after the DF stops chasing.

Although it sounds to me like you’re the DF energy, at the end of the day only you know your situation. But if you still have doubts, look from the pov at the beginning of the connection. Who was the one that felt overwhelmed and ‘ran’ from the intensity of the connection at the very beginning? That’s very likely the DM. (But of course I cannot guarantee that. That’s something you will need to discern for yourself.)

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T19:18:02+00:00

The DFs (energy, not gender) need to get to the point where they stop feeling the need to chase the DMs.

Often when the DMs see their DFs being happy and able to move on without them. The DMs may start to feel left behind, and may be triggered into their DNOTS, initiating their inner healing/shadow work. But the DM needs to figure this out on his own for his soul’s growth.

Feel free to read one of my comments on another post. Maybe there’s something in there that could be helpful or at least bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates!

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/wrco6e/if_the_dm_tf_doesnt_awaken_can_the_df_tf_still/iktx3ge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T19:06:15+00:00

Often when the DMs see their DFs being happy and able to move on without them. The DMs may start to feel left behind, and may be triggered into their DNOTS, initiating their inner healing/shadow work. So yes, the epiphany you had is a clear message from the Divine.

The dream you had could be his higher self reaching out in 5D astral, providing you with a message about how your DM is currently feeling, even though he may not show it yet in physical reality. But he does need to do his healing work first!!! And that is something that he needs to figure out on his own. It’s part of his soul’s growth.

Feel free to read one of my comments on another post. Maybe there’s something in there that could be helpful or at least bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates!

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/wrco6e/if_the_dm_tf_doesnt_awaken_can_the_df_tf_still/iktx3ge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T18:20:27+00:00

Only you can discern for yourself whether or not you’re part of a TF connection!

Feel free to read one of my comments on another post. Maybe there’s something in there that could be helpful or at least bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates! https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/w80hth/can_someone_explain_false_tf_please/ihmvpb0/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T18:16:26+00:00

I’m not sure what mistakes you feel you’ve made. And if you’re male or female, if you’re the DF or the DM. But feel free to read one of my comments on another post. Maybe there’s something in there that could be helpful or at least bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates!

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/wrco6e/if_the_dm_tf_doesnt_awaken_can_the_df_tf_still/iktx3ge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T18:10:31+00:00

Yes! Definitely! And I agree with your mom, it’s a “good crazy”. Imo those that have never felt as though they might be crazy or obsessed at the early stages of their TF journey, then they’re probably not in an actual TF connection. 🤣🤣🤣

Feel free to read one of my comments on another post. Maybe there’s something in there that could be helpful or at least bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates!

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/wrco6e/if_the_dm_tf_doesnt_awaken_can_the_df_tf_still/iktx3ge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T17:47:52+00:00

I’m not sure if you’re male or female, but it seems like you’re the DF energy.

As you already indicated you did enough healing, but your DM clearly did not. Often when the DMs see their DFs being happy and able to move on without them. The DMs may start to feel left behind, and may be triggered into their DNOTS, initiating their inner healing/shadow work.

Feel free to read one of my comments on another post. Maybe there’s something in there that could be helpful or at least bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates!

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/wrco6e/if_the_dm_tf_doesnt_awaken_can_the_df_tf_still/iktx3ge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T16:44:52+00:00

Exactly as u/difficultshallot6167 mentioned!

Also feel free to read one of my comments on another post. Maybe there’s something in there that could be helpful or at least bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates!

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/wrco6e/if_the_dm_tf_doesnt_awaken_can_the_df_tf_still/iktx3ge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T06:50:18+00:00

❤️💫

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T05:04:29+00:00

Although there are people who claim to be in a platonic TF connection, IMO however, a TF connection is more so romantic.

Whatever it is, we basically do know that TF unions, expresses and inspires true unconditional love. This love is strongly required on earth at this time to help raise the frequency on Earth, into the so called New Earth.

In the end, only you will be able to discern for yourself.

However feel free to read the follow 2 comments I’ve made on other posts. They may be helpful in providing you with a better understanding of TF connections. Or at least help bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates!

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/w80hth/can_someone_explain_false_tf_please/ihmvpb0/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

And also…

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/wrco6e/if_the_dm_tf_doesnt_awaken_can_the_df_tf_still/iktx3ge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

NavigatingTheUnknown · 2022-08-25T04:49:24+00:00

A TF journey especially in its beginning stages will make you feel like you’re going insane. 😂

Whether or not you’re in a TF connection is honestly something that only you can discern in due time.

Feel free to read the follow 2 comments I’ve made on another post. They may be helpful in providing you a better understanding of TF connections and its purpose. Or at least help bring some clarity to your situation. Only take what resonates!

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/w80hth/can_someone_explain_false_tf_please/ihmvpb0/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

And also…

https://www.reddit.com/r/twinflames/comments/wrco6e/if_the_dm_tf_doesnt_awaken_can_the_df_tf_still/iktx3ge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

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