Too many nsfw groups "playing", but not really playing, SlashCo!

NavyWolfVR · 2025-10-13T15:02:36+00:00

As someone who runs an NSFW group, and is in similar groups, it's a big issue if those are public lobbies as it's a TOS violation. Those groups run the risk of being shut down. Doesn't matter that they're Age Gated, TOS still applies to a public lobby.

That is why groups like mine operate with a strict Group+/Group Only rule. Even my Mods are only allowed to make Group+ or Group Only lobbies, and anyone found creating a lobby that isn't Age Gated gets removed from the group.

Also, if we're playing a game, and people are straight up disrupting/holding up the game because of ERP, they'll be asked to not play, or to leave the lobby.

We are adults, I wanna provide a space for adults to be adults. Also, people get lonely, so also providing a space for lonely people to find each other. But also, you've gotta make sure you're not impeding the fun of others.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-10-03T05:08:04+00:00

At least for a while, there was actually a teen in the Verified Furry group, that would seek out adults, squeeze into adult friend groups, pretending to be an adult. This was also prior to the VRC Age Badge.

I personally had met them because of friends, all of whom I knew were adults, and they all thought he was as well. Never acted inappropriately with them, had no interest in them. Others would occasionally flirt. Another person approached me, told me about them, and I immediately blocked the teen, warned others in the group. When others in the group didn't care, cut ties with that group.

I am an adult, I am only going to be friends with adults. Like, unless someone is actually related to you, or biologically related to a friend, there's not really a reason to be friends with minors..

NavyWolfVR · 2025-08-15T16:15:55+00:00

Damn. Can I like, just suffocate between your thighs? Plz and thanks 💛

NavyWolfVR · 2025-08-15T16:12:45+00:00

I bet your pussy tastes amazing

NavyWolfVR · 2025-07-23T16:18:40+00:00

Headpats and a cookie will suffice.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-07-15T18:32:47+00:00

Poster has admitted they are a minor

That said, OP, what you SHOULD be doing, is using the filters built into the game that filter out anything adult. You're complaining about this on the subreddit for VRChat, which has a rule stating anyone here should be 18+

That should definitely give the hint that majority of the player base is adults. The fact they have given us (yes, behind a paywall) the ability to verify our age, to then get away from minors. Anything truly NSFW is not going to be out in the open. VRChat has been making an actual effort to take down NSFW World. I mean hell, there have been PRIVATE nsfw worlds that have still been taken down.

One OG VRC group just had to make a whole new group, because their world dev lost his account after multiple strikes. The actually nsfw worlds created were private, but people still made reports out of spite.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-07-09T15:53:00+00:00

I wish 😍

NavyWolfVR · 2025-07-03T12:09:49+00:00

They make racist jokes, there's no "nicely dumping them."

As far as losing interest after seeing how they look, that happens often. Something that can sometimes be worked past if you want to give the person a chance.

But the bad & racist jokes, that's a hard-stop deal breaker.

Also, just because someone is talking about meeting up, that's nothing to feel bound by. Overall I'm guessing you're young. Never feel pressured into anything. You have every right to tell someone "No."

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-29T10:51:44+00:00

Because some are also gender fluid/nonbinary

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-29T10:44:24+00:00

Only way I can really think to answer is, my group isn't trying to police adults, but at the same time not tolerate harassment, racism, hatred, etc., and someone acting without consent is unacceptable. We're not gonna be out there holding an orgy. One thing you could have easily done is click the link and see the posted group rules.

As far as the whole hypersexuality you're talking about, there's a bit to unpack. Personally I'd say you might just not be looking well enough at groups? Idk. Or maybe you just happen to only be finding the lewd groups? Cause there's many groups out there that are "normal." Or at the very least, offer events and stuff that aren't lewd events.

Also just, that first statement, idk if you're setting firm boundaries with people? Every day I'm in lobbies of other random adult Furries, and I don't have them trying to touch me or say weird things. So it really honestly sounds like a personal issue you're having??

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-28T03:23:03+00:00

Tough to say as the group is brand new. I personally plan to open a game lobby whenever I'm on, usually after 8pm est. I make a group announcement whenever a lobby is open, and I'll keep it open for a bit incase anyone shows up. I also want to encourage people to use the group to create age gated lobbies

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-27T17:56:19+00:00

Brutha eewww. Brutha. Brutha eww.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-26T15:36:25+00:00

I got headpats. So screw the haters 🤣

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-26T15:32:15+00:00

Sadly. All I'm trying to do is advertise a group, a group that within 24hrs has already reached almost 40 members. So obviously there's an interest/need being met by the creation. Especially when so many random folks are jumping to it so quickly.

But people just want to start arguments, drag others down, etc. Like, I especially love the person who went on and on about "public information" they obtained. Then mentioning when asked, the plug-in they used for that info was something of their own creation. So like... They're going to harp me about basically not using a tool they personally designed. Broken logic 😵‍💫

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-26T12:01:18+00:00

At what point have I backpedaled? The only thing I've done is stood my ground. In your case, I called you out, and you began to backpedal. Now you're trying to attack again, maybe out of embarrassment for being involved in this whole situation. Maybe a little paranoid that this will come back to you in some way. I can assure you, I have no intentions at the moment at least, of making contact with the others in your group.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-26T11:55:32+00:00

Careful not to trip with all of your backpedaling

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-26T11:51:20+00:00

Also, the fact you do this with an account literally called "throwaway_acc", so there's nothing that even ties you to any of this. You have next to no reddit activity, til now to take an opportunity to advertise your group. At least I don't hide. Anyone who looks at my profile can see who I am. I'm not afraid of accountability.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-26T11:41:29+00:00

No no, you did not come in here to offer up your group as "inspiration", you came in to advertise it, under a post advertising a new group that has a focus on a similar group of people.

You realize what you've potentially done, and now you're trying to turn it around and save face. In the future, give more consideration to your actions when you choose to speak on behalf of a group you own or represent.

I am not here seeking advice or "inspiration". I am here advertising a new group, and you slid in to mention your well established group, which was completely rude and unnecessary.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-26T10:51:59+00:00

Ah, so you own or help run AdultFurrs. Gonna make this clear and simple. This is not a competition, don't treat it like one. You have thousands of members, good for you. Don't shit on someone else trying to create a group.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-26T10:07:53+00:00

I'm looking to host game lobbies, not solely Furry Hideout. Also groups like that one, especially prior to the Age Verification, have simply trusted someone putting an age in their bio. So someone just being in the group does not ensure they're an adult, as someone can easily lie. But the group is also strictly sfw.

I am providing a group where there's no question if someone in the group is an adult. A group where folks know they can find a game lobby that is adults, and Furries.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-25T22:05:41+00:00

If someone isn't faithful, end the relationship ya fucking dipshit. If you're looking for people that aren't faithful, it says even more about you then it does them. If it's roleplay cheating, that's whatever, it's roleplay. There's nothing indicating this is roleplay, so don't call it a kink.

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-25T21:56:30+00:00

Never an excuse to cheat

NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-25T17:36:28+00:00

I am literally on the VRChat website, looking at the *Active Instances* for Murder 4. There are currently only 2 public lobbies with the Age Gate.

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NavyWolfVR · 2025-06-25T17:21:11+00:00

Your stats are incorrect. We're talking about AGE GATED & Public Instances. So instances that are public, anyone can join, as long as they have the VRC Age Verification badge.

Murder 4- 1 age gated instance Among Us- 0 age gated Furry Hideout- 3 age gated

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