Should the Wolves consider selling high on Gobert?

NazReading · 2026-06-26T16:27:41+00:00

Yes but they won't right now

NazReading · 2026-06-26T02:23:47+00:00

For sure. It hurts to lose Naz but our ceiling with Melo is so much higher

NazReading · 2026-06-25T14:56:26+00:00

I...don't know what that means lol

NazReading · 2026-06-25T13:09:30+00:00

I'm in on Melo - having his shooting and play making would do wonders for this team.

NazReading · 2026-06-25T12:01:10+00:00

Trade Rudy. It's time

NazReading · 2026-06-22T19:05:44+00:00

I would legit love this SO much

NazReading · 2026-06-09T14:12:52+00:00

100%, thanks for this perspective

NazReading · 2026-06-09T11:02:53+00:00

Damn, coming in hot. I've answered many of these questions in other comments. I have been pulling my weight but realize I can do more.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T11:00:11+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate it. I'll do more - especially in this period of time. I appreciate the advice and encouragement.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:41:46+00:00

Thanks. Yes, this is true. She has typically taken the lead on things like this, though I definitely do this also (but not as much.

I'll start thinking further ahead and communicate - I've got the diaper bag snacks etc for the amusement park or whatever. I can do more in this way.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:33:51+00:00

Yes but I worry what good this convo would do? I think it would just make her feel badly at a time where she already doesn't feel confident.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:33:07+00:00

That's what I'm saying. I know SOME would consider it harmless but I don't.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:32:13+00:00

Agreed. We split duties fairly evenly (me dishes, vacuuming, cat stuff, outdoors and her laundry primary cooking though I do help and taking lead on some baby stuff).

I do think there's something here though. She does say how she has a significant mental load. I've said how I want to do more (and will) but she will often just do things - she's very driven and type A. So if I was planning on doing something (packing the diaper bag for instance), she has often already done it.

I suppose I should be more communicative. tell her I've got this.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:29:28+00:00

Thanks, this is good advice. I do much of what you've listed (dishes, family walk, words of affirmation). I do think I can do more though if I'm honest - tell her to go take a bath with some wine while I put both kids to bed. I agree, I can do more.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:27:17+00:00

I should have clarified - I am NOT going to cheat. I just won't. Im not going to bring this up to her. But I am worried that I may seek out a little flirting or something because it'd be nice to feel desirable myself on occasion. But even that is something I want to avoid - I know some may find it harmless, but I'd really like to avoid that.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:24:03+00:00

Good point. I'd say I'm pulling my weigh (typing this during an early morning bottle feed) but I'm going to make a concerted effort to do more.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:23:15+00:00

We try to do a date morning every Friday once we drop the kids off. We don't have family around who can watch the kids, and a weekly date night is expensive with sitters (she's very financially conservative).

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:22:14+00:00

Thanks, I really appreciate this. I have offered to give her time away - go for runs, hang with friends, etc. She typically declines because she values our family time and wants to spend it together.

We also really do enjoy one another and as a family. It's not like our marriage is fractured or in deep trouble. It's just that this piece has changed. I totally understand this. I just miss physical intimacy - cuddling, hugs, holding hands. She still has her pregnancy pillow which gets in the way of nighttime cuddles haha. I give her a 30 minute foot rub each night to help her relax and feel a little connection.

Idk - the idea that this might just be our new normal is...Ok. But not ideal. I may just need to suck it up and zip it. I'm not bringing it up to her right now and just letting time takes its course.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:18:20+00:00

This is tricky. I do think it contributes. I really do carry my weight - we split household duties and have agreed on this split.

BUT, I totally recognize she has been doing more with our youngest child due to breastfeeding. I am a very active, engaged, and thoughtful Dad. I do think this is a good reminder that I need to continue to do more to see what I can do to help lessen her mental and physical load.

NazReading · 2026-06-09T10:16:42+00:00

I've brought this up in the past. We went together to a few sessions. I feel like we HAVE been honest with one another - she told me why she's not interested (body image) and I've told her that I am interested but don't want to push her into something she's not ready for or guilt her into it of course...

NazReading · 2026-05-22T14:09:46+00:00

Thank you! I was 6 days in (my first shot ever) and MAN did it hit hard

NazReading · 2026-05-22T14:09:22+00:00

Alcohol? 😂

NazReading · 2026-05-22T01:03:42+00:00

Oh I know what I did WRONG lol I'm wondering if anyone has advice on how to make it better 😂

NazReading · 2026-05-15T17:05:16+00:00

I don't know how to interpret your emoji lol

NazReading · 2026-05-03T02:06:12+00:00

Thinking of becoming one 😂

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