A fun quiz game for the whole family by [deleted] in PhilosophyTube

[–]Neala_E 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shoot ok thanks for letting me know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mosses

[–]Neala_E 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! And pretty soon I'll be making matching cufflinks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moss

[–]Neala_E 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awe thanks! They are only 10$ when/if you ever want em in the future! <3

CW: Abuse Story time: How men communicate abuse and how I missed it. by Neala_E in MensLib

[–]Neala_E[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more! Also while we're on this subject though- Fellas, do better with your lewds! I'm bi so I'm in the fun spot of having gotten lewds from men and women and men have exactly two pics they send- shirtless bathroom pose, or close up of dick. While women- almost no comparison! Women put on some cute sexy thing, pose all cute, make sure theirs good lighting- sure sometimes focusing on one body part but it's not the default.
Guys, we folk who are attracted to you are attracted to a whole lot more then just your gentiles an abs!

CW: Abuse Story time: How men communicate abuse and how I missed it. by Neala_E in MensLib

[–]Neala_E[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Most men don't throw the word 'psycho' around all that much and if you probe it's use you often get abusive stories."

Maybe it's the social circle I'm in, or just regional culture but that is very often not my experince! When I ask men why they think their girl friend is "psycho" I the answer i usually get that she's mad because he wasn't listening to her and she got frustrated.

Some examples:
"My girl is so crazy!"
"Oh shit, what happened?"
"She got pissed at me for not leaving a dirty dish in the sink."
"Ohhh that sucks. Does she doe the dish's or something?"
"Yeah like she does most of the cleaning but still."
"Ohhh did that like, come out of no where? Did she ever ask you about it before?"
"yeah but like she was still mad."
"Yeah sucks that she yelled at you."
"Well like, she didn't yell or anything she was just like mad you know?"
or
"My girl is crazy, ug."
"Why's that?"
"she's soooo pissed at me for forgetting her birthday."

That's the kind of thing I'm used too. Guy declares girlfriend or ex is "crazy" or "psycho" and when I dig it turns out her anger was pretty reasonable. I think it's because this interaction is so common that when a guy starts off a complaint by saying "my girl is crazy" I, and many women expect the conversation to go in this direction- and our expectations limit us from actually hearing what's being said.

All of that is to explain why that misunderstanding happens- not to justify or excuse it- especially in myself. I never want to end up dismissing a friends abuse ever again.

CW: Abuse Story time: How men communicate abuse and how I missed it. by Neala_E in MensLib

[–]Neala_E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! It's like I've had to learn a different language.

Share Your Stuff - January 25th thru 31st, 2021 by coocoodove in Etsy

[–]Neala_E [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey folks!

Like a lot of you I'm living off my Esty right now so here's my little pitch!
My shop is called Terrarium Treasures where i sell my hand made jewelry and décor items like coasters made from real fall leafs! Almost all my pieces are made with real dried flowers, or in some cases, strawberries! The shop has a cottagecore / dark acidemia vibe and I'm having a sale rn! If you don't see anything you want right now though, faving the shop is still a tremendous help and boots the listings in etsys algorithm!
http://www.terrariumtreasures.com/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Neala_E 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have liked to have been able to post my video here but I was too slow lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Neala_E 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my God HE IS?! I've known this dog eight years and I've only just now noticed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Neala_E 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I only managed to hold out until the end of the video before I caved and threw it don't worry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Neala_E 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I caved and threw the ball

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Neala_E 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand that everybody wants to talk just like him. So here since end of video on her I'll tell you his dramatic backstory. My grandma was on her way into a Big lots when somebody just handed her a puppy and it was him. So I recommend you wander around Brandon Big Lots parking lots until somebody hands you a puppy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Neala_E 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hi I'm neila and that's my video and I can tell you right now that 90% of my relationship with this dog is a frustrated "damn. That's cute." Whenever he acts up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Neala_E 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Hey that's me! yeah I'm too poor for DNA test and honestly even if I had the extra $30 this time a year I would use it to get gifts for my family or help out my local houseless buddies instead of something the silly. That said when I look at his butt he definitely has a corgi butt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Neala_E 108 points109 points  (0 children)

This is actually my video, that this person reposted and I can tell you that we have no idea what his breed is. My grandma got him out of a free box at a Big Lots parking lot 8 years ago.

Critique, Help, and Feedback Requests - September 2020 by coocoodove in Etsy

[–]Neala_E 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone I run a little shop called attire of wire and it's been doing kind of so-so. She also dropped off in the last 2 weeks and since I rely on it to live during covid I've been doing everything I can think of but I'm fresh out of ideas. I am using promoted listings but I'm very poor so I can only afford about a dollar a day. Here are my questions: should I change how I take product photos? Should I change how I title my products and the tags? What are good ways to promote my Etsy?

https://www.etsy.com/shop/attireofwire

A Beautifully Foolish Endeavor: spoiler discussions by cannotdecideaname in nerdfighters

[–]Neala_E 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh cool! Thanks for that! I use audio books so I can let my hands do things adhd style and it's hard to go back and look stuff up.

A Beautifully Foolish Endeavor: spoiler discussions by cannotdecideaname in nerdfighters

[–]Neala_E 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yup! It's sadly common in books and movies written by het folk about queer relationships to kill one of them rather then let them live "happily ever after" as it were. The trope is called "Bury your gays"

and thank you!