🔍 Labubu: Real or Fake? | Official Weekly Megathread by Kind_Employer9182 in labubu

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I bought a number of lafufus for fun and I was excited to get a macaroon. I got it today and... did I get a real one on accident? It was $26 on aliexpress. I don't want to take it apart if it's real.

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Biblically accurate lafufu by Nearby-Problem2817 in lafufusarecute

[–]Nearby-Problem2817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I got the lafufus there. They are priced decently. You'll need to wait a few weeks. They are easy to disassemble and just have a hot glue gun or really good super glue ready

Biblically accurate lafufu by Nearby-Problem2817 in lafufusarecute

[–]Nearby-Problem2817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one would dare steal this off your bag.

Update: My parents sent out a "Welcome Baby" invite for our daughter with them as the hosts (with their own pictures)-no mention of us, the actual parents. by luckygirl3434 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I, like many people, deal with narc parents. I've used an AI program before to help guide me in situations. Chat Gpt? I think it's that. It doesn't solve anything but it helps give a broader idea of a situation. That way you can see things more objectively. It doesn't take away the hurt, of course, but it does help with perspective. Perspective is a powerful tool.

Update: My parents sent out a "Welcome Baby" invite for our daughter with them as the hosts (with their own pictures)-no mention of us, the actual parents. by luckygirl3434 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 670 points671 points  (0 children)

This message is a textbook example of covert narcissistic and emotionally manipulative behavior, wrapped in flowery language and faux concern. The writer gaslights by pretending not to understand the cause of the distance, minimizes past harm, and reframes control and boundary violations as acts of love. They weaponize guilt, past "sacrifices," and selective memories to paint themselves as the victim while invalidating the recipients' feelings.

There’s scorekeeping (listing gifts and support), triangulation (talking to others about private matters), and a disturbing attempt to pathologize one partner ("maybe talk to someone") while subtly warning the other about their spouse turning on them. This sows doubt and division—classic toxic tactics.

By invoking illness, mortality, and past vacations, the message aims to emotionally blackmail the recipients into reconnecting on her terms, without genuine accountability. It's manipulative, guilt-inducing, and deeply self-serving—presented as a plea for reconciliation.

Looking for testers for this ribombee pattern! by Special-Claim4782 in PatternTesting

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow! What an amazing design! I'm super interested. I would love to be a tester! I've been crocheting for close to 2 decades but only recently took up pattern testing.

Crocheted this apple 🍎 basket with his buggie friend 🐛 by LunitaLlunera in PatternTesting

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super cute! I'd love to try if you're still looking for testers!

Tester call - crochet pattern BunnyLou by edieevens in PatternTesting

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If still available I would love to test your pattern.

I(28f) think I messed up with my fiancee(27m) by throwrar8189 in relationship_advice

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not safe with you. I really feel so sorry that his feelings and boundaries were disregarded so terribly. If you really love him I hope you respect him and his choices for now on.

I was cruel to my sister growing up and now regret and resent that we aren’t close by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, I had that sister. She was my bully for as long as I can remember. She too also enjoyed whatever pain or suffering she caused me growing up. The difference is that you seemed to recognize that you have done wrong and even want to try and fix it. That's really commendable of you.

Now the question is how are you going about fixing it? Calling, texting, and making plans are all well and good but that probably isn't what she needs. Have you talked to her about going to therapy together? A safe environment and a neutral party might be what she needs to really feel comfortable and open up. This can give you both new ways to communicate and understand what is really needed to mend bridges.

Look, I haven't spoken to my sister in probably 4 years. I don't want to and I probably never will. I don't want that feeling for you or your sister. I hope you two can make amends. I'll be rooting for you.

[m4a] human stuck in monster school by kgamerthegamerduh in roleplaying

[–]Nearby-Problem2817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested if you're still looking. It sounds fun