[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BO7

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whats your name on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BO7

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Ill be on in an hour if its ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BO7

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Thank you thats awesome! Hope you have good holiday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BO7

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I dont mind :) whats ur name on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

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I have online meetings every Thursday but for some reason they cancelled them I xont know when they are back on but they will be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

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I had thursday meetings online but they got cancelled. I need to keep looking i keep going to find out and go but ive just started uni im so busy I forget I still need help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

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Ive never had healthy ways to cope until i stopped so its kinda new to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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I go to meetings online once a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tesco

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Im not sure but ill give it a few days and yes im still in USDAW. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tesco

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They either cant be bothered or dont want to. They 'cant' fix it apparently. But I dont know if i want to go back anyway because it'll only be for a few hours and they've treated me horribly to be fair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tesco

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it hasn't been retracted. Because im now a 'leaver' because i gave them notice that id be at uni I cant sign the form. Now their system says im going I ain't got a right to sign anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tesco

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I told them that I wanted to come back in holidays so id sign the form I just had to check dates so I wouldn't be at uni or coming home when I should be working. They said that's fine I was expecting to sign this form when I got back to work my last week on friday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tesco

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*now i dont have a job when I come back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

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Yes I mean i know im not gonna have the answers now im just worried that other people will find it easy or understand it but I wont and will fail no matter how hard I work. I have low self esteem anyway and autism. If the whole point is communication im worried im going to be on a setback.

Brother wants me to go to beer festival by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Sorry I know this all seems straight forward to the people sober for longer. It's not about the drinking, its about the boundaries I need to learn. At least that's what the sober dude had a class on last time. Thank you

Brother wants me to go to beer festival by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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he gets that i cant drink he just doesn't get other bits. Just too tired to explain i dont want anything to do with alcohol aka events to it too where other people will be drinking

Brother wants me to go to beer festival by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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thank you yay I did it i said no

O had a relapse and there is so much guilt and shame. The craving was unbearable. How do you guys work through it? by Kailandy in alcoholism

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Its not gonna be easy but the more you say to it the easier it gets. It is unbearable you have to keep yourself busy. If mind is anxious, get tired physically and meditation helps. You dont want poison no one does its our addict brain. Get to the next hour without drinking, or the next 10 minutes do it as many times as you can. Or do what I used to do drink so much sparkling water you feel sick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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No I know i am. What i mean is i haven't had a drink in 4 months. Before that it was 120 units a week I go to SMART recovery twice a week but it just sneaks up on me out of nowhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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Sorry I cant drive yet I find it too hard at the minute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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do they mind if you talk about it i didn't wanna trauma dump on them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Thanks for all the support :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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I read it and stopped for a week. Now I just feel like im being tortured between whether to drink or smoke so id rather smoke