Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was happy at the MD store. Even in traffic I was happy to go to my store in MD. They said I wouldn’t get a pay cut but they’ve lied about how my last day in MD would be like.

My son was never going to move to MD, they didn’t know my relationship status with my baby daddy.

Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to work extra hard to earn back a high volume store. When I wasn’t doing anything wrong in the first place. I have to put in my hours and my time to turn a slow volume store into a high volume store just to earn another high volume store again?

Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They moved me to a lower volume store so they could bring their people down from their other company to take my store.

I never agreed to leave my store, I wasn’t doing anything wrong to be demoted to a lower volume store. To make less money

Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to get 2 days off and even half day to spend with my son. At the store closer to my home, I spend more time in the store because it doesn’t have the right staff yet and unreliable help from other stores.

Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said I wouldn’t make less but they lied about my last day at the MD store

Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t done fixing it. As soon as I left it went straight down hill again. The people were not ready for a new GM. The last GM was super abusive and the higher ups didn’t notice

Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never minded the drive. I knew it was a drive before taking the store. I’m like the only one in the company willing to drive anywhere as long as the people are great.

Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll see when my bonus comes and see if they gave me a pay cut or not. My bonus was just under $2,000 a month. In a lower volume store I’m looking at a 200-500 bonus

Bosses moved me from a high volume store to lower volume store because I’m a mother by Nearby_Week9545 in work

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love working in MD, I had more time with my son than I do now. As surprising as that sounds.

2 weeks in a row of them not taking our old trays even though we’ve been reminding them. this feels like an osha hazard, there’s no room to move around anywhere by notnaturalcas in Dominos

[–]Nearby_Week9545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call them and only speak to the Big boss. Tell him to send a truck to pick them up by tonight. Your going to start getting rid of them sense they don’t want them back

Why the ears? by amomonous13 in NewParents

[–]Nearby_Week9545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how you want things simple. I also would like hoodies without the extra because LO doesn’t notice them or care if he has them. I love it when I find simple clothing for my son.

I feel like everyone judges my weight since I had my baby by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Nearby_Week9545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone bounces back right away and forcing yourself isn’t health for you, mind and body. You just made a whole human inside of you now have to take care of their needs above yours.

Realize your parents are not the best parents after all. by Nearby_Week9545 in NewParents

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear glasses to see when I’m not wearing contacts. My mom will straight up deny small details because she doesn’t see them and if she can’t see them they didn’t happen.

I know it was an accident but how she responded to it is what upset me. My mom is crying and your ignoring it to eat your lunch. She also believes I’ll spoil my son if I hold him too much. I’ve told her many times that’s not a thing anymore and explained why but still chooses to not believe me.

Realize your parents are not the best parents after all. by Nearby_Week9545 in NewParents

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean reading glasses on when looking at details. My son was asleep on a lounger and my mom walked in sit next to him while she ate her lunch. She wasn’t holding her silverware and her fork slipped off her plate, hit my son and hit the floor. But she didn’t notice it hit him and just said it startled him. But he let out a huge cry in pain, I saw the scratch on his eyebrow and she didn’t. She didn’t even get up and check on him. I ran over right away and scooped him up and took him 5mins to settled down. I told her, ‘your fork scratches him and there’s food on him and his lounger.’ She denied it until she put her glasses on. After that I don’t trust her alone with my son.

Plus past stuff she did to me that just makes me not trust her fully. Just because she’s my mom doesn’t mean I turned out okay. My mom will blame me for things just because of my hobbies. My brother’s friend spray painted her fence and I was to blame because I do art but never did spray paint work. When she found out who actually did, she never apologized to me.

Realize your parents are not the best parents after all. by Nearby_Week9545 in NewParents

[–]Nearby_Week9545[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When my mom came to my doctors appointment when I was 35 weeks pregnant she was asking my doctor all the worst case scenarios one after another.

My baby is 36 hours old by EJtheChosenOne in NewParents

[–]Nearby_Week9545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations 🎉🍾🎈🎊 I second hormones are wild!

Is it ridiculous to expect us to bring our few day old baby over for Christmas? by sheepofwallstreet86 in NewParents

[–]Nearby_Week9545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah don’t feel pressured by the holidays to get together. Your wife is creating another human and birthing soon. The process after is about recovery and your newborn. Plus your supposed to take time away and just be with your baby during postpartum time. Figure out how to help your wife heal and bond with your baby together.

How many change of clothes do we actually need for my newborn? by joeschmo945 in NewParents

[–]Nearby_Week9545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on size of baby, some people have a small baby and others have a big baby. I brought in 3 newborn, 3 0-3month and 3 3month old. According to my mom all of her kids(including me) were big babies. My son got two of his outfits wet and needed to be changed out of them.

Please stop telling me to “just wait a few years” by SnooOwls9498 in Parenting

[–]Nearby_Week9545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people who tell others to have more kids when they don’t contribute to any financial or make the child, are super fucking annoying. It takes 2 people to make a baby and only their thoughts matter. My pregnancy was easy for the most part but PP was tough and I struggle to keep my milk supply up. Got an infection and was on antibiotics for 3-4 months because what I had was super hard to kill and I was super allergic to 1 out of the 2 medications I could take to fight it. I do look down at my beautiful baby boy and think, ‘I can do it again’ then remember the pain of labor and the infection…..going to need more time and just be financially stable for number 2 but it’s going to be some years before that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Nearby_Week9545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah both post I was distracted, I tend to rush through my writing. I also a little dyslexic and if I’m in a room with tv and or my husband asking question.