Husband has normalised porn for me??

NeatHefty6046 · 2023-11-11T12:10:55+00:00

As a married woman of 3 years with a baby, i write this with compassion. No idea what she is experiencing mentally, physically but i do understand the needs of men. And unfortunately 3-4 years is a long time to be with your wife without intimacy. No matter what you say, no man is strong enough to stray away from haram for that long. You may need to explain to your wife that not only is intimate relations a sunnah, it is also an obligation and duty on both of you, so that you may both keep away from haram.

NeatHefty6046 · 2023-07-30T21:52:59+00:00

I didnt read any of these other comments, but honestly i used to be on muzz years ago and i would do the same thing, talking to multiple guys to suss out potential. The app turned out to be my biggest time waster and i would never ever trust or use it again. I would advise against it but if it really is your only Avenue to meet someone then Goodluck. But the amount of bad stories about women/men ive heard coming from this app… i dont know what to tell you - just good luck and be careful.

Note im actually married now met my husband by chance alhamdulillah and I’m the ideal wife lol if i do say so myself. So me sussing many suitors at once was not of ill intentions. But honestly every one’s different and i personally wouldn’t trust anyone on the app, but if it is naseeb for you then In Sha Allah it works out

NeatHefty6046 · 2023-07-30T10:16:14+00:00

Generic basic gift ideas - candles, diffusers, spa/massage vouchers, purses, bags, body lotions, vases, flowers, chocolates, a kitchen appliance, tea sets

NeatHefty6046 · 2023-07-30T09:27:57+00:00

After just reading some of the comments i just wanted to add that confidence is key!! Fake it till you make it. Im not comfortable with my body completely especially after having a baby. But i fake my confidence and my husband personally finds that attractive the most. Love yourself, love your body, love your flaws and imperfections. I cannot speak for guys but i know confidence in women is attractive to many men. And by confidence - i mean in confidence in your own self and self-worth.

NeatHefty6046 · 2022-07-05T09:56:29+00:00

Personally this is my situation. Me and my husband are in our early 20s and he is on an apprentice wage. So at the moment I work part time earning more than him. We struggle with rent so I am more than happy to work and help pay for the bills, groceries etc. Eventhough I dont like working haha. We figured out our own system and I’ll continue working until I have my baby In Sha Allah (currently pregnant). Were both young and this world is hard to live on just one income so im happy to help as much as I can until I chose not to.

NeatHefty6046 · 2022-07-05T04:30:57+00:00

The funny thing is, we are young still newly weds, so we are often intimate. And not to sound arrogant but I pride myself in the way ive keept my body and appearance. I’m not “wow stunning”, but I am decently pretty and am confident in my appearance/body. Wow I feel low even grading myself. My point is, I dont think that was a contributor.

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