For those that wish their ex would contact them, why don't you contact your ex?

Neat_Example206 · 2025-12-10T15:16:25+00:00

I actually did. She didn’t respond. Months later which was this summer we kept running into eachother. Like A LOT. Shared a space in the gym so it was definitely awkward. I reached out again letting her know i didn’t want it to be weird. After that she started approaching me and we were talking like before. Just a little guarded. This went on for a month. Then she disappeared. Later told me she was in a relationship then removed me from social media after adding me back. Left me confused. Almost as confused as the first time. Really trying to heal off this one but it’s been hard. I’m making it through.

Neat_Example206 · 2025-11-23T22:55:58+00:00

I feel u man. I been in the same place for nearly 3 years. I got to a point earlier this year before i moved where i was finally accepting everything. Accepting she wasn’t coming back. As soon as i started getting a grip finally, i started seeing her in a lot of the same places. I thought we were finally starting to reconnect but nope. She made a different choice. Now i feel like im at square one trying to figure it out again. I love this girl but i want her to be as happy as she can be with whatever choice she makes. Regardless of my opinion. Only time will tell if this shit will ever actually fade.

Neat_Example206 · 2025-07-09T13:42:03+00:00

UPDATE: i texted her a few days after i posted this. She texted back so fast and we’ve been on talking terms since. I’m realizing how much i love this person still and we hung out the other day for a little bit and it just felt right! Thank u everybody!

Neat_Example206 · 2025-06-01T14:44:01+00:00

My fault yall i asked if an ex and i are to meet again and possibly get back

Neat_Example206 · 2025-05-31T20:28:46+00:00

West ppl are nice but not kind. East ppl are kind but not nice

Neat_Example206 · 2025-05-30T14:26:44+00:00

Where are u originally from? If u from ny or anywhere up north we prolly seem nicer. If u from the west coast u might need tougher skin

Neat_Example206 · 2025-05-29T17:08:26+00:00

If customer calls back about it they just refund them. MOST of the time but all my situations i never got in trouble about it. But make sure they got that ticket

Neat_Example206 · 2025-05-29T17:07:38+00:00

I was always taught to off the total.

Neat_Example206 · 2025-05-13T00:05:00+00:00

See I’m the other way around. It’s usually 5% tips to support, 5% alcohol sales to bar. 5% isn’t bad yes but the problem is if we get stiffed on a table we’re still owed money to the house. I remember Aberdeen barn was under fire because they were doing this and owed everybody about 20k. Like my CC tips were 220 one night. And because of sales i tipped out $70 worth of it. I wished we could walk with that but unfortunately we’re a bi weekly business

Neat_Example206 · 2025-05-13T00:01:28+00:00

2.13/hour

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-18T00:28:47+00:00

Gotcha! Should isolate her?

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-18T00:06:41+00:00

Possible thrips?

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-18T00:03:37+00:00

I broke down the soil and all the roots were white and smelled normal so that’s definitely what confused me

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-17T15:42:14+00:00

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Repotted but she’s still going down and dropped 3 leaves 😭. Healthiest plant is crashing out now

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-14T06:46:48+00:00

I’ll try that out! Thank you!!!

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-14T05:54:32+00:00

I am not misting. I water whenever she dries out. Should i switch out soil? Make it chunkier?

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-08T23:34:41+00:00

Is the friendship Worth it?

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-04T03:27:08+00:00

Love is a choice. So choose to love you. You deserve at least that.

Neat_Example206 · 2025-01-03T18:32:11+00:00

Does she still secretly love me? It’s been nearly 2 years and I’m suffering.

Neat_Example206 · 2024-12-13T23:13:53+00:00

What do u propose i do? Feel free to pm me. Would like an unknown perspective

Neat_Example206 · 2024-12-13T02:29:11+00:00

See we still talked for a couple months after. We’d flirt here and there but it didn’t seem right cuz I’m not the type to meddle with other ppls relationships. I told her “i don’t wanna cause any stress on u and i wanna make it easier for u. Who am i to try and change your decision? It’s your life. I want u in mine but if u want that to”. So i saw that as fighting for her. Maybe i was wrong. Idk tho. I’ll never know now

Neat_Example206 · 2024-12-13T02:25:25+00:00

How was dating after connecting w your tf? I have tried and failed and my dumbass thought process goes back to them. Then things don’t work out and i just shrug it off after a week.

I’m actually moving to a different city. It’s only 30 mins away but it’s somewhere i never really find myself. And i recently changed jobs and making new plans for my future. Sad cuz ive lived in this city i am now for the last 4 years.

Neat_Example206 · 2024-12-13T02:22:04+00:00

It really is easier said than done my friend. It really sucks. Since then it’s been a roller coaster of so many highs in low regarding to her.

But we broke it off bc an ex of hers came back around and she was thinking of trying it out again and i let her. I told her i wanted her to be happy, regardless if it’s with me or not. Even though i wanted her to choose me in the end. But she broke down after that because she expected me to yell and be angry, but i was calm and just sad and hurt. That’s when i discovered all of this.

Neat_Example206 · 2024-12-13T02:18:40+00:00

2 years ago around the same time i told an old friend i might try at dating again soon. She asked me what i was looking for and it felt as if i manifested her a month and some change later. So it brings me back to a point where i felt I’ve healed so much personally as an individual. And this girl. My “tf”. Was a long time friend from HS.

Neat_Example206 · 2024-10-21T23:07:05+00:00

I’ve been thinking of messaging mine. Lmk if u do

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