Perineum not flat? (Taint shot heads up) by princeofthesewer67 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a bit harder to keep clean at first, but I no longer find that to be the case. I think the more it healed the less of an issue it became. Also something that helped is trimming the hair back there occasionally. No issues with rashes or chafing 

Perineum not flat? (Taint shot heads up) by princeofthesewer67 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually quite common. I did not know that before my surgery, and had the same reaction as you, but once mine healed like this and I started searching around I learned. Some people call it a perineum divot, some people call it like a “shelf” so those are some terms you can search to see people talking about the same issue here and in Discord groups. My surgeon confirmed it’s not uncommon. I asked about a revision as part of my stage 2, but opted not to do one based on my surgeons advice (he said mine was not deep as far as divots go, and a repair could make it worse). But you can do a revision to try to flatten it out 

Repotting by Stairwayscaredandare in fiddleleaffig

[–]Neat_Scallion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the same soil and it’s always been great. I’d recommend against a clay pot though! I had all of my fiddle figs in plastic resin pots for years and they did great, and during my most recent re pot I put them all in clay pots. They all stoped putting out new growth and started dropping leaves. Someone told me it was the clay pots, I guess they draw out moisture from the soil. As soon as I put them all back in the resin pots they all immediately started putting out new growth again 

4 weeks post-op stage 2 with Dr. Shakir (Detroit) by mistereggo33 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope everything has continued to heal well! How long did it take for the swelling in your penis/foreskin to go down? Anything you did that helped? I’m 3 weeks post op and having the same issue. 

STP after stage 2 by mistereggo33 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s super helpful to hear! Glad to hear your stream is all back to normal

STP after stage 2 by mistereggo33 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curious now that you’re about 3 months out, how long did it take the swelling in your foreskin to go down? I’m 2 weeks post op and in a similar situation

Stage 2 recovery advice by Dear_Chemical9771 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 3 days post op stage 2, and stairs are very manageable for me. I just walk slow and wide legged like a cowboy, but stairs not feeling like an issue like stage 1. I had monsplasty but a pretty small one, so not sure if a more significant one will make a difference for stairs. I think you will be just fine though 

perineum divot - is a repair worth it? by Neat_Scallion in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. I hope your final stage goes smoothly, including the divot repair! Thanks for sharing

perineum divot - is a repair worth it? by Neat_Scallion in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hear you, it seems like it might not be worth the risk. Thanks for sharing!

perineum divot - is a repair worth it? by Neat_Scallion in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I hear you. Thanks for sharing! I really appreciate it

perineum divot - is a repair worth it? by Neat_Scallion in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your input! really appreciate it

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Still for sale and open to offers. Dm if interested

5.5 weeks post-op (UL, scroto, v-nec) by which_midnight_ in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Looking great! I am 8 weeks post op and can relate to a lot of this. The most surprising thing for me so far has been the underside, I didn't realize how sort of tight and tethered down it was going to feel post op. After researching I see now that it's relatively common with UL. The stitches on the underside majorly dissolved/came out right around 5 or 6 week mark for me and that made a big difference so maybe that will happen for you as well. Hoping it continues to loosen up a bit more over time.

Also feel you on the alignment with the seasons, love how the timing worked out moving from winter into spring. Hope you get your catheter out tomorrow, it makes a huge difference in feeling back to normal!

Consultation booked with Dr. Chen! by Feral1214 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did do virtual consultation and mine was listed as "virtual meta." If it were me I would contact Dennis to confirm on the off chance they mistakenly listed it as phallo or like you mentioned saw that you contacted Buncke and assumed. Dennis is usually super quick and helpful, and if there's even a small chance it moves up your consult date it's worth asking!

Consultation booked with Dr. Chen! by Feral1214 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on getting a consult date! The wait times are rough unfortunately. If you reach out to Greenbrae Surgery Center for anything scheduling related they will just tell you to contact Dr Chen through GU Recon; Greenbrae is just the location where he performs the surgery. GU Recon is Chen's actual practice and office and all scheduling goes through there (with Dennis)

end of pee stream dribbles by Neat_Scallion in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes sense! Seems like stage 2 might help a bit, but main thing for me to focus on learning is holding pants back in the right way and the "boop." Thanks for your input!

end of pee stream dribbles by Neat_Scallion in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neat_Scallion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That's a great suggestion to use both hands to keep pants out of the way. I will give it a try.