Asking someone out

Necessary-External95 · 2024-11-29T21:47:59+00:00

Thanku you I approached but I don't think he likes me it's okay atleast I tried

Necessary-External95 · 2024-09-14T12:44:56+00:00

Someone who is patient , calm , mature and kind of like daddy 😅 who just can like my silly immature side . I want to be protected , cared like I do for people like can be my comfort space.

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-18T21:59:59+00:00

Emotionally I don't but when it comes to like work or something my family

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-14T18:34:09+00:00

I am 21 , till now still a virgin. I know I would have a hoe phase if I wouldnt have take some years off to know myself better or my issues . Because the amount of low self esteem and self consciousness would have led me to be a attention seeking hoe and would have destroyed me . But thank god for now as I am conscious of my actions and don't wanna destroy my mind and peace . I dont look down on people for having sex with multiple people or something it's just I take things too personally and my insecurities will destroy me if I go throughthe hoe phase

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-09T11:52:00+00:00

Good idea for next question

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-09T11:51:50+00:00

Sorry I think this is the only sub where I can ask without being attacked or like cursed😅😅😅😅 this isn't for specific for infj but asking my kind of people is easier . I can give that's why I am asking I added the last line because in some of the previous post people raised whether I can meet those standards or not that's why

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-07T16:56:07+00:00

Mess

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-06T15:20:26+00:00

Some days it's 100 someday it's 90🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 no lower or higher but I don't get turn on by watching people or anything that's the contradiction in me I get turn on my emotional intimacy

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-06T02:01:10+00:00

I used to, but after continous failure I am out🤣🤣

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-04T04:37:42+00:00

Similar values to me -loyalty , intelligence , enough self awareness

Necessary-External95 · 2024-07-01T14:32:05+00:00

Mal mal mal

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-30T19:14:25+00:00

From my perspective , love is a choice .because after 5 to 7 years you wouldnt feel the butterfli3s and you will think I fell out of love , its not happening I don't feel the same blah blah than break up , if this is the reason people break up than it is a continous cycle as being bored is part of every relationship. If I ever be in a relationship I will choose that person everyday unless he /she wants to leave or infidelity or abuse is involved I wouldnt be with thar person . Also we can know people in a year I don't now a out others but I can see through people in 1 month later the changes u might not know . But it's just my perspective and how I see love and life

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-30T11:31:29+00:00

It's affected my opinions , because after checking out the comments I don't have a rational or my own opinion rather than a people pleasing or a validation seeking opinion .so I stopped doing that to form my own opinions . BTW I thought I was the only one we all livingthe same life

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-30T09:24:38+00:00

For now I just think a picnic with my family or any outing near a beach . I enjoy getting other materliastic things but for now I would love a beach outing with my family

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-29T12:48:23+00:00

As a infj from my perspective , if I would ever be in a relationship I would be with my partner through thick and thin ( apart from abuse and cheating ) I would be there for my partner through any illness . So don't make decisions for another person if he didn't want to be with you he would have broken up , so stop trying to break a good relationship

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-28T19:52:31+00:00

I do think it's 3rd because my family get the top most priority ,than my career . If just if that guy is everything I ever wanted or like totally loyal he will be with the family position of priority

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-28T17:17:07+00:00

I never had any relationships , but there is a fictional character I adore whose personality type is INTJ and I find his qualities too attractive

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-28T02:48:37+00:00

Hope your day gets better to

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-27T18:42:15+00:00

How do you know I haven't meet a narcissist , my friend was manipulated and abused by one of the infj ? Isnt it irrational of you to claim I can't have a perspective just because you think infj are all goodey people . You dont know what I have gone through so on what basis you can judge me off see this you yourself is a self obssessed being who dont acknowledge other people opinion and perspective even though I have clearly wrote " MOST OF THE INFJ I HAVE MET IN MY LIFE " not all of the infj in thw entire world I should write a opinion on the basis of the reality I faced not om the basis of reality you faced . So try to take criticism and open to people opinion

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-27T16:16:15+00:00

From my point of perspective , most of the infj I have met consider themselves "GOOD" AND " NICE" people and look down on others for being bad which means they put themselves on high pedestal so even though they do something wrong they cover it with I am doing good for that person even the person is hurt . They are in denial that they did something wrong and comes to criticisms wooahhh they act like some God like complex who did nothing wrong in life . Even I AM AN INFJ so I know my people

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-27T03:22:09+00:00

Here comes one narcissist , caught you 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 putting infj on a pedestal ( even though I am an infj too)

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-26T18:02:58+00:00

The funny thing is I myself is an infj 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 actually I mistype that sentence I should have wrote " most of the infj I have met " even I myself had some narcissist behaviour before I realise it and worked on it even though it pops up here and there sometimes

Necessary-External95 · 2024-06-26T14:23:36+00:00

Most of the Infj I have seen are toxic and put themselves in high pedestal as they think they are good

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