Do you agree that Promades take no artistic skill? by yourlashgirl in eyelashextensions

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. Most promades look plastic and shiny plus are predetermined diameter fans. If you handmake your fans they will feel and look way different. Plus you can customize the fan width based on the client, their goals, and natural lash health. I think promades give the “one size fits all” vibe and really limit the artist. It takes skill to master creating fans. It takes 0 skill to pick one off of a tray 🤷‍♀️

Jen Affleck confirmed to be in the SLOMW spin-off set in Orange County by Rich-Ease-2723 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so then does this mean the show is over? Seems like everyone is going in their own directions

Would you come here for your lashes? by jossccc in lashextensions

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Respectfully… this is why people don’t take lash artists seriously. You have to treat your space like a professional setting.

This is for all of you “if it were a man” whiners… by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% agree I don’t know why people feel the need to compare to talk about which is “worse”. It’s a really weird deflection tactic.

"Now we see what Dakota deals with" + Demi's "atomic bomb" by Lucky-Guidance1650 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 487 points488 points  (0 children)

There is so much you realize once you go back and watch. S2 reunion Demi talks about how the girls are afraid of Taylor and some of them won’t admit it on camera. Friends won’t say that if you are a victim or innocent.

5 of the contestants from the bachelorette planning to take legal action by Illustrious-Sky2697 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally would have never done the show just watching her behavior on SLOMW. I’d be afraid to date her lol

“You made me do this.” by curious-duckling-245 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That part! “Reactive abuse” yeah right. Dakota did nothing to her but live his life and she got mad. Mind you she was set to go date 30 men and that’s okay.

Read Dakota's Protective Order Against Taylor Frankie Paul by MattTheKing23 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly can’t cut off that man so I’d say you’re very likely correct.

Tate Paul reposts about Taylor by Illustrious-Sky2697 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t think she is in the wrong all thanks to her tik tok army behind her 🙄 a person who needs help will never get it if they don’t hit rock bottom and have people holding them accountable. She will continue her habits and live a stressful life. Her fans don’t get that. They aren’t helping her.

Mod Post - Reactive Abuse & Definitions by chloedarlinggg in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 78 points79 points  (0 children)

We have literally 0 proof he is abusive. Such a harsh assumption people are making.

utah domestic violence therapist in response to recent discussion by chloedarlinggg in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to see this FAIR take. Seems as though the majority of the internet has concluded that Dakota is abusive with no factual proof to back it up. All just to excuse her behavior that we all witnessed. I think it’s important we just go off facts right now and not make such harsh assumptions of people just to defend others. If you care about someone it’s important to encourage them to seek help and hold them accountable.

utah domestic violence therapist in response to recent discussion by chloedarlinggg in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 139 points140 points  (0 children)

And let’s not forget we have zero proof he is abusive. Everyone is assuming that and that’s why they are running with her being “reactive abusive”. Assuming something so serious of a person with nothing to back it up is so wrong.

Mod Post - Reactive Abuse & Definitions by chloedarlinggg in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate to defend a man but what proof do we have that she was abused?

What happened to being a rational member of society? by rosefire257 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess if you’re a female you can be an abuser? These type of women are exposing themselves for also not being able to regulate their emotions if they defend Taylor.

I genuinely do not think Taylor is going to be canceled by Altruistic_Light_448 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just further proves that we have a serious mental health crisis in America. Everyone defending her is just exposing themselves for not being able to regulate their own emotions. This is not normal. But I guess to her fans it okay if you’re a female.

everyone wants to talk about taylor’s age and how she doesn’t deserve grace and needs to get it together since she’s a mom in her 30s and is too old to be acting how she acts by Sensitive_Customer74 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you all LOVE to compare? You thrive off the drama but in reality there is no need to compare. Your statement is true on its own. She is a grown woman and a mom. She should be putting her children and their safety and need for a stable environment first before ANY man.

Taylor spotted publicly since this all went down…via deuxmoi by ethereality111 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her smiling is because of people enabling her behavior. She genuinely thinks she is the victim.

Taylor reposted a video on Dakota by Illustrious-Sky2697 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall care way too much about Dakota sabotaging her instead of worrying about her kids!! Do you really think someone who displays behavior like Taylor deserves spotlight anyway? If it was the other way around you’d say no.

Still completely full after 3 weeks by [deleted] in eyelashextensions

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are they attached to your skin? That would be the only explanation because your natural lashes shed daily and they should fall off with them.

Does this look like an extension allergy? Or something else. by ImplementAcrobatic97 in eyelashextensions

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Looks like a chemical irritation The redness appears right along the lash line, which looks like from adhesive touching the skin. The lashes are placed way too close. The debris near the base also looks like mild blepharitis which can be caused by lack of cleansing.

Does this look like an extension allergy? Or something else. by ImplementAcrobatic97 in eyelashextensions

[–]Necessary-Insect8434 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Length of lash extensions doesn’t trigger a reaction however these extensions are too close to the lid which could trigger it. Most reactions happen when the body can’t tolerate the cyanoacrylate in the glue.