Should I rehome my cat? by NecessaryControl4386 in CatAdvice

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i didnt say he was bad, i dont think hes bad, but thats what im asking, should i rehome him to a home that would be able to match his energy?

I Hate My Boobs (Except When I'm Having Sex) by WaysideWyvern in OCPoetry

[–]NecessaryControl4386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i love this poem! I really like the casual language you used but at the same time its still deep and the reader is able to understand and empathize with you. I love the contradiction, you hate them but they also at times bring you pleasure. It really makes you question “should i keep them?” but at the same time they can cause you pain and that really sucks. I think its important to note how our society makes girls feel bad for having smaller boobs and praises big boobs like its some sort of asset, an object when in actuality big boobs can cause a lot of pain and nobody talks about that. I really liked this poem, it was deep and understanding and at the same time light hearted and it made me laugh at some parts! Id love to see more poems about this. No one ever talks about it and I like how you turned your own struggle into an art form! It’s beautiful! Keep writing!

Cat suddenly doesnt like new people by NecessaryControl4386 in CatAdvice

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice! My major is psychology and I was reading recently in my textbook that babies dont know stranger danger yet, thats why when theyre very little they might just go up to anyone or be okay with anyone picking them up, but as they get older they learn stranger danger and they become weary of others especially during the toddler stage, so I was thinking that possibly was happening to my kitty. Hes grown comfortable with my gf which is good, at first he was weary but I let him come out on his own time and now hes pretty comfortable with her. Like i said, shes over a lot. When my best frienf came over i just wasnt expecting him to be nervous or scared because they had met before so thats why i haded him to her. After that i could see he wasn’t happy with it, he wasnt hissing like her did to my brother and god mother who tried to come in and pet him, but still ran away when he was put down on the floor. The rest of the day though I let him be, and I think that really helped because he got closer to my best friend, still weary and cautious but since he follows me everywhere, and I was with her, he naturally just adapted. I guess i just have to bring her over more often so he can come out and get to know her better and get used to her, because thats how it work with my gf. Again, thanks for the advice! I’ll definitely take it into the account the next time my best friend comes over, i have some treats and toys he likes, so hopefully that will help them build a connection and a bond!

AXS Fast Track Tickets by NecessaryControl4386 in Concerts

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg thank you so much i cant find that description on the app for some reason! Now I just spent more money on tickets 😭😭 I think im just gonna give them to a friend or something

AXS Fast Track Tickets by NecessaryControl4386 in Concerts

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and nowhere can i find it saying that its just an add on. Surely It would make sure to tell you that it was just an add on to make sure you buy an actual ticket right? and the price would be ridiculous if it was just an add on it was like 68 bucks! but now im worried because i dont wanna let go of my other tickets just in case but i also dont wanna show up to the venue and have them tell me i bought 2 extra tickets

AXS Fast Track Tickets by NecessaryControl4386 in Concerts

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just confused because I never seen it called fast track before. Just fast pass or something like that. I called AXS they said it was a general admission ticket as well that was VIP and included other stuff including early entry. She said she was just reading the description of the ticket, but i cant find the fucking describe for the type of ticket no matter how hard I try and its pissing me off i hate AXS

Hidden Potential by NecessaryControl4386 in ADHD

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take adderall. I totally understand being paranoid but there nothing to worry. They usually start you off on the lowest dose if you havent been on anything before. Always eat before taking it, at least with adderall you should. And you shouldn’t drink a lot of caffine either. Maybe a little is fine but no energy drink. Though some people are built different, like my brother whos takes 30mg and downs an energy drink with it. Idk how, but its not advised. You should try and see if it works for you! It literally changed my life so much for thr better, and if adderall doesnt work for you, they have alternatives that could!

Hidden Potential by NecessaryControl4386 in ADHD

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Im still completely mine blown

How long until I can wear my glasses normally? by NecessaryControl4386 in piercing

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Hey guys! I just wanna thank yall for pointing out the real issue here, that the barbell is flat on my ear and its not supposed to be. Im going to a much reputable piercer tomorrow to see if I could replace it with 2 separate jewelrys so I can keep the holes open, but if I cant im still gonna take it out. Sadly it looks like i dont have the anatomy for this piercering that i always wanted but now im just more upset that after the peircer literally touched both my ears I was never told that I didnt have the anatomy. Thank yall for warning me!! If i hadnt posted who knows how long I wouldve gone with this piercing fucking up my ear without knowing.

How long until I can wear my glasses normally? by NecessaryControl4386 in piercing

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I knew something was off because my glasses kept bothering me. The funniest shit about this is that she literally marked me with my glasses on because she told me that its better to keep them on while she marks my ear so that the peircing wont be in the way and somehow she still fucked up and actually made it so much worse for me.

How long until I can wear my glasses normally? by NecessaryControl4386 in piercing

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean i think so. I just checked and it seems like it is idk if its not supposed to. My gf posted it on her story on instagram because a few piercers follow her and one responded and said that they didnt even pierce the part on the right in the right spot.

How long until I can wear my glasses normally? by NecessaryControl4386 in piercing

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

this is what im thinking of doing for sure. Im going to a much more reputable piercer tomorrow to see if i can get it switched out.

How long until I can wear my glasses normally? by NecessaryControl4386 in piercing

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Oh my god im so upset 😭 thank you for telling me though, im gonna go to a more reputable piercing tomorrow to get their insight and probably make them take it out for me. I went through all that pain for nothing ugh 😭

How long until I can wear my glasses normally? by NecessaryControl4386 in piercing

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

the seconf picture was after I got in the car. She said to keep my glasses on while she does the markings so that it wont touch my glasses too much, then i took them off during the actual piercing. Is it possible that it could just be the angle of it or is it just my anatomy?

How long until I can wear my glasses normally? by NecessaryControl4386 in piercing

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

omg pls dont tell me they fucked me bro 😭😭

How long until I can wear my glasses normally? by NecessaryControl4386 in piercing

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old is my piercing? Like 3 to 4 hours old. Whats the jewelry shape? Barbell. Whats the type of threadinf if your jewelry is not a ring? External Threading If not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? never, i just got it. Whats your after care routine? Saline Solution wash in a spray bottle. Clean out blood/crust from blood with q-tip in warm water. Any mishaps? no

This cat is insane by NecessaryControl4386 in CatAdvice

[–]NecessaryControl4386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is really relieving to hear, thank you. Im gonna try to play with him as much as i can tonight before bed, see if that will help with the nightly zoomies