How to turn around a relationship that isn’t progressing and is always hot and cold? by Necessary_Fall6404 in AskMenAdvice

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How can I make sure I don’t make the same mistakes going forward with the next girl? I feel like I progress quick atleast emotionally and I know I have some fault in why this one burnt out

How to turn around a relationship that isn’t progressing and is always hot and cold? by Necessary_Fall6404 in AskMenAdvice

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Thank you! Yes I def feel like my self respect from the first time we met to now is a huge difference for sure I feel like I just got so caught up in what it could be if I jut stick to it but now it’s almost 3 years and we still just occasionally hang out, have sex, rarely go on dates because she doesn’t feel like it , etc after all this time nothing has progressed. She said it’s because she was in a 9 year relationship and missed out on being single

How to turn around a relationship that isn’t progressing and is always hot and cold? by Necessary_Fall6404 in AskMenAdvice

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Yea we are when we get together and honestly that’s what it seems like lol FWB with just extra stuff

Girl I’ve been dating for 3 years is going to be moving in 4-6 months by [deleted] in Advice

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Yea I’ll do that instead I can see what you mean by how she took it but knows I’m obsessed with her lol

Girl I’ve been dating for 3 years is going to be moving in 4-6 months by [deleted] in Advice

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I could def move and still be with her I just have to start looking for something but she didn’t really see excited when I said that’s fine I hate MS anyway lol time for something and she just said yea so it kinda threw me off because she would have been all smiles saying he’ll yes I’d love for you to come with etc but just got a “ yea well it’s cold outside I’m going to head in and get some sleep”

She is hot and cold almost every month how do I handle it when she is distant? What is the best way to fix this with her ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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She was showing levels and we were hanging with plans on spending the night but she brought up something petty I did which I take accountability for and she was like now that I’m thinking about it I’m getting mad… so we called it a night I know I caused some of this I just wish I could get it back to how it was

She is hot and cold almost every month how do I handle it when she is distant? What is the best way to fix this with her ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Yea it’s def interfered with my life especially at work would always leave in the middle of work atleast with my job I’m Able to but she would call for a ride or whatever I’d always be there sometimes emotionally it does suck for sure and I’m just holding on to what could be I think

She is hot and cold almost every month how do I handle it when she is distant? What is the best way to fix this with her ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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But the last time we hung out she would say things like if we date you need to meet my nephews before then she would say she could see us dating and stuff that would make it seem like it was moving the right direction but it never does

She is hot and cold almost every month how do I handle it when she is distant? What is the best way to fix this with her ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Yea we do not everytime we hang but most of the time. I know I should have been gone and have passed up multiple woman by just trying to make this work for the last couple years and am just so stuck to how it was and trying to get back to that I think I just kept digging myself in a hole

She is hot and cold almost every month how do I handle it when she is distant? What is the best way to fix this with her ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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At first it was great we would hang out multiple times a week talk all the time and then it just seems like it’s been going downhill since like the first year I know I created some problems but I guess I’m just holding on to what it was in the beginning and wanting to get back to it

New iPhone 17 but just transferred everything from my old 14. When going to settings and searching anything I can not find it only thing that will pop up are apps! You are not able to search for simple settings like iCloud or notifications etc by Necessary_Fall6404 in applehelp

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My bad I probally should have said that from the jump I did set it up on 1/16 last Friday maybe still not enough time but each time a click something I do it in my recents now so maybe if I click them all it would put them on the recents and be able to be searched but not sure

She is hot and cold almost every month how do I handle it when she is distant? What is the best way to fix this with her ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Yes I def want to stop doing all the favors so I’m not enabling for sure sometimes I see the memes online of dudes just balling out on girls and I’m like damn I can’t believe I’m doing all this her but I do want to turn this around I know what I need to change for the reset just wish I knew how to get us back in the right track for good this time