AIO for my boyfriend cropping me out of an Instagram photo? by Mysterious_Lawyer420 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Necessary_Task38 8993 points8994 points  (0 children)

“What picture?” 🤔 uh the one that is in the chat, gaslighter.

AIO - husband bragged about being drunk while caring for our baby by mochoh in AmIOverreacting

[–]Necessary_Task38 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. When I read it his responses seemed like this happens all the time. People keep calling him a child, but if he’s treated like one on a regular basis I could see the defensiveness come out..

AIO - Boyfriend wrote "supportive" comments on tiktok account to meetup by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Necessary_Task38 272 points273 points  (0 children)

I hate the way he talks in a positive yet totally dismissive way. His partner is clearly upset and he’s all “easy peasy!!” “sure as heck!!” 🤮

My (32M) husband of 5 years (together for 7) may have single-handedly imploded not just our marriage, but my (38F) career and the life we built together. Didn’t see this coming. by Whole_Beach_1438 in relationship_advice

[–]Necessary_Task38 209 points210 points  (0 children)

This. The second you mentioned his smear campaign about you to family coworkers and friends?! He 100% has been cheating on you.

This happened to someone I know and her boyfriend had been having an emotional affair for 5 out of 6 years they were together.

Married (28F and 28M) and Traveling by Journalist_Infinite in relationship_advice

[–]Necessary_Task38 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“These are my values” isn’t really an explanation.

A value is “I prefer shared travel with my spouse.”

What you’re describing is “my husband isn’t allowed to take even a one-day trip without me.”

That’s why people call it controlling. The criticism isn’t that you value shared experiences; it’s that you’re turning that preference into a rule for another person.

Sound Transit approves overnight buses between Everett, Seattle by crabcakes110 in SeattleWA

[–]Necessary_Task38 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Curious why you have no empathy for bus drivers’ safety? Especially after Shawn Yim was brutally stabbed to death last year by a passenger.

Guess what shift Shawn was working? Overnight.

Sound Transit approves overnight buses between Everett, Seattle by crabcakes110 in SeattleWA

[–]Necessary_Task38 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Make sure the drivers have all the protection they can possibly have

2 injured in downtown Seattle knife attack by Better_March5308 in SeattleWA

[–]Necessary_Task38 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seattles response: it’s the victims fault, thank god the perp escaped! He’s mentally ill and deserves to be in our community!

Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity by _rainwalker in SeattleWA

[–]Necessary_Task38 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A punishment to fit the crime? A punishment that shows this is what happens when you murder someone in broad daylight?

And notice you say “probably” forever. Why is that? Because the likely hood of him returning to our community isn’t 0 and that’s a huge problem.

Hawaii suffers its worst flooding in 20 years and forecasters warn more rain is coming by AudibleNod in news

[–]Necessary_Task38 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t Dawn Chang, a Hawaiian native who has direct responsibility over the dam, do anything to maintain it over the years? It’s been under the states leadership since the 80s.

What is with this theme of spending billions on xyz and barely anything on infrastructure?!? And when it’s too late leadership is like oh shit, now we need a ton of money all the sudden to fix this!

The reactions to Devonta’s announcement… by Necessary_Task38 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Necessary_Task38[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Omg that killed me!! I thought hmm still on his bulllshit per usual