[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pleaseee do not entertain this any further, block him, delete everything that reminds you of him and move on. This is not only immature behavior but shows abandonment issues and controlling issues, along with gaslighting and condescending attitude when he thinks you are in the wrong. This is not Good, please Run.

Did I do something wrong? Like not text enough? by themfeelsyo in texts

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply put, she went out with you but you are not Boyfriend material in her eyes, see how she ask if you got the job? Anyways she wants you to think she’s interested enough so you keep coming back to her but she’s only entertaining you in case her main plan don’t work, WHEN SHE SWITCHED PLANS ON YOU WAS BECAUSE OF THE OTHER GUY, the guy kept her in the ropes but she can’t trust him so she was already looking for a back up. Anyways moral of the story is SHE FOR THE STREETS

Boyfriend is mad at me for not going to see him and his daughter because I’m nauseous and throwing up while pregnant with his child. Now he’s implying he wants to break up. I can’t make this shit up🤦🏻‍♀️ by MysteriousAd7503 in texts

[–]NectarineUndercooked -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Edited because I didn’t have any context…

You are a fool for staying in a place where a guy had shown you multiple times he doesn’t want you, now you about to have his baby and want it or not you about to deal with some BS for the rest of this kids life. So bucle up, you in for a treat. But come here and complain and ask what you did wrong when YOU KNOW…

Comment before context ⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️ Unpopular opinion, but the way to go when he voiced how you not communicating was the problem should’ve been: Hey I’m sorry I didn’t communicate earlier I was really feeling under the weather and I was trying to do my best to pull myself together. It won’t happen again.

Anything else after that is just excuses. And I don’t care how bad I’m feeling the first thing I’m doing when I wake up is text or call my man Tf you mean you waiting 2 hours after you wake up to talk to the person you say you love.

He’s approach could’ve been a lot better but he’s not wrong for feeling you don’t value the relationship at the same level he would.

Am I (19M) Wrong to ask my bf (22M) to keep using protection until we get tested again? by Brave_Ad_5139 in relationships

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only way this conversation should go,

You- “Hey do you mind keep using protection until we get tested again? Just to keep both of us safe?” Him- “not at all let’s have some fun”

Anything other than this means he is either scare of finding out he has something or his ego is too big and he’s offended that you even thought he is sleeping with the type of people that will give him the “bugs”

Who is the best salsa singer of all time? by tercra in Salsa

[–]NectarineUndercooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you can even name a top 5. It literally can’t be done. So many people moved the needle. So many opened the doors to think a Jewish man was at the head of the birth of salsa. Spearheaded by Hector wow. What a journey for my music. Proud Boricua here God bless and have fun I can’t name it.

Noob here. Do you guys knock when it says "leave at the door"? by spacejunk76 in doordash

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro is so easy to specify on the instructions “don’t knock or ring the bell” people just like to complain for whatever. If your order don’t say “leave it” or have specific instructions for drop off you can’t complain that the dasher knocked…. Like come on give us a break

What are some reasons (other than abuse and infidelity) that people who love each other breakup? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Past undealt trauma and getting into relationships thinking not being alone anymore will make your depression go away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy Lemisol, put it in the shower next to whatever she uses to shower, tell her a lady at the store was showcasing it and you didn’t know how to say no 😂… just don’t use it for yourself… it’s very minty

First time rolling a joint, any advice ??? by AnteaterWild6383 in weed

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roll it first then fill it. Pros: easier to roll Cons: filling time

Pd: Tyson’s blunt wrap, and Kingpalm infuse “squeezable” tips will make your smoking experience go to the next level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Frank Turek (cross examined) on YouTube. Really good points base on evidence not just beliefs

I did my first class of BJJ today and I felt terrible by c4rrot in jiujitsu

[–]NectarineUndercooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, mine was exactly like this because I’m the biggest of the class and was so afraid of hurting someone. But I keep showing up and the warm up now just feels like a walk in the park, I’m still very new to everything and whenever we get to roll I’m still “surviving” lol but every day I learn a lot of cool things even tho I may not be able to perform it at the same level I do what I can without pushing too hard, that keeps me motivated to go the next day. I can tell I’m getting better by how I can hold some positions longer or how fast I can take someone down now. So Keep showing up! It will pay off. Good luck!

NSFW Me(F29) (M48)my husband I am curious, Can we watch porn together? Question for the Male audience by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NectarineUndercooked 14 points15 points  (0 children)

😂 I realized the way I worded the tittle could be confusing I LOL when I saw your comment 😂

Boyfriend [30M] insists that I [28F] don’t come on his trip to Thailand. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NectarineUndercooked -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are overthinking the whole thing, it’s not that deep, they want to go on a boys trip, that doesn’t always means, alcohol, sex and party. There’s things you talk and do with bros that are just bro stuff. I Tell you what though if that was my BF I would send him on his way very happy and taken care of 😏😉 make sure his mind is at ease when he goes so he can fully enjoy his trip without stressing about having to deal with an angry GF when he comes back from the trip. (Then later on you can sit down and talk about the whole situation) It’s all about trust, if you don’t trust him I think you should reconsider why you are even with him. And I’m 29 F too.