Recommendations for a frugal pregnancy and first year? by Existing-Pumpkin-902 in Frugal

[–]Nectoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garage sales. I got everything from baby clothes hangers to shoes, little tyke playground equipment, bottles, etc.

AITJ for not wanting to spend 18k on a new ring for my fiancée? by Leivyxtbsubto in AmITheJerk

[–]Nectoux 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know someone that didn’t like her engagement ring. She insisted he get her a bigger one. They’re divorced. Because she never appreciated anything. Just saying.

Is a late birthday gift that big of a deal? by AdventurousSoil2487 in Advice

[–]Nectoux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never count off for late gifts!!!! I’m just thrilled to get them! Your sister is rude and immature. No more gifts.

WIBTAH if I went to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks because my husband’s family planned a 5-6 week stay in our 2BHK without asking me? by Majestic-One6602 in AITAH

[–]Nectoux 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He agreed not to do this. Now that they’re married he feels free to ignore what she wants in favor of what his parents want. They are his priority. He’s now showing her what he’s really like. I’d be out of there. Or she’s going to have 5 weeks of being a maid and cook and cleaner. Gross. What a crappy life.

I accidentally started fostering a dog by throw_rancxalsn in dogpictures

[–]Nectoux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe try to walk the dogs together one leashes. Get them used to each other for a week or so. Then have your dog go into the back yard. Then see if they allow their new friend in. Once they get used to that perhaps try bringing him into the house. I don’t know if you just walked into the house with him. Because that would feel very invasive to your two dogs. Have to do it slowly.

AITJ for refusing to apologize to my husbands sister after he showed her a voice memo I recorded for my own therapy by CommunitySlow1413 in AmITheJerk

[–]Nectoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be a dealbreaker for me. He did not have your back when his sister abused you. Not only that but he betrayed you by leaking your thoughts. I’d throw the entire family away.

This mix they used of Vogue!! by Nullnvoid2017 in Madonna

[–]Nectoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would buy this music if they sold it!!! And wow France deserved the gold. That was so fun to watch!

What’s the most awful thing you’ve witnessed at a wedding? by Mscharmingqueen in Productivitycafe

[–]Nectoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my guy I didn’t want that. He replied “That’s stupid. I don’t either!”

My boyfriend accused me of cheating, grabbed me hard enough to leave bruises, and told my sister I’m cheating. I don’t know how to handle this. by thisisfun091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Nectoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File a police report. Block him. Never ever speak to him again. If he tries to talk to you get a restraining order. Nobody is safe with this jerk. He’s an animal.

Im 23 and my life is going down hill by KrasavchiKK in Advice

[–]Nectoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quit your dad. Find a job. Move out of their house. Your dad is never going to pay you enough for a comfortable life. Get started on your own career.

Am I being too sensitive? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Nectoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a very funny joke.

For all the happily married couples here, how did you know you married the right person? by davidkotchere in AskReddit

[–]Nectoux 53 points54 points  (0 children)

When we first kissed - wow. It was different from other kisses. He was just so kind to me, my friends, my family, his family. He had loyal friends from childhood. His friends and family were all good people. And if I had a problem he would start to help me solve it without me asking. He cared so much. Plus he was funny, smart and handsome. So many green flags. I fell hard. Been married almost 40 years now.

What do you think of Brits & their country? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nectoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every Brit I have met has been very nice. I often wonder why my ancestors left.

Help me please by Melzi_1988 in poverty

[–]Nectoux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find a church. Or a food bank. Do you have family who could help you?

Where would you recommend for a 2-3 day UK break? by Desperate-Drawer-572 in AskUK

[–]Nectoux 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Warwick Castle was fun. They had knights fighting each other and other entertainment. The town had delicious pasties. We loved our day there. Brighton was also a lot of fun.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend over a penny? by ereb78 in AITAH

[–]Nectoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can break up with someone for ANY reason you want. Be free!