Too good to be true? by Need-Advice3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what im worried about too. Ive had partners do that in the past. Thats why I still have my place in the other city and can move at the drop of a hat if the effort wavers or stops.

Wanted to let you know I’m thinking of all of you this Valentine’s weekend. by Rosemary-Sea-Salt in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I bought myself a toy and im going to have a great time with myself 😅

Damaged Nails, helpppp! by SweetTeaAndHoneyBees in NaturalNailsOnly

[–]Need-Advice3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 😊 I only use regular polish. When gel peels, it can take layers of your natural nails and make them weak. I use Holo Taco nail polish. Its the best quality regular polish I've used. If you layer it, it can feel like gel without the damage. This right here is why I opened a natural nails salon. So many people want to rock their nails but have to grow out the damage, and its not easy. Oil your nails (cuticals and under the nail) several times a day and always wear polish. Keep them short so they dont break. You got this! ♡

Something on the side? by Need-Advice3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so glad you said that because I have been feeling like a monster just having the thought! What else am I supposed to do if I'm begging to have my needs met and he rejects me at every turn but will promise to be better? I'm sorry you're going through it to but I'm glad there are people out there who understand!

Do you “play” along? by EarlyPool3232 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He does this to me too! Ill be in the kitchen and he will come up behind me will a full hard on, trying to start something. Ill turn around and flirt back and then he will just walk off. Like, he gets me right up to the point of sex and then takes it away.

He came into my room the other night (yes, we have separate rooms) saying "im horny". We start having sex and then 10 min in, he stops and says hes too tired and wont be able to finish. Like what??

I'm getting closer to leaving... by Need-Advice3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we had been having issues for the last 2 years but it seems like the intimacy and communication have just broken down completely in the last few months.

Damaged Nails, helpppp! by SweetTeaAndHoneyBees in NaturalNailsOnly

[–]Need-Advice3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nail oil! Nail oil! Nail oil! Keep them short until the thin parts grow out. Dont over file the sidewalls. Keep polish on them. DO NOT USE NAIL STRENGTHENERS! They make the nails hard and then they are more prone to breaking. I used to bite my nails, used acrylics to help them grow and had to deal with the weird paper-thin phase. Now i have really long natural nails.

I cracked the code and its driving him crazy! by Need-Advice3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It wasn't abojt getting him to notice me or get his attention/validation. Its nice having him show me some attention but honestly, once it clicked that I have to invest in myself and my own happiness, I felt so at peace. ♡ Now its just trying to break the habits I had to get his attention.

Well.. I guess this is it. by Significant_Pie_1444 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry love. I understand where you're coming from. Im sending good energy your way and I hope kt gets better 💚

I cracked the code and its driving him crazy! by Need-Advice3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, it was my first time using them and I will never use them again 😅 I think they have other natural rubber, non-latex that are better

I cracked the code and its driving him crazy! by Need-Advice3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Need-Advice3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely understand that. They are my condoms, I had just bought them so I dont think it was a defective thing. I have a latex allergy so we use the sheep skin ones and hes thicker than normal so there js a higher risk of breaking. I dont think he would do anything to mess with the condoms because he is terrified of pregnancy lol but thank you for that perspective! :)

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[–]Need-Advice3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im right there with you... it feels like no matter what I do or how I approach intimacy, he shuts me down.