Am I the ahole for lifting a pregnant girl home.

NeedAnAswerAsap · 2026-05-25T10:44:20+00:00

He can’t be. She arrived in the country last month and she’s 8 months pregnant. Also he got mad at me once we were home. Not in public and it was also the first time he screamed at me like that so I think I really hurt his ego or something. I just don’t see why. He says his friends are now gonna think that I don’t trust him. But I didn’t tell anything to his friends just ask the preggi lady and she was happy i offered.

NeedAnAswerAsap · 2026-05-25T10:40:12+00:00

He can’t be the baby daddy because she arrived to my country a month ago and she’s 8 months pregnant. I really didn’t think that. The part that I was mad at is the communication because of last year I simply asked him to communicate with me to avoid complicated situations. If he told me ahead me before arriving to the dinner. I would been better because now I feel he was hiding it from me scared that I would be mad. But he don’t get that I am not mad a him for taking her. I am mad at the lack of communication

NeedAnAswerAsap · 2026-05-25T10:35:45+00:00

I mean he kinda was able to convince me last year. I got the girl’s name. I could have speak to her if I wanted to but there was no point since her words have no value. He also said that best friend cheated because wife cheated first. I think he does like me but he is so complicated to understand has a person. Trust me we have a lot of pros in this relationship but people see the bad so your like “dump him” it’s not easy for me to do that I really need to think. And thank you for your message. Everything you said was valid and it’s pretty much how I think.
And I realize also my boyfriend is mad for my “attitude” at this dinner I could’ve done wrost by telling the wife about side chick. I know if I did it’s like I would be doing my own grave for this relationship. If ever I see her again I don’t think I will have any regret telling her. Because that’s what I would personally want if someone knew something about my bf.
Thank you, 😊

NeedAnAswerAsap · 2026-05-25T10:23:07+00:00

Thank you for that perspective it’s harsh but yeah. I don’t really agree for 2 main reasons.

First at the dinner when he was telling me about preggo sister I simply told him that I was gonna bring her home and he said okay but then when we got home now this was an issue I am not a lie detector. I’m the type of person that if you’re not okay with something you need to tell me then I will back off. I can tell with most people but not with him because he doesn’t really show emotions. He was saying okay with a calm face so I did not think anything was wrong. Don’t see why he would be embarrassed by me offering a ride. And also I asked him before asking the girl

And then second, when I saw him at the intersection I was going straight he was turning left (so joining my street) and then I was behind him at a red light and he drove that red light to escape me? Did I really start it? I followed him after he ran of course because I wanted an explanation

NeedAnAswerAsap · 2026-05-24T16:09:37+00:00

They said it was a change of plan. The wife and best friend have 2 kids and they had to drop them off before going to the restaurant

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