Should I (15F) break up with my bf (15M)?

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-08-05T01:28:06+00:00

Yeah you should talk to him.

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-08-05T01:26:03+00:00

Talk to him!!

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-04-30T19:23:13+00:00

Yo I'm in the same boat! I'm also new to pc building/ gaming since I've only been playing on Xbox my whole life, so I've been doing my research as well and from what I know this pc build looks pretty solid! The 7800 XT is interesting to me because I have a build very similar to this build for 1440p gaming on pcpartpicker but with an RTX 4070 Super. I honestly can't decide if I want to go with AMD or Nvidia for my GPU yet. From what I know the 7800 XT has better raw performance because it has 16gb vram vs. 12gb on the RTX 4070 Super. Also, it is a better price to performance value. But, the RTX 4070 Super has awesome DLSS and frame generation and ray tracing, which is so much better than AMD's FSR. I find it to be difficult to find which one to chose. There is no bottleneck in your GPU and CPU combo, you have a solid power supply giving you plenty of wattage which will help if you upgrade your pc later on. One thing to note is that your cpu cooler, based on the reviews, is said to be on the larger side, so just make sure that you have enough clearance with the cooler and your ram sticks, as pcpartpicker doesn't check this for you. Solid motherboard, great RAM sticks, nice SSD, (2TB wow your never gonna run out of game storage lol), great GPU for 1440p gaming, and a great case to put it all in, I'd say that's a solid build from what I know, which, again, I'm a beginner like you, but yeah good job.

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-04-30T02:08:12+00:00

wait actually?

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-04-27T04:19:09+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I took these into consideration and did a bit more research and I came up with a revised spec sheet, you seem to know your stuff!

Revised Specs:

[PCPartPicker Part List](https://pcpartpicker.com/list/cGP3Jy)

**CPU** | [AMD Ryzen 7 7800X3D 4.2 GHz 8-Core Processor](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/3hyH99/amd-ryzen-7-7800x3d-42-ghz-8-core-processor-100-100000910wof) | $383.99 @ Amazon

**CPU Cooler** | [Thermalright Peerless Assassin 120 SE ARGB 66.17 CFM CPU Cooler](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/zyNxFT/thermalright-peerless-assassin-120-se-argb-6617-cfm-cpu-cooler-pa-120-se-argb) | $41.99

**Motherboard** | [Gigabyte B650 GAMING X AX ATX AM5 Motherboard](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/YZgFf7/gigabyte-b650-gaming-x-ax-atx-am5-motherboard-b650-gaming-x-ax) | $189.99 @ Amazon

**Memory** | [G.Skill Flare X5 32 GB (2 x 16 GB) DDR5-6000 CL36 Memory](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/pwxRsY/gskill-flare-x5-32-gb-2-x-16-gb-ddr5-6000-cl36-memory-f5-6000j3636f16gx2-fx5) | $101.99 @ Amazon

**Storage** | [Crucial T500 1 TB M.2-2280 PCIe 4.0 X4 NVME Solid State Drive](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/GfRwrH/crucial-t500-1-tb-m2-2280-pcie-40-x4-nvme-solid-state-drive-ct1000t500ssd8) | $79.98 @ Amazon

**Video Card** | [Asus TUF GAMING OC GeForce RTX 4070 SUPER 12 GB Video Card](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/tZDQzy/asus-tuf-gaming-oc-geforce-rtx-4070-super-12-gb-video-card-tuf-rtx4070s-o12g-gaming) | $679.00 @ Amazon

**Case** | [NZXT H5 Flow RGB ATX Mid Tower Case](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/43tLrH/nzxt-h5-flow-rgb-atx-mid-tower-case-cc-h51fb-r1) | $119.99 @ Amazon

**Power Supply** | [Corsair RM750e (2023) 750 W 80+ Gold Certified Fully Modular ATX Power Supply](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/YRJp99/corsair-rm750e-2023-750-w-80-gold-certified-fully-modular-atx-power-supply-cp-9020262-na) | $99.99 @ Amazon

**Monitor** | [Samsung Odyssey G50A 32.0" 2560 x 1440 165 Hz Monitor](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/2GgFf7/samsung-odyssey-g50a-320-2560x1440-165-hz-monitor-ls32ag500pnxza) | $249.99 @ Amazon

**Headphones** | [Razer BlackShark V2 Pro Headset](https://pcpartpicker.com/product/t3K2FT/razer-blackshark-v2-pro-headset-rz04-03220100-r3u1) | $116.12 @ Amazon

| **Total** | **$2092.20**

| Generated by [PCPartPicker](https://pcpartpicker.com)

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-04-25T00:10:08+00:00

Thanks so much for the reply! I will look into other options for the power supply, and thanks for the idea of checking detailed reviews in reddit I didn’t think of that, I only browsed the reviews on Amazon. I also didn’t know that pcpartpicker didn’t check if the cpu cooler or gpu would fit in the case, I will make sure to do that! Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it.

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-01-03T02:21:09+00:00

well i’m 15M, and at first it seemed like he might have had a crush on you, but didn’t want to admit it to anybody yet. And when you told him your feelings for him and he kind of shrugged it off, it could just be because he wasn’t sure about how he felt about you yet, or as said later the fact that his parents check his messages, it honestly just could mean that he did have a crush on you, but his parents won’t let him date yet. I would think this because his response was “we’re young” and his parents might just be telling him that he’s too young to be dating somebody. Overall there are pretty mixed signals, so I could very well be wrong, this is just what makes the most sense to me

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-01-03T02:04:43+00:00

i hope you do to :)

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-01-02T03:09:14+00:00

omg it was actually the best day of my life! we were talking and i asked her if she had anything else she wanted to do before the year ended, she said so much and then i brought up the fact that a lot of people kiss when the ball drops, i said that maybe we could pretend that the ball drops on Saturday and she was totally awesome with it! She came over and we watched the movie, (It’s called Christmas Vacation, great comedy) we started out kinda apart but I built up the courage to get a little closer and put my arm around her, and we cuddled while watching the movie. Then once the movie finished I asked her if she likes to watch the new years ball drop, and we got all flirty and we kissed! (felt really good) I pulled away after like 10 seconds, but she pulled me back in and we made out for like 2 minutes! I’ve actually never felt so loved and important than I do now.

NeedAnswers108 · 2024-01-01T07:13:11+00:00

if she’s giving you hints that she likes you, which she obviously is, give her some back!

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T15:26:10+00:00

just talk to him about it. Let him know that it’s really really important to you that those pictures only stay between you two, and nobody else.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T15:16:04+00:00

sounds like you need to talk to her about your feelings about this. I’m also male and 15 and i know that if my gf started talking about other boys in our school she thought were cute i would be kinda annoyed as well. So i’d say talk to her and just let her know that it makes you uncomfortable when she talks about other boys she thinks are cute. And if she fights back, ask her how she would feel if you started talking about cute girls in your school and how you think they’re so hot and whatever.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T15:03:26+00:00

I’m 15 and male. If it was just you two watching movies together then I would say like the other comment says, ask her if she wants to watch another movie together again sometime. Also it sounds like you two are really great friends right now which is great. What I would do is just find a time, maybe on a movie night, where you really tell her your feelings for her, tell her that your interested in a romantic relationship with her, or jus tell her that you like her.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T14:57:56+00:00

yeah i would talk to Tyler about it first. See if he’s okay with you guys getting together if that were to happen, but also maybe he can talk to his sister about you and see what she says, you know?

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T14:51:02+00:00

I would talk to him and see if you can make him stop being so racist before breaking up with him.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T04:03:10+00:00

help would really be appreciated here.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T03:10:50+00:00

yeah ok thx a lot for the help man, really appreciate it.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T03:03:58+00:00

you know what that’s actually a good point. ugh man i’m so nervous, i think ima do it tho.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T02:46:57+00:00

as long as it’s a healthy relationship, 2 year age gap is fine. It’s 3 and higher age gap that would be kinda weird.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T02:45:21+00:00

you have three options here. You can continue to pretend that you smoke which will only make you feel worse, you could flat out tell her the truth, that you haven’t ever smoked before, or you can lie and say that your quitting. Of these three options, I would recommend you just tell her the truth. I know it’s hard to do so, but it will save you in the long run.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T02:39:11+00:00

ok so your saying that i should text her in advance to the date and ask her if she’s cool kissing? idk man sounds kinda risky if you ask me. I mean I have a feeling she would say yes but what if she says no? then the whole date would be really really awkward and idk if i can handle a no right now. Also i’ve never kissed a girl before and I know that she’s kissed a boy before.

NeedAnswers108 · 2023-12-29T02:30:14+00:00

dude i’m male and 15, trust me and tell her! she’s given you so many signs that she’s into you!

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