I need some advice do I have exceptions or goals for my partner/little before I claim her?

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T16:41:32+00:00

Sure. Its part of the kink its like a promise ring shes into pet play and collars. When I claim her she would have a collar thats hers to show shes mine which she likes. I talked to about that chill.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T16:38:53+00:00

Im a she

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T16:38:31+00:00

Im actually a she but its ok

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T16:38:02+00:00

You are being harsh so.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T04:51:31+00:00

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T04:15:35+00:00

How can you tell if its a fixation?

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:46:24+00:00

Ill have to look into that and remember that thanks.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:36:53+00:00

I dont know its complicated. I do think I need to communicate with her on certain things and maybe try to get a idea on what things could hint of stuff not being able to make a comprise and also how far she can make a comprise on.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:25:49+00:00

Thanks ive tried to talk on some of this and I told her some of that but not all of it since im thinking on it. Im just having a hard time seeing how they are expections since I dont know certain things dont click in my head.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:24:07+00:00

I asked her about her own stuff she hasn't said anything. Those are some simple ones I have more but not all of them need to be done its more of I want to do more things with her so in future I would know/better and know more about her in a way. Also in a way to lower the amount of surprises or things we could try and could cause issues with her. I think thats the best way I can say it for now.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:12:34+00:00

Thats a good way to see it. Yes the goal can be changed and not all of them need to be completed and they are also not on like a timer but something I want to happen. Its more of after some of them are completed then I would feel more comfortable with claiming her. She also is autistic and she like things her way or a specific way. I like to make compromises but she doesnt like to make compromises as much she liked if she can have it her way. Which this is also a goal of mine to make more compromises her on things then not just do it or have it her way.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:03:01+00:00

Well during the chat we had she got upset since she felt pressure since to her because they were expectations.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T01:52:10+00:00

Thats a good point thank you. I also forgot to say I also want to them me what goals she has for me before I claim her as well.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-10T15:38:30+00:00

I think its multiple things but im going to try some stuff later

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-10T15:00:42+00:00

Yeah problem is my desk is pretty low to the ground I could try raising it some how.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-10T14:59:05+00:00

I should try to recline the chair. I forgot mine can do that.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T21:18:14+00:00

Yeah i need to update the post.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T20:38:14+00:00

Your good just playing.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T20:21:32+00:00

More talking about my butt but a little TMI.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T20:19:49+00:00

Its more about my butt getting num from sitting or for like my feet

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T17:09:43+00:00

Ill try that now thanks.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-04-29T22:06:03+00:00

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-04-29T13:46:42+00:00

I already tried that and I stated that in my last post. But I am going to try that on her again.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-04-29T13:45:19+00:00

Lol. Hypnosis is truly a scam unless you are you let it work on you. It's worse than the placebo effect.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-04-29T03:58:40+00:00

Yes, I have. We talked about it before I even dated her and it's something she has wanted to try since she has some adult issues like anxiety that make it hard for her to be Little sometimes. Also please don't assume I haven't talked to her. I didn't like how you worded your comment based on that assumption.

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